Let me pay for the bill. Yeah. I didn't think you was dead ass going to let me pay for the bill.
Why not? I always pay for you. But I'm sorry.
So, isn't it like your responsibility or whatever? Like your power. The moment a man opens his mouth and he says, "I'm not a trick and I'm not a s" is the moment I know I don't like that man anymore.
Even if I like even if I thought I liked him a little bit and he starts saying I'm not a trick. I'm not a Sim. I don't like you anymore cuz why can you learn?
I'm just like what's wrong with being a trick and what's wrong with being a Sim? Oh, you show love and you have money and you like to spend it cuz it comes back to you. When is that a bad thing?
I'm a trick. I'm not driving you anywhere. Yes, you are.
Drve me. Come on. What do you think this is?
How is it that I look like this today? Yet, no man wants me to be his girlfriend. What's up, everyone?
So, today we're talking about men who straight up refuse to simp for their girlfriends, and the women are losing their minds over it. I'm talking about guys who won't bend over backwards for every demand, won't fund expensive lifestyles, and won't put up with entitled behavior. These women are used to being catered to and spoiled.
But these men are setting boundaries and saying no. The reactions are wild and the entitlement is real. Let's dive into these moments where sing stops and selfrespect starts.
Okay. Would you let me take you on a date? Yeah, sure.
Get my number. Where you going to take me? Where you want to go?
I like steak houses. Like Oh, for sure. As long as you're paying, we can go wherever the you want.
Any steakhouse you want. I'm not paying you. Oh, you're not paying?
No. I don't think this is going to work. Sorry.
Okay. Yeah, it's giving broke. Yeah.
Sorry. Well, why should I follow you? Because I'm cool as How do I know that?
Yeah, because you don't even know me. I don't even know you. She is pretty cool, man.
You send [music] cuz you're a scent, bro. I'm not a sus. He just a gentleman.
He know he's a 15-year-old kid. He's a pretty girl and he's like, "Oh my god, follow her. " What?
I'm not I'm not insult. [music] It's your love. It's my law.
It's my It's my life's over. I didn't follow her, Chad. [music] My My life's over.
Hey, I was wondering if I can get your number by any chance. What about you? You want my number?
Yeah. I'm going to take it out. Well, no.
I'm not driving you anywhere. Yes, you are. Drve me.
Come on. What do you think this is? What do you think this is?
My world. Okay. I can do whatever I want.
You can do Okay. Yeah. You're my boyfriend.
And if you're not setting the standards in which I'm happy with, then you So, there's this guy. He's standing over there. He has like long hair, like red beard.
He's a little short, but he's really sexy at the same time. I'm going to go see if he is interested. [music] Like he's staring at me and I'm staring at him, but like he's not doing anything.
[music] It's kind of empty in here. I don't know. Maybe this is the time I actually say something.
It's been a while. He's kind of surrounded by people. [music] [music] You look good.
What you working on? Showing me. Yeah.
[music] Looks like I'm in a gym working out. Hey, fam. I'm only Please.
I'm sorry. Yeah. How is it that I look like this today?
Yet, no man wants me to be his girlfriend. Is this a serious question? Because women just went from saying they'd rather pick a bear over a man.
So why the hell would men approach you or even look in your direction? But not only that, so many women have taught men over the years that all men are predatorial. So the good men of the world gave up.
And it's so funny because women will constantly say that men don't listen. But now that men are listening, y'all are wondering where the good guys are at, why they don't approach you anymore, and why men are just simply not interested. And why the hell would they be interested?
They don't know if they're going to be the next subject of all men are trash content on social media. They don't know if they're going to be accused of doing something they didn't do. They don't know if they're going to be used for dates.
They don't know if they're going to be manipulated and then called a narcissist. And in this particular video, she's also asking why didn't they approach her because she looks the way that she looks. But the bottom line is is most women are basic.
There's nothing special to them. We all look the freaking same. So yeah, you actually have to come with more than just your looks.
