so we all know that there are a ton of people out there teaching others how to manifest a specific person and that's great but it also can create a lot of confusion and noise I think a lot of people would just love a very simplified process something that's repeatable something that feels good to actually make progress to manifest a specific person and that's what I want to give you in this video this video is going to be three very clear very easy to follow steps for you to make progress actually start seeing results when you're
manifesting a specific person into your life before I jump in I also want you to know that I have a new free ebook it is called the three most important steps to manifest a specific person and there's a workbook included in this so if you really want to jump into actionable steps of what you can do to manifest your specific person just comment SP in the comments below and I will get you the link right away okay so let's jump in so step one is for you to realize that manifesting works this may sound like
a silly First Step because you are here on a manifesting video anyways but here's the thing A lot of people are trying to change something in their 3D reality and they kind of don't believe that it's going to happen this happens a lot with people manifesting a specific person a lot of people don't hold the belief that it's actually going to work so so when you don't believe that it's going to work you are already set up for failure because life is going to reflect back to you what you actually believe is going to happen
so believing that manifesting works is a key part of the process of manifesting a specific person to believe that it's going to work let's look at what manifesting is and what it is not so what manifesting is not is not waving a magic wand to change someone in your in your 3D reality it is not waving a magic wand to get something out there as much as we wish it was that's not really what manifesting is at all so when we realize that that's not what it is we can start focusing on what it is
it is a tool of self transformation and the idea behind it is when you change you automatically create new results in your life and in your 3D reality this is how you create a new result with a specific person by changing yourself okay so when you realize that by changing yourself you can create new results and you start to think about that it actually makes logical sense of course if you start thinking a new way of course if you start acting a new way of course if you start being a new version of yourself you're
going to see new results in your 3D reality it just makes sense so that is what manifesting is and when you realize that that it's all a tool of self- transformation and when you change than other people in your reality can change to then it becomes easier to get behind doing manifesting techniques knowing that it is going to work if you change things out there have to change no matter what so this is the first step of manifesting a specific person simplified it's recognizing that manifesting does work when you think about it as a tool
of self transformation to change your reality so step number two to manifest a specific person is ask yourself this very simple question who would I be if I was already in this relationship who would I be this is another huge mistake people make in particular when manifesting a specific person is they are focusing on changing someone else and that's just not how it works not only that it feels awful to try to control someone else or you know manipulate our reality when we are really feeling desperate and not great about who we are that's not
what manifesting is remember it is a tool of self transformation and so the way you want to transform yourself is start asking yourself who would I be if I was already in this relationship this is called constructing your self concept so think about it just imagine if I I was happy in a relationship what types of thoughts would I have about myself you might be thinking things like I love my life I love this relationship I'm happier than I ever have been before that was one of the thoughts I would think often when I was
manifesting my husband you want to ask yourself what would I be thinking about my love about this person that I'm manifesting you probably would be thinking things like I love them they're so wonderful they take care of me they're such an incredible person how would you be feeling as you walk down the street you'd be feeling happy alive joyful filled up how would you be acting in your life and in the world your work is to construct this new self-concept this self-concept of someone who's happy in a relationship and act into or pretend that you
are this person now by doing that you are doing the most important and really kind of the only only step the main step of manifesting which is becoming the version of yourself that has your desire now step number three to manifest a specific person is you do want to ask yourself who are they imagine who are they in this relationship with you so this is a really fun step for you to do and it's much easier to do once you've done the previous step of self-love and I'm going to get into that in a second
but how do you imagine the other person well you want to dream up the qualities of this amazing person and your amazing relationship one technique you can do is just list out qualities that your dream relationship would have or your dream partner would have how do they show up for you what types of things do they say to you uh how do they act with you what do you want your future to be like together you want to imagine all the different elements of this relationship and by imagining the different element ments of this person
and this relationship you are activating them in your subconscious mind you're learning to expect that that version of them is going to show up for you and what we believe within is what we create in our life now the problem with this step or where people sometimes go wrong is they skip straight to this step so they skip the self-love part they even skip the believing and manifesting part and they go straight into trying to imagine the other person if you've ever done that you might know that it can be really hard to do because
if you're stuck in a self-love or in a self concept where you feel like they don't want me the relationship didn't go well it didn't go well but I'm trying to imagine them in this beautiful light it can be really really hard to do that's why you want to make sure you do the self-concept work and the self-love work where you're really building yourself up and seeing yourself as this amazing person because when you actually start to change and see yourself as an amazing person it becomes easier to imagine this person showing up for you
imagine this person loving you imagine this person wanting to be in your life so I can give you an example from my own life many years ago I went through an awful heartbreak and I was in a relationship with a man who didn't show up for me he just couldn't consistently show me that he wanted to be with me and that was devastating for me I hated the way that felt but we had to break up because I couldn't continue to be in a relationship like that but I didn't know what else to do I
did really want to be with him so what I did when we broke up it was purely by chance but I just started doing a lot of self-love work I started telling myself that I was an amazing woman I started telling myself that I was worthy of love and by doing that something amazing happened I started to feel better and better and better about myself as I started to feel better and better and better about myself I started doing the self-concept work where I was saying of course I'm going to be in a relationship I'm
meant to be in a relationship of course people are going to be attracted to me and from there it became very easy to then turn my attention to this man and imagine that he also would want to be with me why not when we're feeling amazing about ourselves we can really start to believe that other people are going going to see us in an amazing light as well well guess what happened after I did all that self-love work and self-concept work this guy came back into my life and that's because I was living in my
fullness I was being an amazing version of myself and he really saw that and he was drawn to that so all this to say definitely focus on who the other person is being is in your reality and who you want them to be but make sure you really do the self-work first that is the number one work of manifesting transforming yourself to become the version of yourself who would naturally have your desire if you do that you will be blown away at how your desires naturally come to you thank you so much for being here
with me in this video I love being here with you if you find yourself not feeling disciplined when manifesting a specific person I highly recommend you watch this video I'll give you four tips to really stay in the process of manifesting them and make it really fun for yourself thank you so much for being here I'll see you soon bye
