up here. I already done told him that I was not going on a date. He wanted me to go on a date.
I told him that I needed my hair and my nails done. My toes, they already done. As you can see, my hair is not done.
My nails not done. I don't know what type of lady he think I am, but I told him that I wasn't coming and he still pulled up. Why would you show up here?
And I told, "Do you have my money? " Thank you for the flowers. Do it.
Does it look like I'm ready to go on a date? I told you when you DM'd me that you needed to have me in order first. How am I going to go on a date?
My hair's not done. My nails is not done. Like what?
What's going on? I mean, I'm just trying to take you out. What are we talking about?
Thought we going out. Come on. You look good to me.
Go. No, I don't look good. My hair and nails right now.
I'm going to be sitting there waiting. I'll be right here. Sitting here waiting.
Yeah. I'm going to call you after I go and get my hair and my nails done. Then we going to reschedule.
All right. So I see you trying to play games. I'm not trying to play games with you.
What is wrong with this crazy man? He just almost hit me, y'all. What's going on?
D, you don't got the salmon, too. Like, for real, I had to eat. I know you had to eat, but what I'm saying is like, you know, you know how my budget is like like for like buying.
Hey, hey, did you get my strawberry? Yes. Oh, hell no.
Hell no. Uhuh. Who is this?
This is my friend. Okay. Your friend.
Oh, who paying for food? You are. No.
Okay. No, I'm not. I'm Listen, man.
I'm intimate. No. If you want to be with a woman, this my friends come with it.
So, you need to buy her a drink. Drnk. You still want those Brussels sprouts?
I do. Okay. Oh, she ain't get no salmon, too, though.
She ain't get no salmon. If she wants salmon, she can get salmon. Being rude, man.
Like, I want it on somebody else. She She's vegan. You know what?
I'm I'm going show you what Rudy is. I'm show y'all can pay for your own damn food. Y'all can pay for your own food.
What's up everyone? Today we're watching gold diggers try to finesse men on first dates. And these men are not falling for it.
They're walking out instead. I'm talking about women who show up to a date with a whole strategy. They order the most expensive thing on the menu, rack up a massive bill, bring their kids expecting him to feed them or test them with financial demands.
All thinking he'll just pay up because he wants to impress them. What you want to go through for your kids? You already had me wait an hour and a half.
[music] So it's for my kids. For your kids? Yeah.
You owe me that. And that daddy. I'm sorry.
That's not No. Dead ass. Oh my god.
So that's Go ahead and bring another steak and some potatoes. Okay. No, don't bring no potatoes.
Sesame sauce. No. Bring the check.
I'm paying for I'm paying for my meal and your meal. I'm not paying for your kids meal. No.
Yes, you are. No, I'm not paying for that kids meal. No.
No. No. You don't think you owe me after having me wait an hour and a half?
I told you I owe you. I owe you one. I take you out.
And so you going to pay for my kids food? No. I'm not doing that.
Can you please go ahead and I'm not doing that. No, no, no. Hold on.
Hold on. Hold up. Hold up.
Hold up. Hold up. Hold up.
Beautiful. Hold up. Hold up.
Don't do that. Don't do that. Don't do that.
Why you not bring two, please? What? What's Why should I do that, Kier?
Because you sitting right here on the date. I was late to the date. I was late to the date.
Can you bring two orders? But I'm saying why would I Why would I get her kids food? Why would I get her kids some food?
They with their daddy. She was She was right here. They daddy should be feeding him.
She was waiting. She was waiting for You said you order a steak for your son. How old is he eating?
He ate. He ain't eating steak. He eating the same I eat.
No. Hell no. Hell no.
I'm straight. I'm cool. Don't Don't put that on my bill.
Give him Don't put that on me. Make sure you put a side of A1 sauce as well. He all of this today.
I'm not paying for all that. No, I'm not paying for all that. Yes, you are.
You going to get her fired up in here. She ain't going to get No, I'm about to go back in the kitchen. You got me messed up.
I'm about to hurt right now. No, for real. I'm telling her right now.
No. Yeah, man. I'm not paying for that.
No, I'm not. I'm not paying for this food. I'm not paying for this.
She sat here and watched cuz I was late for you. Look, cuz I was late. I'm not paying for this.
No, I'm not doing that. And then after that, we already at Red Lobster. You couldn't take me no more.
I'm about to go back in the kitchen. I'm going back to the kitchen. No, I'm not paying for this.
I'm about to leave. [music] You going to pay for my food and your food and what you ordered in here. No, listen.
No, I'm straight. I've been here since I was 15. Okay.
I told you I owe you one. So I mean I'll take you out again, do something for you, but I'm not doing something for your kids. Whatever.
No, I want you I ain't even met your kids. I want you to make sure [music] that my kids eat too, man. Y'all see this, man?