You actually need a personality nowadays, too. Okay, bye. For anyone who's not on Tik Tok who is wondering what she's referring to when she said that women are picking a bear over a man, she's referring to this Tik Tok trend that went around where they did like street interviews with women where they asked, "Who would you rather be stuck in the woods with, a bear or a man?
" And the answers really reveal just how disgustingly sexist the average woman is. Because women overwhelmingly were answering, "Bear? I'd rather be in the woods with a bear than a man.
" I know that might sound ridiculous. I swear this is a real thing. You go on to Tik Tok, you type man versus bear, you'll see like compilations of women answering this way.
Thousands of videos of women being interviewed saying that they would feel safer in the company of a bear. They even covered this on the Whatever podcast. So, the question is, would you rather be stuck in the woods with a man or a bear?
A bear. Okay. What about you?
Yeah, bear. Probably a bear. Did you only say that because your two friends over here are Honestly, I just think that I would be able to outrun the bear.
[laughter] I feel like we hear more like horror stories about like sexual assault and so that fear is like ingrained in my head like it's more a negative comment on like how our social media and how media in general portray men because the image that you're getting of men is obviously pretty negative. Whereas generally speaking, men are not like that. It's more likely you'll meet a kind-hearted man in the woods than you will a kind-hearted bear.
I mean, the whole thing is so ridiculous, but it became really popular because this trend, this question, it really gets to the heart of what's happening in our culture. It reveals a lot about our societal beliefs and about female psychology. And I want to spend the rest of this video exploring.
Hey guys, it's Simone here and I'm coming to you with a realization. I'm not ready. I am not ready for a relationship.
I'm not ready for anything serious. And I realized that after years and years of me being like, I am so ready. I want to meet the perfect guy.
I'm just I'm ready to be a wife. D I'm not. I continuually went after emotionally unavailable men.
Um men who were uh traumatized by their early life experiences, men who had a lot of issues, men that needed therapy. And that's not a coincidence. I realized I am was self-sabotaging because when I really thought about it, I am not I don't want to live I've never lived with a man.
I'm 36 years old. I've never lived with a man. I don't want to live with a man.
I don't like I am so comfortable being in my home and my space with my child and we have our routine and we have the way things run in our house that I don't know what kind of person would make me want to give that up. So, after years of saying she's ready for marriage, the big realization is she doesn't actually want a relationship at all. She frames it like deep self-growth, but really it's just admitting she likes control, comfort, and doing things her own way, which is fine, but let's not pretend that's some sudden revelation.
Blaming a long history of bad choices on emotionally unavailable men and men who need therapy is convenient. At some point, if every relationship looks the same, the common factor isn't them. Being 36, never having lived with a partner and openly saying you don't want to share space isn't being not ready.
It's being settled in a single life and finally saying it out loud. This isn't a breakthrough. It's her realizing that the idea of a relationship sounded nice.
But the reality of compromise never did. Basically, she didn't stop sabotaging. She just finally admitted she prefers it that way.
Why? Why can't I have that half? Okay, here.
But why did you want to give me that to begin with? It's the same thing. It's the same thing.
It's literally the same sandwich cut in half. But why didn't you want to give me that one first? I don't care which one you want.
Here. You want this one? Take it.
No, I want that one now. Blaze, which one you want now? It's a pain.
Never mind. I don't want anything. I think I owe the men of the world an apology.
Let me explain before you come in my comments. I always think to myself, why don't men just approach women? Why?
It's not that hard. Just say hi. Just say hi.
Your hair is pretty. It's not that hard, right? Well, last night I learned it is hard.
Okay. And let me tell you what happened. So, I'm just sitting at the bar with my buddies just having a fun time and in walks some men who were attractive.
One in particular, I was like, "Wow, he's very handsome. " So, I'm chatting with my friends who are all male in this conversation. I'm like, "What do I do?
" Because I don't really approach men ever, but I also don't ever get approached. So, anyway, I'm thinking to myself, how bad could it be? [music] So, they suggest I send him a drink and I'm like, "Brilliant.
