in this world people always convince you to talk about your problems but it's a trap showing people your pain is like bleeding next to a shark because the more you Reveal Your Pain the more people want to hurt you and although this does not always happen it's very common for people to take satisfaction and seeing you suffer some are just good at hiding that satisfaction behind fake empathy think about it when you fail a business and you show all your despair about it people will come up to you patting on your back saying they feel
sorry for you but at the same time they will want to know all the details just to humiliate you without you even knowing it telling others how unskilled and stupid you were or if your girlfriend cheats on you people will tell you that what she did was wrong and that you're better off without her but behind your back they'll turn you into a joke and your whole Affair will become a laughing matter now you may wonder why people would be so cruel and the answer is simple these people's goal is to feel Superior to you
so whenever they see you being bothered by something it's like a treat to them they can't wait to Feast on your Misfortune but when you act like nothing bothers you you deny them the satisfaction of superiority completely that's right learning to not show your weak point can end up becoming your strong point in this video I will tell you how to become an unbothered man number one gain control of your tongue nowadays men talk more than women and a common reason why is overcompensation meaning they want to cover up weaknesses so they talk and talk
hoping no one sees their deficiencies pathetic anyone can see through the man who talks a lot but a man who remains silent is hard to read a silent man comes across as unbothered but also as someone you don't mess with and when he does speak people listen now these individuals are rare 99% of people crave for attention importance and love being listened to that's why you'll find men who burst out and speak without even giving a thought to what they are saying it's like they speak on autopilot listen the tongue is a wild beast not
many control but the world lays at your feet if you can tame it and the way you tame it is actually very simple you do it by becoming comfortable with silence whether it's because you need to think or because you don't have anything to say let there be silence no matter if people are confident itable or not remember think twice before you speak and speak only when you feel that your words can be more powerful than your silence number two surround yourself with real people whatever problems you have it's easier to face them when you're
in good company it doesn't have to be a lot of people it can even be one or two but when you have this close Inner Circle you can take on the world I'm talking about people you can cry in front of and talk about the biggest obstacles you face to the outside world you may seem unbothered and in full control because they can't see that you handle all your issues together with those you can trust number three true wealth is contentment of the Soul we live in an age where everyone is seeking wealth everyone wants
to become rich and there's nothing wrong with it but true wealth is contentment of the soul and there are a few different ways to have a Content Soul the first is daily gratitude it is only when we begin to appreciate the little things in life that we begin to experience contentment there is so much that we take for granted in our pursuit of more but if we were to stop and take time to thank God for every little gift we will attract a higher level of bless blessings and inner peace into our lives another way
to reach contentment of the soul is by becoming part of a community you see our souls are social in nature and need to be part of a community that feeling is not just to beong but to serve as well recent Studies have shown that community service cures many forms of depression and loneliness this is because we tap into the part of our soul that needs to serve if the pursuit of this world has left you cold and lonely then maybe it's time to shift one's Paradigm from consumption to service when we give back to society
we attract blessings and inner peace into our lives number four trust God's plan the final step is simply to trust the Creator and his plan for you in the age of social media it's easy to get caught up with other people Everyone always seems to be better than you and this can lead you to forget all the blessings you do have or even make you feel depressed listen the social media world is fake don't have it make you lose perspective what is real is the creator of everything and he has a plan for you even
if you can't see or understand it fully you must trust that plan now I already know some people will get triggered when I say this they'll say things like God isn't real or get angry at me for giving credit to the Creator listen it's not my job to convince you of anything but I do encourage you to build your relationship with the Creator that's when you'll see what it's like to have true power on your side this video was about how to act unbothered but when you put your faith in something so powerful and mighty
you're no longer just acting unbothered you actually become unbothered because everything in this world pales in comparison to God by the way if you want to level up in life don't forget to show some love by hitting the like And subscribe button until next [Music] time young to all you [Music] young up you take one come here [Music] you go
