there's nothing more cringe than watching some dude flatter a girl flatter her you know talk her up to the moon and tell her all sorts of stuff about how wonderful and you know beautiful and intelligent and knowledgeable and you know just flattering her it's so pathetic yeah and sometimes it's like a long drawn out thing and sometimes it's just like a single sentence a single word no matter how long or short it is it's still cringe it's still pathetic and you have to understand why why flattering women always fails it fails to get the woman
into bed first of all and that's the whole point you'd figure right but more important flattery in and of itself is a very very dangerous thing see flattery is incredibly dangerous because it gives people the object of the flattery a misappreciation of reality see it's it's the opposite of what friends should do a good friend a true friend will tell you the truth you've become friends with somebody with john smith and the guy you know one day tells you you know this thing that you're doing you shouldn't do it it's going to be a bad
thing now of course you've been become friends with john smith because you hang out together you like each other you talk about movies and books and this and that and the other you've grown to trust his judgment right so here he is coming at you with a particular judgment saying you shouldn't do this see and this friend john smith he's doing the opposite of flattery he's telling you the truth about reality a truth that you might not perceive and he's telling you don't do this because you'll get into trouble and him telling you this is
important because his judgment is going to be very similar to your own that's why having a true friend a real friend who will tell you the truth even when you don't want to hear it or when it hurts you it's so important so valuable but that's the opposite of flattery flattery of course is to tell people how wonderful they are even if they're not even what they're if what they're doing is completely foolish or ridiculous or dangerous or stupid or just awful yeah flattery is the worst emotion and see we all instinctively recognize this when
some bootlicker comes at us we we sense it pretty quickly at least i have whenever some bootlegger comes at me you know at first i'm like oh that's really nice he's giving me some compliment but then after like the second time i'm like ooh get away from me why because a bootlicker is you know keeping me away from appreciating reality see i know how wonderful i am i'm a fantastic guy i'm a [ __ ] genius i'm smart as [ __ ] i'm charming i'm funny witty i'm all those things handsome is [ __ ]
brad pitt i know that yeah but you know i know that that's not really true i know deep in my heart that i'm not as handsome as brad pitt and sure [ __ ] not as smart as albert einstein or some [ __ ] like that yeah and charming and funny no no i know this i know it in my heart and it's fine to be on the receiving end of flattery to feel a little better about the defects that you know about yourself right but when it gets a little bit too far just a
little bit too far it distances you you from reality and all of a sudden your appreciation of who you are is so divorced from reality that you can get into trouble it's like that that uh you know 85 pound weakling who thinks that he can take on the 250 pound boxer and he's been just so brainwashed into thinking that he's a great uh fighter that he steps into the ring and gets the ever living [ __ ] kicked out of him that's the problem with flattery and so you notice this with low value women especially
low value women not in the sense that they're not particularly attractive but that they're stupid see stupid women who by definition are low value they swallow the flattery oh yeah they just drink gallons of it well they love it they love the attention and they love that that sense of feeling good about themselves see but smart women i'm not talking about women with a lot of iq points i'm talking about you know women who are on the ball huh not stupid women high quality women they realize that the flattery is a lie and you know
who i learned this from new york fashion models yeah because like in the late 90s i was living in manhattan and i had a nice loft i had a nice life and i had a lot of money and all the rest of it and i fell into the fashion crowd it was just blind luck but anyway the point i met a lot of fashion models and they were hot as all blazes but here was the thing see fashion models compete on looks and so they're incredibly realistic about their own looks they had to be it
was their business so they knew exactly how attractive they were and they knew where they were in the pecking order among the other models they knew that there was that model over there that had a better look for our photography for instance but this other uh model had a better look for video and this one over here was better for catalog modelings and this one was better for you know catwalks and fashion shows and whatnot they were very very clear about their looks they had to be like i said it was their business see they
had to be very realistic and so when some guy would come up to them and say oh you're so pretty you're so beautiful you're so this is that they'd say [ __ ] they would know that it's [ __ ] because even though all of these women were incredibly gorgeous they knew that there was some other girl who was prettier they knew some other girl had a better physical attribute than they did and so they were realistic and so when these flatterers would come at them they just dismissed them they didn't want to hear them
