all right everyone first things first let's talk about you you are all here because you struggle with flirting okay so what we're oh yes Jeremy um I sometimes cry around beautiful women is that normal ah yes we will talk about that yes well most of you are uh very successful smart Attractive people but flirting is not your strong suit so Stephen why don't you stand up and tell us about yourself okay hi I'm Stephen I'm partner at one of the big law firms in town I also love soccer I played a few years in college
all right and mallerie why don't you do the same tell us about yourself okay um I'm mallerie I'm the head editor at a Publishing Company down the road and um I also play the violin in the City Orchestra Great now you both seem like very socially apt people so I want you to turn to each other and talk to one another give me [Applause] a no not again okay okay yeah not again okay well um exhibit a my friends flirting does not come naturally to us all some of us are born flirtatious right from the
womb and um you know some of us are better at algebra or whittling or grave digging it's another one but you know what there is hope my friends you just have to stick to the basic principles okay so today we're going to work on Ice breaking breaking that ice all right so we're going to start with the first time that you see somebody so everybody stand up on your feet okay up up up all right now I want you all to close your eyes and imagine that you're in a crowded Club there's music and dancing
and you see someone from across the room that you'd like to flirt with he or she is very [Applause] attractive and suddenly your eyes meet now remember maintaining eye contact maintaining eye contact is very crucial in any flirtatious exchange so what I want you all to do now is open your eyes and show me the face that will say well hello you let's get together okay so show oh okay hands down Jason hands down okay Matt Matt it might help if you were facing the girl that you wanted to talk to okay so oh Natalie
hey hey there Natalie uh is that your normal face or do you smell something awful no this is my Saucy face okay what face do you make when you do smell something you know what that's perfect why don't you just keep it at that okay yep okay oh Jeremy Jeremy you got to lighten up okay they're just women okay have a seat have a seat okay buddy okay okay buddy see Stephen what is what are you doing where did you get those bubbles what if you don't have bubbles in the crowded Club no no I
always have bubbles okay we will discuss that later okay sit down Sit mallerie hey mallerie um you want to maybe have a little less rage in your face you look a little murderous okay maybe uh mix that Rage with surprise okay maybe uh surprise and fear um surprise and shame okay you know comparatively that's bad better okay just sit down okay okay um why don't we why don't we just work on our alluring faces more next week okay um so for our next one let's um let's get Natalie and Matt up here okay stand up
stand up okay we're going to work on approaching the person you want to flirt with this is very simple okay so Matt I want you to walk up to Natalie the way that you would approach a girl that you want to flirt with okay all right let's see it oh no natural no you don't you don't you don't skip no Natalie Natalie you have to hold your ground okay they have they Matt Matt stop moving your arms okay no well you have you have to move them a little bit sit sit down sit down sit
down okay no both of you sit down okay um okay let's move on okay Jason why don't you come up here okay mallerie both of you both of you come up here okay now uh humor is a great Icebreaker he makes a clever joke and she laughs at it and maybe uses this as an opportunity to establish some playful physical contact okay so Jason I want you to just try it out okay say something witty to her okay all right okay your a woman and I would like to flirt at you dang it that's great
that's great okay I'm supposed to laugh at that it's it wasn't wasn't funny so oh Valerie um it doesn't matter if it's funny or not okay you laugh hard and then you give him a playful nudge it lets them know you're interested playful n playful nud okay but Jason um why don't we try something with a little more Gusto this time okay maybe with a punch line okay we could try that okay so let's uh get a little closer get a little little little closer Maller little closer I am speaking to you right now okay
yeah you your [Music] laugh now some playful physical contact oh okay no uh little little softer than that mallerie maybe maybe not not in the face so much in the arm NCH his arm playfully playfully M no no okay you're joking him you're Ching sit down sit down okay no Jason you stay up here okay no um mie why don't I show you how to do it okay okay okay uh it's like this Jason you are so funny thank you yeah you see so no no no no no no no no no no no no
no don't don't ever no no don't feel bad don't feel bad I mean you're you're really very Charming so I I wasn't singling you out okay you you all are very Charming so class [Applause] [Music] dismissed the I want to step with you I want to run I want to run I with you I
