VOCÊ PRECISA SER INFIEL | Marinalva Callegario

Hello everybody all right with you people'm so happy'm here in my hometown here in Foz do Iguaçu and today I decided to record a video here in my studio right you many of you send one mensaginha saying that was with longing I record video here in this corner so tasty but they're cozy and I decided to come here record this video for you if you must be on track that mine What video is this Mari How come Infiel you need to be Infiel Calm down I'll explain gen guys it's been a long time I watch

a video on YouTube once of a teacher he took and went to give a lecture he was in a city there and I was called to a city to give a lecture and finally I remember that this marked me a lot because of the story he told in what happened in the At the end of this lecture he gave a lecture was full the auditorium full of people when he finished the lecture everyone left But a very pretty girl she stayed she waited for everyone to leave and she stayed there until it's all leaving just

her and this teacher so after everyone left she went there to talk to him and this beautiful girl took it and hit on this guy of his is already a middle-aged gentleman more or less and she is pretty young pretty and she hit on him and he took it and dumped her and she was extremely upset then she emailed him so she was extremely upset with anger right angina got dumped and then he talked about this issue of infidelity that happened there he talked about in the sense that when you choose to be faithful to

something or someone automatically You will need to choose to be Unfaithful to the expectations that other people have of you or to other things that are contrary to what you chose in case he was married so he chose to be faithful to his wife from the moment he got married and i he was making the option for a single woman to have a single woman in his life and from the moment he made this choice this option he understands ndeu he would he would be unfaithful to the expectations that all other women had about him

that So this girl this pretty girl she was very angry at him for being dumped think was beautiful as so he walked out on me must have lost her ego must have been hurt there he decided he said Me to be faithful to my wife I had to be unfaithful the expectation that that girl who had about me after all I had a commitment to my wife and not to that girl with that girl in my role it was just a matter of giving that lecture and I'm leaving People I thought it was such a

beautiful integrity, you know So deep what he said that I remember this video marked me because it's been years since I watched I've never forgotten and this I brought to my life and many things I didn't use in the matter of relationships that when you mind with someone it's not necessarily a marriage but a dating thing that from the moment you have a relationship with someone you are ethical it is not upright for you to be faithful this person we choose to be faithful this person automatically you have to be aware that you will need

to be unfaithful to make expectations that others have in relation to you that we can bring to ours personal life also in the sense that when you decide to be faithful to yourself and not betray yourself, you will often be unfaithful, that is, the expectations that others have of you in various areas of life, for example, if your parents have expectations that you do a certain training in the course a college in a certain area of ​​your life what you play in the family business and that has nothing to do with you it has nothing

to do with your Essence you will have to choose to be faithful to expectations they have or be faithful what your heart your intuition the fact is you're screaming you 're talking no it's not that it has nothing to do with you in your heart it burns and burns for something else like that then all the time we have to choose who we are going to be faithful to and who we are going to be Unfaithful to, that is, not the person but the expectations that people have of us that the expectations that people have

of us it's their problem it's their problem it's not a question Wow we don't have to live to please each other as I always talk about you being faithful to you in the sense when someone invites you to something I ask you for a favor and you don't it's like that but even so you say that to please someone else automatically you're being unfaithful to yourself you're cheating because you're saying yes to someone else and you 're saying no to yourself and you're the most important person you have in life it's you you'll live with

for eternity forever he'll be able to die with you all or And then we're temporary now you'll be with you forever' all companies are temporary including our parents with in my case I no longer have my parents they were temporary companions that I use a realm I loved but I don't betray myself so many people confuse the issue of a Rappa and mother thinking I would do all their wishes and not that you will Honor Honor Father and mother are you respected but you do not disrespect yourself so I went a while ago it was

last year it was still in the past I went to an event called Abolição which was an inside for billionaires and there were billionaires who they gave lectures about their life experience and how they became billionaires, many came from absolute zero like that and I found it intriguing that there was the case of Júnior then the owner of Madero Praia do Madeiro do Jerônimo finally told his story that he opened a company he broke it open the other one broken by broken broken broken it just went wrong his business went wrong and he always did

it exactly the way his father told him to for me to always do following what his father wanted from him, the expectation that his father had in relation to him had seen it always doing everything right, you know, thinking that he was honoring his father by doing this, but he was always angry at his companies and I project zero and one tug again until one day he said like you want to know I'll do it my way now I'll do the exact opposite of what my father told me to do because until now I've always

seen it the way he said and everything went wrong and when he decided to follow his intuition, do it his way, he gave his butt. That's when his companies started to grow that he started to multiply and he became a billionaire that so sometimes we follow, we don't realize how much sometimes our parents the people who want us well sometimes they have limiting children they want our good eyes they really love us But they have limiting beliefs in certain things a Hi guys like in that book there Dad Rich Dad Poor Dad his real dad

was Robert Kiyosaki's poor dad and Rich Dad was his friend's dad and his Poor Dad Like taught no you have to study hard for you to graduate so you can get into a company and get one good job and spend the rest of your life where you're going to retire and rich dad who was his friend's father taught him how to make money no you have to have your own business you have to make the money work for you Often times we are educated in the way it is from Poor Dad you have to study

a lot you have to do it no you don't have to study right I studied like hell there is psychology which is a five-year training I did more four years of specializations and after these four years many other specializations and other courses so I have more than 10 years of study it is very important to bring luggage opens our mind finally makes us evolve cognitively in emotionally as well because It's an area of our life that ends up touching and financially Obvious so it's just that sometimes our parents that that mentality is a little limited