Oh my gosh. I've never done that before. That's so smart.
So, I send him his drink of choice, which was a Corona with lime. Whatever. Should have known.
Anyway, so some time goes by and he has not acknowledged that I've sent this drink. So, I'm like, "Okay, I guess I just go over there. " I walk up and I say, "Hey, how's your beer?
" [music] You know, I like bat my eyelashes, you know. And he looks at me and he goes, "Oh, you sent this? " [music] Yeah, I did.
It was me. And uh then he said nothing. Zero words exchanged.
And you know that gift of Britney Spears where she's like holding her purse and she's just standing there looking around like this. That was me in real life. And we just stared at each other.
And I said, "Okay, enjoy your night. " And then I had to turn around and march my way back to my little bar stool just wrapped in rejection. And now I have to think about that for the rest of my life.
So gentlemen, I'm sorry. That sucked. Would you rather have free strippers for life or a free pizza for life?
Man, no one's turning down free pizza for life. [laughter] And we got to eat. [music] You made me nervous.
Why? I think it's cuz I'm falling in love with you. Okay.
Um, don't do that. You do not owe him anything just because he took you to dinner. And you don't owe her by paying for the dinner just because she's a girl.
Got you, Real life mermaid, man. You say [music] mermaid. Who are you?
Not for us. 55. I felt like I was starting to fade.
I felt like I was starting to go invisible. I felt dismissed. I felt [clears throat] ignored.
I felt like I was washed up. When I was 15, I started modeling and it was a very hard thing to walk away from. Then around the age of 45, I started noticing that the way I was perceived was slightly different than what I had become used to.
And then I would put photos of myself in bikinis. All of a sudden, I started getting the influx of, "Are you a little desperate there, Grandma? How about you cover up and spare us the look of your poor aging body.
I was sort of getting relinquished to the invisible. What she's really reacting to isn't aging. It's losing constant validation.
She spent most of her life being praised for how she looked. So when that attention slowed down, it felt like she was becoming invisible. That's understandable, but also shows how much her self-worth was tied to external approval.
Posting bikini photos at 55 isn't the issue. The issue is doing it for reassurance and then being shocked when the internet responds harshly. Social media isn't a safe space.
It never has been. Calling herself washed up says more about how the industry trained her to value youth than about her actual worth. Modeling rewarded attention, not identity.
And once the attention faded, there was nothing solid underneath. Even my mom was just like, "You're dating a girl in a wheelchair. " And I'm like, "No, I'm dating a girl who happens to be in a wheelchair and she's amazing.
" And so, um, I didn't even really think about like all the things and that I would have to do, whether it's loading her chair in and out of the car, picking up the dog poop, taking out the trash, like, oh, you forgot your makeup inside or you forgot your phone inside and I have to run back in and out of the house because it's not easy for you to just get out of the car and run in and do But like I [snorts] I'm in love with her. I'm in love with you, man. When you love someone, you just do it.
Can we bring back cat calling? Not specifically like but like flirting. Men don't do it anymore.
And I noticed this because they don't walk up to bars and they don't flirt like at the gym anywhere. Men don't walk up to anyone anywhere. But they don't even cat call.
Like the creepy men who used to cat call don't even do that anymore. Like not saying I need a man to cat call me, but a confidence boost every once in a while won't do me any harm. Let me get offended by you cat calling me at least.
I walked through like construction sites today and like nothing. Not even like a honk from a car. [music] Last time I spoke you had a boyfriend.
Yes. Is that still the case? Yes.
[laughter] [music] Huh? Do you have a girlfriend? I don't.
But you don't. But [music] what? I can make friends though.
You can make friends. Okay. Well, how about we get really friendly?
What are the odds that you kiss me? [music] Huh? Probably not likely.
Not really like that. I mean, I don't mind normally. But [music] But do you want me on Snapchat?
But there's no not even on the cheek. No. Oh, you like this.
