here is a quick tutorial on how to be miserable for the rest of your life step one overthink every decision want to ensure you're always stressed overthink every decision you make whether it's something as simple as what to wear or as significant as your career path obsess over every possible outcome fear making the wrong choice so much that you end up making no choice at all the constant indecision will paralyze you and instead of moving forward you'll stay stuck always second guessing yourself the mental exhaustion will drain your energy leaving you anxious frustrated and overwhelmed
by even the smallest tasks step two wake up whenever you want to why bother with an early start set no alarms ignore fudger and just sleep in as long as you feel like after all your bed is so cozy and there's no rush in life let your day start in chaos with no sense of purpose or Direction by waking up late you're guaranteed to spend the rest of the day chasing time feeling unproductive and overwhelmed missing out on the morning blessings who cares you'll miss out on opportunities for Baraka and Clarity ensuring a sense of
misery right from the start step three procrastinate your way to failure why do today what you can do tomorrow procrastinate on everything your studies your work your prayers even your personal goals leave everything to the last minute and then stress out when deadlines hit or when you've missed opportunities altogether by procras inating you create a constant state of anxiety and panic in your life you'll always feel behind unaccomplished and overwhelmed wondering why you never seem to get anything done but hey at least you'll have scrolled through hundreds of Tik toks while putting off your responsibilities
step four compare yourself to others the shest way to feel miserable is to constantly measure your life against others scroll through social media and feel the Envy rise as you see others seemingly living their best lives fancy vacations perfect families great jobs don't reflect on the fact that these are highlights and not reality instead obsess over why you don't have the same this constant comparison will erode your selfworth and make you blind to your own blessings leaving you feeling inadequate and miserable every day step five ignore your relationship with Allah when was The Last Time
You Prayed sincerely when did you sit and make tiker or reflect on your purpose if you want to be miserable make sure you neglect all of this focus on distractions like endless entertainment late night binges on Netflix or scrolling mindlessly through your phone the more you push Allah out of your life the more disconnected restless and purposeless you'll feel without that spiritual anchor you'll be lost and the void inside you will grow bigger every day step six hold on to grudges forgiveness that's for the weak if someone wrongs you hold on to that bitterness as
tightly as possible let resentment fester in your heart like a poison every time you think about the person who hurt you let anger consume you grudges are an easy way to ensure you're never at peace they'll weigh you down fill your heart with negativity and keep you from moving forward in life by holding on to grudges you guarantee you'll live in the past constantly reliving your pain and trapping yourself in a cycle of emotional misery step seven avoid responsibility like is hard so why take responsibility when you can just blame others if things go wrong
it's never your fault blame your parents your boss your friends anyone but yourself avoid accountability at all costs and watch as nothing ever changes in your life by refusing to take responsibility you'll remain stuck unable to improve or grow you'll live in a constant state of helplessness always feeling like a victim of circumstances and never taking the Reigns of your own life step eight keep chasing after dunia your happiness should revolve around worldly success always look for more money a bigger house or the newest Gadget never be satisfied with what you have there's always something
better and you deserve it but here's the twist no matter how much you accumulate it will never be enough by the time you realize the emptiness of material Pursuits you'll be drained and constantly anxious always feeling like you're missing something the real treasure it's Out Of Reach because you're your heart is too attached to the fleeting pleasures of this world step nine live to please others what people think of you is the most important thing in life right so base all your decisions on that never say no even if you're overwhelmed dress speak and act
in ways that will get you approval even if it compromises your beliefs or values make sure every post every conversation every decision revolves around what others will think of you but here's the catch no matter how hard you try you can never please everyone so you'll live in a constant state of anxiety insecurity and confusion never feeling good enough step 10 surround yourself with negativity your environment shapes your mindset so fill it with as much negativity as possible keep company with people who drain your energy who gossip and who complain about everything allow their pessimism
to seep into your thoughts until you start seeing life through the same lens be the one who joins in the negativity criticizing and complaining about everything in life soon enough you'll find it impossible to see any beauty Joy or hope because you've trained your mind to focus only on what's wrong Step 11 forget death and the Hereafter push thoughts of death and the Hereafter far out of your mind Focus only on immediate pleasures and ignore any reflection on the consequences of your actions by living for the the here and now without any thought of your
soul you'll find yourself constantly anxious never at peace Because deep down you know you're unprepared when you finally face death it will come as a shock and all the things you prioritized in this life will vanish in an instant and there you have it follow these 10 steps and you're guaranteed a life full of misery but if you want the opposite a life of contentment peace and closeness to Allah do the exact opposite now it's your choice [Music]
