if you've experienced cheating my heart goes out to you it is an awful experience I know if you can set aside your pain and bitterness just for a moment and your pain and bitterness is completely understandable but if you can set that aside then this video will help you learn why women cheat in long-term relationships so that you can help prevent it from ever happening again there is something you can do a lot of the time and in this video you're going to learn why men assume women cheat for opportunity to the top five reasons
women actually cheat in a long-term relationship how to prevent cheating in a long-term relationship and if once a cheater always a cheater is fact or fiction if you're new to my channel my name is Anna Jorgensen welcome to just the tip fact men and women are different in some ways no matter what they try to tell you this is actually a true statement but if you assume women and men are the same then you're going to assume women in men's sheet for the same reasons sometimes this is true sometimes this is not true and if
you assume women are like men then you might assume women cheat because of opportunity sexual attraction and opportunity and the reason why you think that is because that's actually more true for men you are built to spread your seed and procreate men are more apt to cheat for novelty than women are women typically will cheat because of emotional discontent key Point opportunity and sexual attraction usually only happens when a woman has experienced emotional discontent in her primary relationship however here's why you think this as well if a woman is emotionally damaged then there's a higher
chance she's going to feel emotionally discontent in that primary relationship no matter how good a man you are so let's get into the five main reasons women cheat in law long-term relationships the first one is when she feels trapped however it's really more about her feeling under appreciated just like it's important for her to continue to show you that she values and appreciates you throughout your relationship you must do the same for her relationships are a two-way street they require ongoing maintenance just like you take your car into the shop once in a while to
get a tune-up or you go to the gym more than once because going to the gym once is not going to get you fit for Life relationships require maintenance that's a reality so how do you prevent her from cheating because she feels underappreciated well you show her appreciation and she should do the same for you so you can plan special dates you can surprise each other with thoughtful gestures and of course express your love and gratitude for each other bonus points for either both of you if you express love the way you're partner likes to
receive it this can be as simple as have I told you lately how much I appreciate you when it's not expected maybe she hasn't done anything ladies do this for your man as well it could sound like even when we're not doing anything I feel happy when we're together it can sound like let me take care of that I know it's not your favorite thing to do wouldn't you like to hear these things from your partner from your wife your girlfriend these are things you should be saying to each other to maintain the relationship two
a lack of emotional connection okay so here's another one where men and women are a little bit different so when a man wants to connect emotionally with a woman he starts with physical intimacy or sexual intimacy where I ask for a woman she needs to start with emotional intimacy and that will help her lead to sexual intimacy no wonder there's so much confusion between men and women if she doesn't feel an emotional connection she will have a really difficult time becoming aroused by you and she may withhold sex from you the next thing you know
she's chatting with Charlie at the water cooler telling him all about her relationship woes and he's all understanding and they're building a what an emotional connection pretty soon Charlie starts looking a little better you know where that leads to key Point reminder studies continue to show that women tend to cheat in long-term relationships because they lack emotional connection in their primary relationship whereas men tend to cheat because they lack physical intimacy or sexual intimacy in order to get to that emotional connection men need emotional connection just as much as women but they arrive there in
a different route similar to Men If a woman feels taken for granted or underappreciated or ignored she's going to seek emotional connection and emotional intimacy elsewhere and that's what can lead to physical intimacy and cheating you both need to make time to communicate regularly and openly about your feelings feelings doesn't have to be about bringing up your childhood trauma although it can it's not necessary it can be as simple as saying something like hey what's going on in your world or how do you feel about this and for a woman it's just as important that
when she asks you questions like intended to connect with you emotionally that you don't shut her down it's about wanting to try to understand each other better and connect on a deeper level there's naughty in that one so again how do you prevent cheating from happening in this instance well again you can plan special dates with each other that means something to her or a special gesture that means something to her it really means caring enough to pay attention to the little things along the way it might sound like hey let's go to that new
restaurant you mentioned the other day or if she's having problems with a friend it might sound like what's going on with Mandy hint your job is to listen not fix unless she asks for your help and yes you can ask her do you want me to listen or do you want me to give you Solutions or offer Solutions don't assume she wants it fixed I know men love to fix that's your job that's how you're built but women often arrive at Solutions and feel connected just by talking about problems or life or whatever if she
says you never open up to her ask her hey what would you like me to open up about but you know be specific my mind doesn't work the same way yours does okay now the next one can be a bit tricky so if you're older um or younger and don't have a sex drive you might want to get your testosterone checked because number three is a lack of a satisfying sex life ooh ouch I know this one's a real tender tender issue for men because you're very very sensitive about your sexual performance and wanting to
please a woman and there's no question it's difficult or it's challenging to keep the spark alive after a lot of years together but it is possible you have to both want to try to though sometimes after years of being together sexual incompatibility can start to develop based on frequency or novelty or hormones whether it's your hormones or her hormones if either of you is sexually unsatisfied you need to have open communication about that I know this is a tricky one especially if you've never had those kind of conversations it's going to feel very awkward and
