HOW to make a woman obsessed with YOU using STOIC Seduction to wildly attract her (Female Nature)

now today I'm going to be showing you step- by- step exactly how to get a woman obsessed with you or attached with you specifically using stoic seduction stoic seduction is a method or stoic seduction is a frame of psychological perceived value that all of you are going to have to exercise at some point in a dating dynamic in order to maintain that woman's interest due to the fact that she now feels as if you are an attractive man who can actually lead her so today's video the whole purpose of it is to show you step

by step how to do that and how to implement this so that way it's easy instead of you feeling like you're putting on a Persona that's not actually you now the reason why we've crossed over 630 members inside of our movement which I'm super happy to announce is because of posts like this so we had one of our guys he goes I've had more success in the past two weeks than I've had in the last two years he says doing the Lord's work brother honored to be on the ground floor with you at Casey Xander

so since I see guys actually transforming their dating light quickly okay like not just like actually getting results but getting results fast I want you to check that out after today's video is over because this community has been growing and I've been watching guys actually get dating results in real time all right now in today's video I'm going to be showing you how to actually make a woman obsessed with you or really enjoy the experience dating you specifically using stoic seduction this is something that you have to embody and this does take practice but I'm

going to show you step by step how to do this the proper way now in order to truly embody this the first thing we have to look at is we have to actually understand why women fall in love with emotionally unavailable men okay this is a deep concept you have to understand emotionally unavailable men is the types of men that women fall in love with so you've been conditioned throughout your life to care about [ __ ] that you don't need to okay so what I can tell you is this most of the things things

that you believe or that you think that you should be doing in order to maintain a proper relationship or a dating Dynamic with a woman okay is completely false so the fact is this an emotionally unavailable man he doesn't feel the need okay or he doesn't necessarily crave a relationship so the main reason why women fall in love with this type of guy is because he's not trying to build a relationship with her he doesn't need a relationship he's not trying to build one and he doesn't care so when a woman sees this she sees

that a guy is complete with himself she sees that a guy is actually self-sufficient with or without somebody so because of that she tends to gravitate more towards him because this is attracting her now notice this attraction is not something that you can plan right or that you can plan to have happen attraction is something that happens on its own so she gravitates towards this type of guy so she feels he's stronger than the rest due to the fact that he doesn't need a relationship so the only men that women even respond to or reply

to in real life or through text message keep in mind when I'm telling you this I try to be as descriptive as possible the only men women even respond to or reply to in real life or on text message meaning I have tested all of this it's the type of guys who don't need a girlfriend these are the type of guys who don't need love these are the type of guys who don't even care if they get a positive response on text message back okay not only that she can tell that he doesn't need companionship

so now she's pursuing his validation the biggest thing that women notice with this type of guy is that he does not get attached after sleeping with her so even if they sleep together he's not emotionally attached to her meaning that if that's was let's say you know something that happened he doesn't necessarily care if it goes anywhere if a relationship actually comes of it so now he's at the cause of her emotions instead of him being at the effect typically how majority of men live is they are constantly at the effect or they are reactive

based on how the woman is replying to them so now that we've covered that what is stoic seduction so for those of you wondering what stoic seduction actually is stoic seduction okay is absolute verbal frame control over your own emotions with proper masculine tonality so I'll give you an example an example this starts all the way back even when you guys first start text messaging this is the frame that you need to set verbally in real life these are the levels of psychological perceived value that you have to actually work through so let me give

you an example this is a real life text message example that I got yesterday word for word I will show you I was texting a girl and I was saying something that I wanted us to do and her reply was I'd rather just have you watch me on top of you okay most guys what they would do right there is they would say like yes please or they would agree with it or they would say something flirtatious back and instantly I remember verbal frame okay masculine tonality so I text message her back and I say

calm down young lady I go you don't always get what you want instead of escalating that what I had to do was I had to set the proper frame and instantly you can see then she puts a heart on my text message this is something that most guys don't know how to do so the vocal tone okay or the vocal tonality in real life here's what you're doing when you're talking to the woman it's all about playful things it's never anything serious so the things that I like to stick to okay is things like movies

things that are fun and music so as I'm doing that or if this is the main topics that I'm actually talking about what I like to have too is some kind of food so now I can talk about how good the food is and I can say yum I can say oh my tummy is so full you can get her to laugh it's easy that is the masculine tonality the talk is all playful it's nothing serious but at the at the same time the vocal tone of your voice the way you're saying things it's very