You know you are not big like this. You know [laughter] [music] want me for this car, beautiful. So have a nice day.
I am beautiful. Spending money on me. Why would I spend money on you though?
You only want me for the car. Like look at this. Like I just bought this car, too.
And you're touching it like it's yours. You going to tell me no? Yeah.
Nobody tells me no. Yeah, I just did. Have a nice day.
How about that? Enjoy your day. I'm not going anywhere.
I always get what I want. I'm going to get what I want. I want to go shopping.
If you walk through that door, we're done. If you walk through that door, if you walk through that door, we're done. Wow.
This guy was casually running on the treadmill when a woman placed her phone to record her workout. But the second she stepped on top of the machine, she slipped and fell down, hitting the ground. Everyone in the gym noticed and looked at her except the guy who just kept running.
[music] Do you think his reaction is normal? I want a nice guy. Well, that's good, right?
Well, I've never said that. I've always been into like thes or like the douchebags of the male community. Oh, great.
And I bet that's turned out so well because I was so traumatized by them. So, I'm sitting there being like, I want a nice man. Like, why can't a guy just come to my life and be so nice and like be obsessed with me?
No, dear. And then I find like a guy that's really nice and I am so thrown off. Like, I really did find a guy who's like super nice, like the most respectful, like anything I really need, like he's going to do it for you.
But let me guess, there was a problem. I'm sitting there like nah like I'm the problem. I'm the problem.
Well, good for them and taking some accountability in this situation. I do want a healthy relationship. Okay.
I really do. More than anything, that's what I want. Then probably start dating guys that aren't on the toxic side.
I think I just still need a guy who like gives me a run for my money. I'm so the problem because like you're nice. Like literally like Connor from Love Island vibes, but like it's just too nice.
I don't even have to say much here because they really said it all because that type of mentality is the problem and why so many women can't find healthy relationships because they want everything that goes with a healthy relationship except the guy that would go with it. Lottery. If you won the lottery.
Yes. Think big. Think big.
Yeah. I'd take half and I'd leave you. Go live on an island somewhere by myself.
Well, do I have news for you? I on a scratcher won 40 bucks. So you get half.
That's 20. See you when I see you. I guess later, bro.
Pretty sure he had that million dollar scratcher in the other pocket for if she said the court notified me that [snorts] my final decree of divorce has been approved by the judge. I know that it sucks being alone. I come home and I'm alone.
I go everywhere. Are you crying? [snorts] Just because you make a decision that you think is going to end up making things better doesn't mean that you have to give up the fact that you love that person.
At the end of the day, all of these clips point to the same issue, entitlement versus respect. There's a difference between being a caring partner and being expected to sacrifice your dignity just to keep someone happy. A lot of these situations don't fall apart because the man refused to simp.
They fall apart because he finally stopped tolerating behavior that never should have been normal in the first place. Paying for dates, supporting your partner, showing effort. None of that is the problem.
The problem starts when effort becomes obligation, and respect gets replaced by expectations. When one person believes the other should always give, always pay, always adjust, and never question it, the relationship stops being a partnership. What you're seeing in these reactions is the moment reality hits.
The moment a man realizes that love doesn't mean unlimited access to his wallet, his time, or his patience. And the moment someone else realizes that manipulation, pressure, or guilt doesn't work when boundaries finally show up. Refusing to simp isn't refusing to love.
It's refusing to be taken advantage of. It's understanding that attraction doesn't grow from desperation and commitment doesn't come from fear of losing someone who never respected you to begin with. A real relationship is built on mutual effort.
Mutual respect, mutual accountability, not power games, not tests, not prove yourself behavior. So, if there's one takeaway from all these clips, it's this. The fastest way to lose someone serious is to treat them like they're replaceable or obligated.
And the fastest way to keep your self-respect is to walk away the moment that line gets crossed. Stand on your boundaries, respect yourself first, and never confuse sing with love. If you made it this far, appreciate you for watching.
