I'm on a date right now and I ordered six different meals and this man do not want to pay for my food. Ladies, this man right here is broke. He's broke.
Look at him. Why are you splitting the check? Cuz you not going home with me.
What are you talking about? It's our first date. You not going home with me.
So, you know what I'm saying? Why did I go home with you? This is our first date.
Last date with you. Because you are greedy. You had two plates.
I haven't eaten all day. I don't care if you haven't eaten all day. That's messed up.
You're greedy. This supposed to be our first date and this is how you do. This the real me.
Extra shrimp. Like a what? Extra lobster tails.
Like two extra lobster tails. All right. Yeah.
I need like four snow crab clusters. And then can I get like some butter sauce on the side? Bro, what?
We're talking about But how much is that though? That's going to be over $100. So, you really had to go 50/50 with me.
No. Like I already told you, like my hours at work got cut. They got cut.
My hours at work got cut. What's up, [music] everyone? Today we're talking about toxic women who order excessive amounts of expensive food at [music] restaurants and then have complete meltdowns when a man refuses to pay.
We're seeing situations where women rack up massive bills expecting someone else to cover it only to lose their minds when they realize they're stuck with the check. Here goes your bill. I told him to split it because I really only got an orange juice.
You mean my bill? Your bill? I'm not paying bill.
What you mean? Ask me on date. I I know I asked you on a date, but it's like look at everything that you paid for.
Like you ordered all this stuff. We're on a first date. I mean, I didn't think you wasn't going to pay for your own food.
Why would I pay for my own meal when you ask me on that? That's dumb. Yeah, we're on a date.
But I don't really know you like this. So why won't you just pay for getting to know me? Yeah, that's fine.
But look at everything you ordered and all I got is an orange juice. Like at least pay, right? So pay for your own food.
But you ask me. That's true. But I still want you to pay for your own food.
You can't pay for your own food. I'm not. It's not that I can't pay.
I'm not paying though because you said you would take me on a date. You said you're supposed to. We're on a date.
But that doesn't mean I have to pay you pay for your food. Yes, it does. Last date with you because you are greeted.
You had two plates. You haven't eaten all day. I don't care if you haven't eaten all day.
That's messed up. You greet her. This supposed to be our first date and this is how you do.
This the real me. Well, can I have the fake you? I went to the bathroom and I came back and all my food gone.
Oh, I thought you was done. I never been on a first date like this in my life. Welcome to the real boo.
I just had to go to the bathroom for a quick second. All my food is gone. Well, boo, where I'm from, you don't leave food s.
Apparently, you don't leave food at all. You smash this and you wasting food all over you. Listen, you either going to sit down and talk to me like a man or you can dismiss yourself after you pay for the check.
I'm not paying for nothing. Why am I going to pay and you ate all this food? Ain't no man going to sit here and pay for this ridiculousness.
I was wondering at first I was like, "How a beautiful girl like you be single? " And now I know. Bingo right here.
I'm I'm thankful that you showed me this on the first date too [music] because other people would have You know how many first dates I've been on? Be real. So you do this for I really came for the food.
That's it. Just the food. I can tell.
Yeah, you tripping. Weird. Like I swear to God like this one cuz you got somebody touch you.
I'm We've been talking for years and still weird. So I never going to I swear to God I don't got that food. I'm not going to pay for you going to pay for her food.
You going to pay for whatever I order. [music] You going to pay for what I order. This is embarrassing, [clears throat] honey.
We didn't already ate and everything. Like, I can pay for But this is ridiculous. Like, you don't invite somebody and not pay for their tab.
Like, you [music] This is why you don't date ball. This is like This is real me. I'm ready to go.
I don't like being around. I told you. Quit his ball head.
I told you. This woman is literally having a public meltdown and singing dramatic songs because a man won't pay for her food. The entitlement and immaturity is absolutely pathetic.
You're going to pay for whatever I order. Who the hell do you think you are to demand a stranger fund your meal? You're not royalty.
You're just another entitled woman who thinks showing up is enough contribution to deserve a free dinner. The fact that she's making a whole theatrical performance out of it. Singing and acting like she's the victim shows she's never been told no in her life.
This is what happens when you raise women to believe men owe them everything just for existing. Why are you splitting the chick? Cuz you're not going home with me.
What are you talking about? It's our first date. You're not going home with me.
So, you know what I'm saying? Why did I go home with you? This is our first date.
I'm paying my half. You paying your hair half. But why you told you you asked me on a date?
Why are you inviting me out on a date and now you want to go have this first date? Going on a date. And that's exactly why we You're only changing your mind cuz I'm not going home with you.
Listen, you can pay for your meal. I pay for mine. And if you want to do another date, we can do another date.
Why would I go on another date with you? So, you're really mad that I'm not going home with you. Why would I go home with you?
What are we going to go to your house for? Where do you want to go? Watch Netflix.