Look, I'm recording this. Look, y'all see this [ __ ] real mama time. Hey, she going back to the kitchen.
Hey yo, get hurt. Get her. Hey yo.
Hey yo. Hey, don't put that order in. Hey, don't put that order in.
That made my kids. Don't put that order in. Don't put that order in.
That made my kids for real. Like I'm about to give me my check. I want just my check with my with with my You know what I'm saying?
I want my check. Okay. Don't put them kids on my bill.
Them ain't my kids. You know what I'm saying? Them ain't my kids.
You know what I'm saying? Trying to put a bill on me and them ain't my kids. Hell no, bro.
She trying to put a bill on me and them ain't my kids. I'm late to the date. She's trying to make me get some food for her and her kids.
What wrong with that? What's wrong with that? You late?
It's my first date. I ain't even met the kids yet. You late?
I'm late. I got to buy them steak. He said steak and two chicken tenders.
Wrong with that. Come on, y'all. Y'all ain't on my side.
Ain't nobody on my side, man. It's cool, though. It's cool, though.
Whatever. It's cool, though. She going to take that She going to take that [ __ ] off.
She taking that [ __ ] off. Nope. I ain't paying for your kids.
Yeah, I ain't paying for your kids. Yeah. A 8-year-old and a 5y old.
They both going to eat good. Probably got a big head just like your big head ass. They both going to eat good.
Look how big her head is. Her son got a big head, too. No, I ain't feeding your son.
N this woman showed up an hour and a half late to a first date, brought her two kids uninvited, ordered expensive food for all of them, and then had the audacity to expect this man to pay for everything because she was late. The entitlement is insane. You owe me because I was late and know your lateness is your fault.
That doesn't obligate him to fund your entire family. She brings two children he's never met to a first date and expect him to buy them steak. Why would a stranger pay for random kids?
Black gladly deal thought my name was free food. The bill came up to $23 and65. So you come on my house later tonight.
No [ __ ] what I look like. Thanks for the meal though. I ain't coming though.
All right. Give me a second. Blood free food.
Take man. Where you going? You guys pay the bomb, man.
Don't call my blood clut. You be coming here eating in front of me and my kids though. For real though.
For real though. I'm a grown a grown man provides. Okay.
Would you come here with one box of food? I have eight kids in this house. I can't feed myself.
We supposed to just look at you feed yourself? We're supposed to look at you feed yourself over here. All the kids ain't ate.
What you mean? Okay. It's lunch time.
They had a little breakfast. They had a little breakfast. They had a little breakfast.
Okay, it's lunch. It's three meals a day. How you going to come in here with one box of you a grown man?
You a little ass boy. Because a grown man would have fed my kid. A grown ass would have fed my kid.
A grown. But now what? Now what?
They just supposed to run around here and watch you eat? No. Believe it.
I can't believe it either. I can't believe it either. One box of damn food in here for one.
Can you share? I can't. You can't share that for all y'all.
Oh, exactly. Where was your mind at when you ordered that? Hungry.
Okay. But you knew you was coming here with me and my kids though. You just think that you need to call and check in like a grown man would.
Like a grown man would. What you handing me this for? Your turn to pay for the food.
It's who turn to pay for the food. Your turn. Why would it be my turn to pay for the food when I'm here with my man?
Cuz I always pay for the food. I can't hear you. What?
I always pay for the food. You always pay for the food. Yeah.
I always pay for food. I ain't paying for it today. You not paying for it?
You know, it's okay. It's only $50. Well, pay for it.
Well, pay for it. Why would I have to pay for anything if I'm here with my man? You are my man.
You supposed to pay for everything? Got to pay for everything else. So, you can pay for the food.
You what? I don't pay for everything else. So, I got to pay you.
I got to go in my pocketbook and get out $50. You can't pay $50. Nope.
Okay. Well, I'm leaving then. What?
Oh, you might as well go ahead and call the server and see who going to wash dishes cuz it ain't going to be me. I'm not paying $50 for this. What?
I ain't You ain't either. I'm not paying for this. He said he not paying for it.
So So what he needed? What? He said that I'm the woman.
He been paying for everything all weekend and now he want me to pay for it and it's only $50. Sit back, son. So he can It's only $50.
So what you think? What you want me to pay for it? No, he need to go wash dishes or something, right?
Oh, okay. I mean, we got plenty of dishes. [laughter] I mean, no, because I'm not paying for this.
It's only $50. Huh? This woman spent all weekend having her man pay for everything.
And when the bill is only $50 she refuses to pay, she has the nerve to say, "I'm a woman. You supposed to pay for everything? " The entitlement is absolutely delusional.
I always pay for the food. Girl, you just said you don't pay for anything. Which is it?
You're my man. You supposed to pay for everything. You know, you're a grown woman.