direct okay it's drawn out or you can even draw out words so it's like you speak probably 10 to 15% slower you're very serious like a lot of times the woman will even Giggle and she'll say are you always this serious she will say these things because you're demonstrating masculinity with no emotion and often times when you say things that are funny but you don't necessarily show emotion while you're saying it it makes her Giggle and she starts to get into a very feminine and playful state so why is this the reason why you have

to have stoic seduction is because women are attracted to men that they cannot easily seduce if she can easily seduce you she watches you get bubbly okay as she watches you get bubbly now she's going to watch you start to smile and she's going to see that you're slowly becoming invested into her frame that she is putting on so this is very bad okay you have to make sure that you have the proper masculine tonality so now shifting our attention over to this side of the marker board women can only respect a man who is

stoic and non-reactive and this is a big difference that most guys have to understand because if you're the type of guy who you go out a lot and you rely on a lot of charm and Charisma it can work in the short term but often times it fails you in the long run so let me explain women can only respect a man who is stoic and non-reactive so when you are stoic and non-reactive she feels his masculine energy so guys who Focus heavily on these two words charm and Charisma there's a few things that happen

Okay and looking at guys who operate their dating life this way at face value it looks like they have it all figured out but don't be so easily fooled let me explain guys with charm and Charisma they often times can get laid okay yes they often times can do that number two a lot of times you're going to find that they have lots of women who may be responsive to the heightened Vibe and the heightened emotional state that that guy is bringing to the table which lets them feel something and because of that number three

at face value she appears like she is in love but here's what happens since this guy is demonstrating a lot of emotion these guys can never retain the relationships typically because the woman starts to test him more and then often times as time goes on he will often sometimes start to fail those tests so as a woman sees a guy who operates heavily on charm and Charisma she will test him more okay she senses that he is emotionally driven okay and not only that he gets reactive and then often times it's over so as she

pulls away guys who Focus heavy on charm and Charisma he will typically pursue and he will typically try to reactivate those conversations but because of that now she senses his attachment and now she pulls away so this is the lie okay the lie about being yourself with women there's a huge lie that guys have been told and the reason why you hear this lie is because it's easy to get confused a lot of content creators talk about the word congruence what they'll often say is they will say women want a guy who is congruent with

himself or who knows himself and that's great but that doesn't mean that you can just be yourself however you want and that's okay you still have to authentically embody your own personality but make no mistake you're going to have to do this in the right way where you actually set the right Dynamic for attraction to occur so this is the lie about being yourself with women most men what they say is they say well I don't want to change I just want to be able to say whatever I want and she just likes me for

me and here's the thing guys I can tell you this I've tested all of this [ __ ] over the years if you're watching this channel I have tested everything I have tested House Parties I have tested going out I have tested online dating I have tested everything because of that since I've tested all this [ __ ] over the years what I can tell you is this the points on this marker board that I'm breaking down for you this is the only thing that women respond to you are going to have to no matter

who you are you are going to have to embody these seductive and stoic elements of masculinity that women respond to because this is what they're actually attracted to and you can't change that yes you can still be yourself yes you can still Express Yourself the way you want to express yourself with the clothes you want to wear and the hobbies that you have interest in and the type of career that you want to get involved in all of that can still be you but you are going to have to set the proper Dynamic verbally for

attraction to actually occur I have tested all of this these are the only things women respond to and I'm going to tell you this the hotter the girl gets meaning the more attractive she is to you or the more attractive she is to men in general the thing that you have to understand is the hotter the girl gets the more important these points become because you are now dealing with a woman who knows and understands her own attractiveness so majority of you if you are watching this video or you are new to some of my

videos majority of you if you are just learning this information for the first time I'm going to tell you the truth here majority of you will have to change your whole attitude and demeanor when you're dating or the whole attitude you have with the dynamic with women the thing that I can tell you is in real life you can still act how you would like to act in your day to-day interactions but when you are specifically dealing with a relationship or a dating interaction this is the frame that has to be set in order for

attraction to occur so here's the thing with maturity as you get older and the more you date with maturity you realize that it is not even about getting laid it's not even about sleeping with the girl sex has very little to do with any of this and here's why often times it means nothing what you are actually optimizing for and what you actually want is you want her to respect you you because if she doesn't respect you the whole relationship will eventually fail if she doesn't respect you what will happen is often times she will

try to find a different man who she can respect so this is going to be the only way that a woman will typically Want to Be With You by you withholding emotional availability she opens up and increases her emotional availability towards you if you like this video I want you to hit the like button comment and subscribe I want you to join us inside of that community that I put together for you and we will see you in the next one