hey what's up where you calling from G I'm calling from North Carolina how old are you man I'm pretty old now I'm 26 unfortunately okay go ahead talk to me what's going on sorry I was gonna try to be like uh I was trying to I was trying to I thought you had a question but yeah right now I'm just been feeling a lot of loneliness and uh and I tried dating apps in the past and stuff and they never seem to work out I've only been in one date in my entire life I've only
had one sexual experience that didn't go super well so I'm just trying to look for advice how to do and how to take women I'm actually attracted to and stuff I've been asking like chat GPT a lot of questions you've been asking chat GPT how to get Aid my goodness bro okay hold up let's don't cry don't cry don't relx it's like I would ask Tinder pictures like which one's the best picture and all this crap it's okay it's okay you just hav practice so let's let's figure out what the real issue is here all
right okay you the only had one sexual experience in your whole life yeah and I've been on uh Lu max. org for like a few years now which is not good either I know that right they've been telling you inel information right yeah like I thought about getting like genial plasting a bunch of other [ __ ] like remember that guy I I watched him a couple times and I realized how pathetic I was being because I had similar mindset to him I'm not as far gone but you know what I mean okay so what
are you doing to change this situation right now uh I started working out um I started doing stuff like I started like dermal rolling my eyebrows started to try to grow facial hair even and uh I've been dermar rolling it with Minoxidil and all this stuff s of finasteride and and right now right now I'm a little off kempt but some but I'm planning on growing my hair a little longer and stuff but otherwise okay so hold up hold up hold up let's slow down let's slow down we got a lot to work what are
you are you in school right now yeah I'm yeah I'm in school right now I was on in the library but yeah I've been pretty depressed for a couple of times I I know I got to stop watching pornography so I'm making steps to try to do that okay we got a lot to uncover let's give me give me one piece at a time Slow Down slow down what are you studying in school bro I'm studying uh I'm in grad school studying electrical engineering okay how long you been in school you look like engineering student
I know I was one of them um yeah I've been in school since uh so I was in school from 2016 to 2020 and then unfortunately what happened was uh I went to get a job but I had a lot of like body image issues and all this BS so I lost a couple jobs because of that because I could focus because I was thinking these girls I want to date like they're way too good for me and stuff and I felt like horrible because of that and that let me to get fir from jobs
because I I couldn't focus on my work literally wait Slow Down slow down hold up this is hold up hold up hold up you got fir from jobs because what you were staring at the girls no it's because I just felt like I wasn't attracted enough to like date those women and I was like isolated at home too for like a few years whates it have to do with your you couldn't do your regular job you were working the job what what does it have to do with your job I just stuff preoccupied my head
that didn't allow me to focus completely on the job that was what the issue was because you were worrying about [ __ ] the girls technically I was worrying about trying to date woman and stuff and why they don't want to date me and all this stuff my mom said it's like my mentality or something but okay and you were that was an engineering job I was a software engineer for a few years okay so now you're back in school grad school yeah and uh I actually got a job offered because I did well in
the internship so things are starting to look up a little bit okay all right we got a lot to pack all right first first first you can't begin you can't begin fire from your job because this this incel mind has overcome you so what you got to do is you got to start putting in some effort okay uh to make yourself listen slow down stop talking you got start putting in some effort what's so funny I'm just I'm I'm just I just it's just inv volunteer I just haven't been sleeping a lot you haven't been
sleeping a lot yeah okay you got look like you're losing your mind bro calm your ass down take a deep breath take a deep breath right now yeah I did sorry about that okay so what you gotta do is you got to start combating this okay right how often do you talk to girls uh I have a actually I have two female roommates so I talk to them like every day that doesn't count bro you you in you're you're their boy best friend you need to talk to girls that that you have interest in not
you you're tur into a boy best friend as with I have interest in I've probably only talked to like one this semester okay so you got to make it a point of emphasis to start talking to women that you like stop watching porn because you're addicted and it's is this is what porn does guys this is what porn does to men he can't sit still he's losing his his engineering job yeah like thisit is crazy stop stop Slow Down slow down the porn thing how often you watch porn uh sometimes it's once a week sometimes
it's like four times a week so it depends on the week so you gotta you gotta wean away from this addiction of watching other men have sex Yes sounds pathetic now I think about it yeah because you you're sitting up here getting off to another dude getting laid all right I know you don't want people to see you you're in the library but but yeah I'll I'll try to do I'll try to become more attractive than myself but no no it's not just about being become attractive your mindset is all [ __ ] up you
look like you you look like a deer in headlights you look lost you're 26 years old you only had one the girl you had sex with how did that happen um I don't I don't know I I was like hypnotized to become confident or something so I someone hypnotized me to become confident so I was actually confident for a night and that's how it worked out I guess you got hypnotized yes who hypnotized you bro some like guy from like my old campus yeah bro that sound like some nonsense bro did you get drunk a
little bit but I only drank like one drink I wasn't super drunk okay so you approached the girl yeah okay and that was the only sexual experience you ever had yes okay so listen to me you can be let's hypnotize your ass to be confident every day and the way we're going to do that is by action okay are you going to the gym yeah I've been going to the gym yeah okay how consistently are you doing that probably like two three times a week I know I have to do more okay you got to
go to the gym more consistently okay what are you in what um Raleigh North Carolina okay he doesn't want to say it all uh you got to go to the gym more consistently I need you to start talking to girls I need you to find an accountability partner okay that you can you're gonna pay money every time you watch porn okay sure because you need somebody to help you get off of this [ __ ] so you can start being more confident with yourself so you can start talking to more girls so you can just
overall just stop being a loser the fact that you got fired from a job because you over here thinking about women is insane yeah I know it's really bad my mom doesn't know the real reason either she just thinks I'm incompetent right so it this is what happens when you do monk more right and you [ __ ] obsessed with you think that work is going to solve your your lack of social skills like you listen you guys got testosterone you're a man whatever whatever anybody else tells you at the end of the day you
got a pair of nuts okay and it produce testosterone you gonna want some ass if you don't if you don't figure that [ __ ] out you gonna have a lot of issues in life yeah I've been having a lot of issues personally and mentally because of that yeah what kind of issues mentally it's just like feelings of inadequacy and then I'm thinking of like literally like like that crazy dude like that other guy thought about cutting open the face and I'm trying to stop thinking about it it's really dumb ain't nothing wrong with your
face bro you just gota you got to just switch up your hairstyle right just go to the gym and just try harder okay I'll I'll try to do that in all right man yep thank you all right bro have a good one