You have a job. You can contribute $50. My crazy Wow.
Oh, wow. [laughter] This bro didn't Are Are you going to pay for these groceries or what? I don't have enough money.
I don't have enough. Put it back. I have to feed my oney old and you telling me so you can date me but you can't pay for this stuff.
That's what you telling me? Is that what you telling me? See, that's how these guys do, baby.
They take you out on dates and don't want to pay for your stuff and then he know I got a oney old baby. You don't even want to buy my baby clothes. That's how guys do nowadays.
They just date you. $472. Okay.
Are you going to be paying today? How are you paying? Yeah, y'all.
This how it is. Guys be wearing the hottest shoes. Thank you.
$2 and $300 worth of shoes and don't even want to pay for the stuff I had to pay for, y'all. Cuz I've been dating this guy for for for about maybe two to three days. And baby, this how they do.
But I just went ahead. I'm I'm probably going to break up with him though, baby, cuz I ain't got time. Look at this.
He can spend $200 $300 on some Nikes, but he want to help me pay for my baby stuff. So, you know what? I don't have time.
I'm just going to go ahead and cut him off soon as we get out here. I ain't going to cut no show at Walmart. Matter of fact, you don't even have to push the basket.
I can push the basket. I don't need you to push the basket no more. That's right.
Put them hands in them pit. Can I have a bite? I only got this one taco.
You got all that food. Okay. But that looks really good.
I said I wanted to try that one. This is the only thing I got. I only got one.
I got one. I'm just going to take a little bite. I don't want no ribs.
I just want a little bite. Just a little one. Just a little one.
You never [music] share. I can't even get the first bite though. No.
Well, let me have it and then you can have a rib. I don't want ribs. Why?
I have a lot of them. I just don't want that. I told you I didn't want that.
I want that. I want a taco. Let me have a bite.
Let me have a bite. Come on. Here.
Just have it. I don't even want it no more. So, I have all of this.
I don't even want What are you going to eat? Why? Let's just make some food at home.
Just eat your freaking taco. But let me have a bite first. It's the best part right here.
[music] You taking a beat. You just dropped the hook. It's fine.
That was good. It's fine. Eat it.
It's good. Have one more. M.
It looks so good. [music] I told you this has it. I don't know why mine no more.
Here. You eat a bite and I'mma get [music] another bite. It's fine.
You could just have it. You hungry, right? You want to switch?
You [music] want a big back, right? That's rude. You want a bigger back, right?
Go ahead. That's rude. That's rude.
You have a big back. You're 6'4. [music] Wait, wait.
Okay, so this is just couple stuff. She wanted a bite. He doesn't want to share.
And they're going back and forth about it. It's petty but real. On one hand, she's being pushy about his food when he said no.
On the other hand, he's being kind of stingy about one taco when he could have just let her have a bite from a jump. The body comments at the end, though, that's unnecessary from both sides. That's when it goes from playful bickering to actual low blows.
For bed while I tell you about the worst time I've ever been rejected by a guy. I literally have not told anyone this story because that's how humbling the experience was. Background info.
I never ever approach guys first cuz I have anxiety. So, I must have just been feeling crazy this night. So, I see this guy out of the corner of my eye and he is super duper tall.
Like exactly my type. You guys probably wouldn't think he's cute, but I find average guys attractive. Something was telling me like, Avery, this is your husband.
You need to go speak to this guy. So, I got next to him trying to be as casual as possible, acting like I'm ordering something. And I'm like, oh, what are you ordering?
Anyways, he ended up telling me what he was ordering and I think it was like, "Oh, I'm going to get the same or something. " I think he said something like, "Why would you order that? " And I was like, "But you're ordering it.
" At this point, I was about to walk away anyways cuz he was so weird and like dry. And then he looks at me and I'm like, "Oh, wait. Maybe he is normal.
Can hold a conversation. " And you know what he says to me? Are you friends with my girlfriend?
Obviously, I knew I wasn't friends with his girlfriend cuz girl's girl, what? But I'm like, "Who's your girlfriend? " He says a random name.
I'm like, "No, I'm not friends with her. " At this point, I'm walking away because I'm not talking to a guy with a girlfriend. That's just so weird.
And he goes, "Wait, do I know you though? " I said, "No, but you have a girlfriend. " And he said, "Can I get to know you?
" He then goes, "I lied. I don't have a girlfriend. " I said, "Why would you lie about having a girlfriend?
" You know what this man says? He says, "Cuz you're not my type. We could be friends, though.
" I'm pretty sure I ran away and walked to the bathroom in pure embarrassment and disbelief because if he had to lie about having a girlfriend because that's how unattractive I am to him. That's terrifying. And it's also terrifying if he did have a girlfriend and then just wanted to talk to me.