You know that new Star movie that came out? Well, I want to watch Netflix with you. We can go to the theaters.
It's right next door. Thank you. I'm not understanding.
You're being very, very weird. Just go ahead and pay. It's only $30.
I'm going to pay my half. You pay your half. It's only $30.
You're being a cheap skate. I'm not being cheap. You're really about to split it.
$15 pay for it. Don't see this is why you can't accept invites. Extra shrimp.
Wait, what? Extra lobster tails. Like two extra lobster tails.
All right. Yeah, I need like four snow crab clusters. And then can I get like some butter sauce on the side?
Bro, what? We're talking about But how much is that though? That's going to be over.
You serious? You can give her a Caesar salad and another water. Don't mind if you want.
Don't play with me. I just ordered what I really wanted. You took some season salad.
Don't take order. What are we doing? What are we doing for this day?
Get the salad. Get the salad. Salad.
Thank you, my boy. No. What?
For you and one for me. Anything else, bro? N we go.
We don't need anything else. I I'm on a date right now and I ordered six different meals and this man do not want to pay for my food. I don't know [clears throat] why.
Jerk chicken. This one meal. I I started um in out the roster the pasta and I got me some oxtail too, but I also wanted me a fried snapper and this like the pineapple bowl and that's his drink.
That's my drink. I ain't really like that drink. And he got the two liquors, but I can eat.
Oh, I forgot to show y'all. I had got um fried green tomatoes and he my little lady, you really can't eat. And I'm just like [music] you invited me out.
was really bad cuz I was like I felt so bad about it. Um I called like child services on this one. [laughter] I I called child services on my ex because he pissed me off and then I was like yeah I'm done with this person.
Whatever. Like you know cheater piece of liable dumb. He had kids.
I called child services on his ass [music] and I like fabricated everything and like said certain things and they like went to the door and like there was a whole process like I don't even know if the children's aid worker still visits them but she probably does because what I said like the way I AIed that you know like real AI like fake bruises type [laughter] that's honestly disgusting behavior. There's no joke in that. She didn't just act out of anger.
She played with someone's life and their kids' safety just because she was mad. That's not petty. That's cruel.
Calling child services as revenge. That crossing every line of decency. There are real parents who get investigated for no reason because of lies like that.
And the worst part is she's laughing about it. It shows zero remorse, zero maturity, and zero empathy. That's not a crazy ex.
That's a dangerous person who thinks hurting others is funny. Some people just prove exactly why they get left in the first place. So, you really not going to pay for my drink?
No, I'm not here. So, you don't get no drink? You ain't got no money?
You're not going to keep spending my money on you? So, you're not going to let me get the drink? No.
You might not take her wristband out. She ain't get nothing. What are you talking about?
Give me my drink. No. Stop playing.
For real. No money, bro. I'm not going to keep spending all that money on you, bro.
You don't never give me no money or nothing, bro. What do you mean? You're a grown man.
You're supposed to take care of me. Like a trick. You're supposed to take care of me.
So, you really ain't going 50/50 with me? No. Like I already told you, like my hours at work got cut.
They got cut. My hours work got cut. I can't pay all the bills right now, man.
I've been paying all the bills in this house for the past year. I've been paying every bill in this house for the past year. You know what I'm [music] saying?
I told you my hours got cut at work. Can you go 50/50 with me till I get back on my feet? Can you go 50/50 with me?
What's What's wrong with that? I can't. What you mean you can't?
I have to use my money for my photo shoots. Like, you already know for your photo shoot, man. I'm telling you right now that I lost hours at work.
I'm sorry. I understand. If you lost hours, you could go pick up hours somewhere else.
Like, you work out here. You ain't work all day. I mean, how else are you going to pay the bill, man?
How about you go 50/50 with me? What's wrong with that? I'm telling you, go 5050 with me for about 6 months to a year till I get on my feet.
Once I get on my feet, then I'll pay all the bills in the house again. I've been doing this for the last past year. I know, but I So, did you enjoy your day though?
Hell no. Why not? Ka?
Really? I said, did you enjoy your day? Oh, I thought you said date and I was saying no.
I'm not enjoying the date. But we said that Caba was a cool spot. You said you like vegetables and the chicken and the Yes.
Cool for me and my friends, but not no first date. We're just getting to know each other. What do you want me What you expect?
A upscale $100 plate steakhouse? Yes. We could have went to Chris's steakhouse.
We could have went to Raleigh. We could have went somewhere else. Not you want me to take you out of town for the first date?
Yes. That's what my last boyfriend did. And why aren't you with your first boyfriend?
Uh because I'm not with him. But why? because he tried to do the same thing that you're doing and you about to be the last.
So I'm about to be the last. I don't even know you. This is the reason why we came somewhere that's not too expensive.
I don't even know if I like you like that. I don't even know why I like you. So why you still sitting at the table?