because they knew it was a lie they knew that it would hurt them in their career to listen to the flattery and that was the funny thing see the guys who flattered the supermodels well not not all supermodels but the models i met at least they weren't all of them anyway the point the guys who would flatter these models failed with them the guys who sort of like ignored the looks and just tried to look at the woman they succeeded and of course on the flip side the ugly women the fat women slaughteringly women those
are the women who fall for flattery every single time oh yeah have you seen those land whales i'm talking real porkers you know i'm talking those chicks that are you know tipping in at 200 pounds i mean they could take you on and you know they could they could just like throw their body weight on top of you and crush you like a [ __ ] soda can you know what i'm saying anyway those girls oh yeah they fall for that kind of flattery [ __ ] and that flattery is so incredibly dangerous it's incredibly
dangerous because it gives them a completely erroneous view of reality and it's not just their looks it's their brains it's what they can do and this is the pernicious problem of our contemporary culture insofar as women and flattery is concerned now because a woman has been convinced has been flattered into believing that she can be as good as any man take on any man yeah she's as good as any guy and so a lot of these stupid women right they figure that they're they're just as good as any guy in all respects they don't look
at the the reality the physical reality and you've seen those videos on youtube and tick tock and whatnot of some stupid girl some girl who's like weighing in at maybe 1 30 140 in high school typically this happens in high school this stupid girl has been brainwashed by flattery into thinking that she's just as good as any guy just as tough as any guy and she hit some guy she hit some guy who's like a like a skinny dude you know and she hits him and she's fatter than him and so she figures i'm bigger
than him and so i can i can take him physically and of course she can't she hits him and what does the guy do out of instinct i mean he's not even thinking about it he's not you know he's not uh a woman abuse or anything like that no he gets hit and he just hits right back and knocks her flat on her ass that happens every time there are so many damn videos of it is goddamn funny it's practically a genre yeah those are girls who have been flattered by the society at large into
a completely erroneous view of reality because they think that they can take on a guy and they can't of course not a guy has more muscle mass even if he weighs the same as a woman yeah it's genetics it's it's not even genetics it's the chromosomes man i mean it's the way that human beings are built the guy can deck her like that but the dumb girl has been so flattered that she's been brainwashed and this is the terrible danger of this flattery yeah because this social flattery that's going on right it's convinced all these
women that they deserve much better than they should get they they think you know uh some fat land whale figures that she can get a guy and that she ought to get a guy with the so-called three sixes you know six pack uh six foot tall six figure income yeah and who is she she's like this pimply gross 170 pound five foot two inch i don't know what you call her right and she's been convinced that she should get that she's been convinced by the society at large because the society at large has flattered her
so much that it's spoiled her it's made her detached from reality she doesn't understand where she fits in the world because she's been flattered because you know you go girl you know healthy at any weight all that [ __ ] all that empty flattery so this is a lesson to you you want to go out and get laid right i mean part of the reason you're watching my goddamn channel is you know you want to pick up some tips to get laid or at least know what not to pursue in order to get laid right
okay so you want to get a chick don't flatter her ever just don't you know she's getting enough of that [ __ ] from the society at large right and what happens like i say the smarter girls the women who are actually greater value like i said not necessarily that attractive or that brainy but who are on the ball well they're going to know this they're going to instinctively realize perhaps they're not able to articulate it but they'll understand that the culture of the society at large is painting them a false reality as to who
they are and they don't want that nobody does because we're aware that we need to have a fairly accurate grasp of the reality around us or the reality around us will kill us that's been true for most of the existence of our species and so that's why we instinctively want to know what the truth really is and we instinctively avoid flatters because they're lying to us they're worse they're making us have a false impression of reality and so a woman of greater quality will want you to not flatter her i'm not talking about being like
brutally honest that's just [ __ ] mean okay no i'm not talking about that a lot of guys think that that's what i mean no see being like brutally honest yeah and telling her the truth yeah that a lot of times is just a weird kind of passive aggressive move that guys who haven't gotten laid very much pull on some girl who's shown them a little bit of vulnerability that's a mistake no never do that but what i'm saying is that don't flatter them don't lie to them tell them if they ask you tell them
the truth but don't give them the truth unprompted because that's just to hurt them okay no treat them as you would treat like i said in another video treat them like you treat a nerdy guy with a little bit of condescension but don't flatter them flattery will get you nowhere [Music] you