have limiting children and sometimes you think your parents are going down but actually you're cheating, I understand when you fail to follow your intuition to respond to their expectations that people In relationships and friendships with parents and also in the spiritual world What do you mean Mario well most of my audience tomorrow the day you are Christian as I am also Christian means little Christ Christ is the person I have as an example and I try to follow in his footsteps in this each day more like him and he says he is not of this

world as we also his disciples are not of this world either. I'm from this world so I don't have to follow the standards of this world I don't have to follow the rules of this world they don't concern me anymore but everyone's doing it but I 'm not all the world is going to be super fashionable and i don't care i'm not my rules are not based on the rules of this world so for you to be faithful to it for you to be faithful to your spiritual principles you will need to be unfaithful to

the expectations of the world it's about you and you can't walk like the world you can't act everybody act and think like the world thinks because you're not from this world these days were really cool because i said i shouldn't trigger mine it was the day i woke up like this You know those days when you look at the world and it seems like nothing makes much sense like it fits and I missed so much I missed being with Jesus so much to be in heaven to go to my other side that feeling that my

here is not my place here on this planet it's not like i'm not from here you know sometimes i listen to your salary man i think i'm one it's time i don't feel like i'm from here really people we're not from here so it's natural sometimes you wake up with the longing for what you don't even know what it's like a place you don't even know what it's like to feel lost in this world to feel like nothing makes sense because we're not of this world so if you're not of this world you don't have

to follow the standards of this world Paul himself speaks I think it is in romans he speaks do not conform to this world but be transformed by the renewing of your mind our mind needs to be renewed needs to be different so you need to understand here for you to be faithful to something or someone you need to be Unfaithful to the expectations that the world has of you that sometimes your parents have of you and other people have of you. you're going to have to say no you're going to have to back off because

from the moment you choose to be with a person it's not like if you're a person who has a straight character you'll be faithful to that person you you m a commitment And then and this will imply that you are unfaithful to the expectations of other people who will hit on you no you are not a person of integrity or do not make a commitment to anyone if you do not intend to be that person no matter if people will be disappointed those who will take the materials will be disappointed you don't have to be

faithful to their expectations you have to be faithful to the person you've chosen to be committed to you don't have to be faithful to the expectations that the world has and to the principles and standards that the world has you have to be true to what you believe if you have a right spiritual belief if you are a Christian or whatever regardless of your belief your beast your religion whatever you are decided to declare yourself as a Christian or from some religion you chose to be faithful to those principles Then you will need to be

faithful to the principles of the world people think so normally and then you you you who are not of this world the world think normally finds it normal deceive think normal to have advantage vineyards But this is not the Kingdom of God that is not part of our realm of our true and there are many people and the wave know go in the wave even of exposing is both So your body as if it were a commodity is Whoever spoke these days Instagram has become a menu of people to serve a strong hug but I

reflect on this it is logical that not generalizing Instagram is a wonderful tool where we can post so many things that will enrich other people that will add value Just as we can also learn from other people with a few more profiles and but there is this side yes that sometimes the person like this Ah I'm feeling needy I'm alone I got dumped I I ended a relationship Let me look for someone here you understand and sometimes you get into the same rhythm of the standards of this world when in fact for you to be

faithful something implies you being Infi el to other things to other people to other expectations to other standards you have a principle you automatically have to understand and you have to be faithful what goes against your principles what goes against an upright character what goes against what you declare and professes to be So this reflection I wanted to bring here for you and especially be true to yourself and listen to your intuition be true to your principles You seem like a good person you don't need to talk like that to everyone you can be a

good person and talk not when you want to talk not when someone invites you to something you're not into or when someone asks you for a favor and you're all busy with things to do you don't need to be overruled Leave your usual stuff like that for others because behind that there is also a desire to be accepted of being approved of having loved to be a part of and who has to, if the machine has to prove who has to to feel that you belong to yourself you who have to give yourself this welcome

you have to be faithful to you each time you bring yourself your glow erases your essence you know it is opaque you glow and a person who is faithful anyway she has a supernatural glow she's faithful she plays it she talks there's no problem with politeness of course but when someone asks for something to do a favor she really can't do that she said look i'm sorry but i won't thank you for the invitation but let's leave it for next time maybe another time but she says no she is faithful to her and you will

see that when you learn When you start to be faithful to you you will see how much your essence it will blossom for how many people will start to look at you with different eyes will start to respect you more because because you are respecting yourself you are being faithful to you so to be faithful to you understand that many times you will need to be unfaithful to expectati see that others have something to do with you what they expect of you no don't worry about being the good guy and being the good thing you

don't need that there's even a book called I recommend it called the good girl syndrome the person who says that to everyone who says yes to everything she breaks down she's thought commitment but she talks like that to help everyone because because behind that there's an insecurity it's not a need to be accepted and you don't need it so be faithful be faithful to your principles be faithful to the person with whom you have committed a relationship be a person of integrity with a straight character and then you will reap the fruits of SUS and

the fruits of this are beautiful and you will see how people go starting to look at you with different eyes with respect to your own posture will already impose a respect because it's because you're respecting yourself because you're being faithful to you right what So that's the message I wanted to share with you ho je if you liked this video remember to let your like it here for me leave your comment below and also because I love reading your comments subscribe here to my channel share this video with other people it was good for you

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