That's how you feeling? That's how I feel. So you want to cash app me the money back for the food that I just got you?
How about I ain't cash apping you nothing? Okay. Well, I give you $2.
This is why you're sick. I give you $2. You want $2?
I'm not arguing with no woman though. You want $2? Nope.
$2. You have to be a date man. Trying to be You leaving?
Are you leaving? She's mad because the first date wasn't a luxury dinner. Like, girl, it's the first date, not a wedding reception.
She compared him to her ex, demanded steakhouse prices, and then got mad when he didn't s. That man handled it right, stayed calm, didn't argue, and let her show exactly why she's still single. Y'all would not believe what just happened.
Like, I literally went on a date with a guy, and let's just say, mind you, he's sitting right next to me. I ordered what I want. He didn't want to order anything cuz he he ate.
So, he just ordered a drink. I ordered what I wanted, and he hears it clearly cuz he's right next to me. The fool comes.
He start making all these comments. Oh, you order that? Oh, you going to eat all that?
Mind you, I told him that my friend flew into town and after dinner I was going to go see her cuz she wanted me to pull up on her or whatever. He's like, "Did you order some food for your friends? " He was like, "If I wasn't here, would you order all that?
" Baby, you think I can't afford a meal? I said, "Honestly, if you wasn't here, I would have still order like this. This is how I eat with my friends.
This is how I eat when I'm by myself. " This man said, "Oh, I'mma go. " I said, "Okay.
" He lays down $100, walks off. Mind you, he called us a um a black truck to dinner. So, I rode with him in an Uber.
He left. He didn't He didn't say anything besides, "I'mma go. " Bill's done.
You about to go do that right now? Yeah. Oh, for real.
How you going to get a job? Uh, I don't really know yet. Okay, man.
Oh, Look, just go ahead and call me back. Just pay after that. I mean, that's it.
Like, you're not going to ask for my cash up or nothing? Your cash out for what? Uh, you invited me on a date and I need my nails done.
I mean, I thought it would click in your head when I'm telling you I'm going to get my nails done. No, I I asked you on I asked you on I'm not Wait, hold up. Let go.
I got to get your nails done to take you on a date. Uh, yes you do. Like, if you invite me on a date, I have to look a certain weight.
And it's your job as a man to make sure I look like that. Like, baby, who raised you? It seems like your parents failed.
You just said it though. I'm not your man yet. Okay.
But you're trying to be taking me on a date mean you trying to be my man, right? No, I'm trying to be on my Okay. So, you need to show me that you even worthy of me giving you my goddamn time.
Wow, that's crazy. I pay for my girl days, but I I don't even I'm still trying to get to know. It's giving broke energy.
It's giving broke energy. It's giving broke. It's giving broke.
It's giving broke, y'all. Y'all dude so sassy. You little sassy ass, y'all.
It's giving broke. You good. Don't contact me.
You good. We went on a date and it's like the bill came, [laughter] the bill didn't come. He asked for the bill and in French he said two bills and so they came and I was like if someone says I want to take you out then I want to be taken out which means to me to pay and whatever.
So we did that. I paid and it's fine. And then after I was I was honest and I just said it like I don't know cuz I I said like yeah I thought you were going to take me out and like [music] to me that means pay and and then suddenly his English wasn't so good anymore [music] when he was like I don't understand what you mean.
I was honest and like whatever. What else do I have to lose? I just want to be honest because there's a way that I want to be treated and like I might as well just tell someone like what else do I have to lose?
I don't know. And then like afterwards he was like, "Next time I'll pay. " Like unprompted he said that after we were having another conversation.
I said, "Okay. " And then he said, "Are you free this week? " And he said, "Yeah.
" And then I texted him after and I'm like, "I had a nice time. Thanks. " And then he read it and didn't respond.
And it's like, "Okay. " I don't know. Like I'm just tired of I'm happy I was honest, but like I just like want a gentleman.
You see, moments like this really show what dating has turned into for some people today. It's not even about getting to know someone anymore. It's about what you can get out of them.
A free meal, a fancy night, a story to tell. Somewhere along the line, respect and effort got replaced by expectation and entitlement. This man came to meet someone new to see if there was a real connection.
Instead, he met someone who saw him like a credit card, not a person. And when he didn't play along, she fell apart. Because people who depend on manipulation hate when they lose control.
But here's the truth. The right woman doesn't care about how expensive the restaurant is. She cares about the conversation, the energy, and how she's treated.
She won't need a five-star table to know you're worth her time. So, if you ever find yourself in a situation like this, don't argue, don't beg, and don't let anyone guilt trip you for setting a boundary. Just stand up, walk away, and protect your peace.
Because a real connection doesn't come with a price tag. It comes with mutual respect. And the moment you realize your value isn't measured by what's in your wallet, that's when you stop wasting time on people who are only there for the benefits.
