if you're an introvert social situations can feel daunting and you may think that you'll never be able to show up as your PO confident and entertaining self however many celebrities are introverts and they have great social skills Emma Watson said she is a shy socially awkward and introvert person let's see which social skills she uses to show up confidently first of all Emma uses a lively animated body language who's like this seriously buttoned up like very prim and proper English school girl to playing Sam who's like on the other you can see she uses hand
gestures or moves her opener body or make these big arm movements and of course these gestures are genuine and congruent with what she's saying well it's funny like I think because obviously people associate with me with Herman because I played her for so long when that's the energy she wants to be in she brings Lively and entertainment to our words through our body language Harry and Ron's lines as well as my own because that's just what I was like I was I was crazy and when you are soft spoken like Emma and not very comfortable
in social situations it's a great way to Captivate people's attention secondly she shares her feelings she shares how she feels create these kind of like friendships that they've obviously had for such a long time and I was really worried about it and introverts Thrive with deep conversations and they are connected to their feelings and emotions she Embraces this part of her by sharing her feelings and being very authentic and transparent I was actually crying when I finished the script so that was my first so you can see it there's a sense of honesty that is
coming through you may also notice that she tends to think before she speaks never really held any uh aure or excitement for me allows herself to take this time so that she can be genuine so no one has come up to me and said I read it and it sucked thirdly she truly listens so you can see she's being very present when the other person is talking she uses ey contact facial reactions or laughters introverts are great listeners and that allows them to bond with other people but it also allows them to take a step
back when they don't actually want to talk anymore when they don't have this socializing energy any longer so using your listening skill is great and that's what Emma is doing very well Emma also always makes sure that she gives compliments to people when there's something that she likes about someone about what they did or about who they are then she's going to say it in that matches I told you that's my favorite part of the film I was sort was hilarious honestly I was straight away it allows her to bond with the other person because
they do do feel appreciated and this is a very Charming quality that she uses in a very authentic way it's kind of amazing and incredible so congratulations on everything that you've done introverts tend to go inwards and to keep their thoughts to themselves sometimes but you were so sweet cuz you let me you were like you could tell that I was dying inside and you were like it's okay honey if you want to go outside again so what she does here is that when there's something nice to say she says it and she compliments people
that makes them feel important that makes them feel seen and heard and it really helps you bond with other people because they feel that they matter yes great choice great choice and lastly she Embraces who she is there is this energy of sweet confidence that she's giving off she shows up connected to her quiet confidence but she also Embraces her sweet nature and that's why she gives off a trustworthy genuine energy and when she does not feel like using her body language much and she's going more internally and thinking in depth then that's how she
will show up connected to the more serious and reflective part of her and because she Embraces these parts of herself then it feels congruent she's not pretending to be someone she's not she's not pretending to be a loud person she's not pretending to be an extrovert or she's not pretending to be bubbly all the time she's being herself and this quiet confident energy gives her a lot of Charisma I will see you next week in a new video highlighting another introverted celebrity and I'm sending you much love bye
