recently I got a dog and I think that this is actually going to be beneficial to my insecure attachment style cuz I have avoidant attachment style right and so it's very common for me to not be very consistent with my Behavior to be fully loving one second but then to pull back and just not want to give any more the next and so I think that this is a great opportunity for me to practice my consistency to overcome my fear of getting vulnerable of engulfment because dogs are very loving right they're very consistent and so
it's kind of impossible to get played by a dog because the majority of people today are very insecure they they can't get around without playing at least some form of Mind Games and it has affected me very drastically and so that's why it's kind hard for me to trust people cuz you know that they're always going to play mind games in the end like I'm not immune I do play mind game sometimes when I'm upset but I have heard this thing recently about 50% of people with secure attachment Styles well actually no 50% of the
people on planet Earth have a secure attachment style so they're not actually that hard to find it's just that they're all in relationships right now and that just leaves the rest of us to mind games insecurity manipulation so basically if you're not secure attachment style you'll pretty much destined to get with someone that's also called an insecure attachment Style but the thing is dogs are pretty much the same thing as secure attachment style because they're loving and they're consistently loving they'll never one day just decide to abandon you they'll always be there for you and
like obviously the no replacement for actual human beings but they can like sort of bring out the secureness in you because if you do off Shadow work and you know your triggers you think about you recognize your own patterns of like oh I'm getting too loving here I need to back off no because I'm going to become secure attachment style I'm going to keep loving and obviously it's you can't communicate with your dog and say like oh I feel like I need to back off for a bit or whatever but you can still practice like
being secure with your dog and some of a dog secureness will rub off onto you so it won't make you 100% secure attachment style but it will bring you there somewhat that's just my theory anyway I'm not going to pretend I know everything about this I've done like a tiny bit of research but I think that if you suffer from an insecure attachment style like if you're avoidant get a dog learn to trust again cuz chances are if you're avoiding attachment style you find it very hard to trust like people people obviously but like animals
you should at least learn to trust an animal learn to trust something if you're going to trust anything if it can't be humans then at least make it like a pet or something right and so I say just get a dog because I have been practicing my consistency with the dog and who knows maybe I will become security attachment staff from this although I I kind of doubt it but I do feel myself becoming just a bit more secure because I know that whenever I go downstairs that the dog will be there for me this
is all just Theory like I said I let you know let you know how it goes if you learn more about self-improvement if you got a Discord server the link is in the description go join work hard you're a [ __ ]
