sometimes you'll meet someone who appears to have everything you're looking for in a partner and they check all the important boxes and a little time passes and you realize they're not very good at being in a relationship or there are some key differences between the two of you that cannot be overlooked and it can be incredibly disappointing and likely your mind is going to be flooded with all these scary thoughts about not wanting to get back out there again and having to start all over but this is really where you have to release your attachment
to the dream and move on the truth and the reality about dating is that sometimes it takes time to see if someone is actually right for us and we have to embrace embrace the uncertainty of it all there is no certainty in the dating process it's an adventure and it has to be embraced and the only thing that we can do is stay very true to ourselves process our enthusiasm about someone with someone we trust and have boundary