you're going to feel very vulnerable both sides are probably going to be very sensitive about the topic so so it's very important to introduce these kinds of conversations early on and continue to have them ongoing maintenance forever after this might sound like I know things change as time goes by and I'd actually like to get back to a place where we're more in sync with physical intimacy what are some things I can do to help you feel more relaxed or less stressed so you can maybe be in a place where you want to explore more
physicality with me key point when it comes to arousal sexual arousal men are like microwaves yeah just turn them on and women are like crock pots thank you I can't remember who told me that one I originally think I said what did I say like ovens but yeah crock pot even more it takes way longer starts not even that day it starts after the last time you had sex I know men and women are what different exactly and are also logical and women are emotional so asking her straight up how do I get more sex
out of you isn't going to work she's just going to feel offended and on the defense decoder not Creator here's the other part of this one though if you are having regular sex but it's become like Monday night meatloaf well you still need to spice it up a little you might want to try some new things together or experience some new things together that translate to the bedroom and you might have to have a conversation about what that's going to look like within the bounds and restrictions of your relationship now the next one is a
little different for men and women when it comes to cheating number four is about neglect and abuse when a man in a long-term relationship is neglected or abused by his woman he often doesn't have the self-esteem to go looking for someone else because he doesn't feel he's worthy of someone else however it doesn't work the same way for women even though her self-esteem is just as likely to plummet from neglect or abuse she is more likely to cheat and this is where most men assume women do the monkey branching and this while they're accurate this
is when women monkey Branch if they don't feel so low you know even if they do they might cheat with somebody else they believe can save them from their primary relationship of the neglecter or the abuser now obviously to prevent cheating in this category don't neglect or abuse her but sometimes neglect or abuse can be a little bit more subtle than overt and those are the areas where you might slip up a little again because of the differences between men and women a woman might feel neglected if a man is obsessed with work or he's
a workaholic he's out there busy you know making money for the family to try and provide for the family and meanwhile she needs more emotional connection or if you're obsessed with Hobbies or friends that exclude her she may feel neglected emotionally neglected at home and again that's when she's going to be susceptible to someone else who comes in and provides what you're not providing for her anymore 70 of women who have affairs fall in love with that other guy that's not about only physical attraction and opportunity unlike for men who tend to have more frequent
Affairs shorter term without falling in love so how to prevent neglect cheating well obviously don't abuse but also in today's world where women are boss babes and working just as much as men you need to have conversations about maintaining the connection within your relationship this might sound something like you know I know I'm working long hours to help us get ahead or stay afloat or pay off debt but am I doing this at the expense of our relationship or it might be we're both working too much are we both doing this at the expense of
our relationship okay now I'm going to give you the next one which is one that a lot of men assume is a primary reason and then I'm going to actually give you two bonus reasons why women cheat in long-term relationships so number five is Revenge and this has more to do with her character than anything you can do if she's an emotionally damaged woman or a narcissist and you've done something no matter how slight to betray her she may cheat as a means of seeking Revenge even if you'll never find out about it now of
course for your own Integrity you will want to make amends for anything you've done that you truly consider uh err on your part in the relationship that's just about being mature and accountable in a relationship which you should expect from her as well ladies you need to start taking more accountability sorry about true but Revenge goes beyond Justice it's mean-spirited contemptuous and cruel no matter what you've done wrong if she cheats on you for Revenge that's a major red flag Revenge can sound as innocent as well you did it first or now we're even ah
red flag a vengeful attitude is not a characteristic that can be easily changed and it will destroy your relationship now if you are the vengeful person then you need to seek help with a professional therapist to deal with that because it will ruin your relationships okay now I'm going to give you the two bonus reasons why women cheat in long-term relationships and then we're going to act to check once a cheater always a cheater you might be surprised bonus reason number one nature or nurture wait what do I mean by that well believe it or
not there are some new studies that show there can be a genetic predisposition to cheating more common with men sorry fellas however there's also a potential for social conditioning cheating if one or both of your parents cheated you saw one or both of your parents cheat you are also more likely to cheat in your relationship that doesn't mean you're going to but the statistics show people who've seen one or both of their parents cheat do cheat more often than those who didn't see their parents cheat bonus reason number two as a way out cheating is
usually or at least often a final deal breaker so if someone can't find a legitimate reason to exit a relationship then they might resort to cheating and it might not always be a conscious choice and I must say cheating is always a cowardly Choice okay now once the cheater always a cheater no uh however if someone has cheated once in a past relationship they are 25 more likely to cheat again in another future relationship said another way that means there's a 75 chance they won't cheat in another relationship down the road however the more often
they've cheated or the longer the affair went on the more likely they will cheat and of course cheating once does not guarantee you will cheat again sometimes you learn your lesson and that's enough understanding the reasons why women cheat can help you take the steps to strengthen the bond in your relationship to help prevent cheating so take the time to listen and communicate do special things for each other there's no 100 guarantee but you can do what you can do and if you're worried she might cheat or she might already be veering toward the cheating
Arena then you're going to want to watch my video on the signs that she will cheat on you soon thanks for being here big hug God bless