Either way, it was so humbling and so and I will never be approaching a guy ever again. I'm not driving you anywhere. Yes, you are.
Drve me. Come on. What do you think this is?
What do you think? This is my world. Okay.
I can do whatever I want. You can do Okay. Yeah.
You're my boyfriend. And if you're not setting the standards in which I'm happy with, then you can leave. Okay.
Um Well, thank you for opening my eyes. A opening your eyes? What the hell are you talking about?
I mean, you never acted like this. You've never acted like this. I can act however I want to act.
So, why did you choose now of all days? Because you know what? Honestly, I had really really high hopes for today.
I was expecting like something really really magical was going to happen and you're just a big letdown. You've let me down in the biggest way possible. Like I was Yeah, I was expecting that you loved me enough to actually get me a fancy dinner and instead you bring me Cheesecake Factory.
Okay. Yeah, [clears throat] you can get out of my car now. Are you kidding me?
Yeah. Why? You can get out of my car now.
This woman demanded he drive her somewhere. And when he said no, she's like, "Yes, you are. You're my boyfriend.
" Then she complains that Cheesecake Factory isn't fancy enough. The entitlement is absolutely insane. This is my world.
I can do whatever I want. You know, you're in his C. That's his world.
If you're not setting the standards in which I'm happy with, then you can leave. So, she's telling him to leave if he doesn't meet her expectations. Meanwhile, she's ungrateful about dinner.
He took her to dinner and she's upset it's not fancy enough. Cheesecake Factory is a nice restaurant. Most people will be grateful in I need 250 for the babysitter.
You need 250 for the babysitter? Yeah, most definitely. I'm saying like you want to go on this date, right?
You want to go on a date? Want to take me on a date? I need 250 for the babysitter.
Why don't you get in the car? Like, come on. You I can't just leave my kids.
We've been talking about this [ __ ] all week without paying the the babysitter. We've been talking about this [ __ ] all week, though. Okay.
So, you ain't got 250 to pay the babysitter. I'm paying for the date. No, I'm saying Listen, I can't I can't give you 250 now.
You want to take me on a date to these high-end restaurants and she can't pay 250 for a for a date? I'm saying the money I got is for the date though. One for your baby.
So, why don't you have your baby daddy pay for the kid? What? So, we only So, you only got Okay.
Okay. So then he should be taking me on a date then. I'm saying I'm saying what you saying.
So if he going to pay for the kids then he should be taking on a date. Listen. I was looking forward to this and you Yeah, I was too.
But 250 babysitter. Yes. Kids got to get taken care of.
I can give you the 250 but what's the problem then? What's the problem? Besides signing these papers.
This is her decision to get divorced. So why should I pay for her daughter that's not mine biologically? Yeah.
I took care of her. Okay. Then we'll figure this out.
You just throw away [singing] seven years [music] of being in your daughter. You're throwing away 7 years. This was your idea, not mine.
This is your idea, not mine. Was it not your idea to get divorced? We're not getting [music] anywhere.
Just take 15 minutes to cool off. How you don't want to take care of Charlotte? Yo, you being unprofessional.
How you don't want to help me take care of [music] very professional. So, what I'm supposed to do? So, what I'm supposed to tell her?
You want your life completely? Yes, I am. I'm closing this chapter in my life.
[music] You want a divorce? I'm closing a chapter on you and Charlotte. I'm not taking care of either one of you.
I wanted the divorce. You never asked me why I wanted the divorce. Okay.
[music] You got a divorce. You think it's something that you did wrong? I ain't nothing wrong.
That's why I'm not taking care of you and Charlie. I ain't nothing wrong. You just walking away cuz you probably got a dude.
You probably got a dude or something. I don't know what's going on. If I had a dude, I wouldn't be asking you for no.
Check this out. I'm not about to take care of you. Meet somebody else.
You going to do the same thing I was doing. Come [music] in there and play daddy for your daughter. Play daddy.
Like I've been playing daddy for all this all these years. And then I'm not about to pay for stuff [music] and then she get stuff from pay for your food and the kid food. Yeah.
What you want, baby? You want steak? Steak?
Yeah. Oh yeah. You going on the ground?
Why? Why? Why you got your child with us though?
It wasn't part of the plan. This is part of the plan. It's not part of the plan.
You want to date? You dating my child, too. I'm dating your child, too.
Yes. Oh, you wiggged out. You wigged out.
That wasn't We supposed to eat our food afterwards. Go back to the crib. Next.
I can't hear. First of all, we don't have to. Come on.
We going out. Yeah. We We ain't doing this.
I ain't even got to Man, y'all tripping, bro. I thought I was going to do that, man. Y'all tripping.
Tripped out. Yo, let me This man went on a date with this woman and she showed up with her child. And when he's upset about it, she's like, "If you want to date me, you date my child.
" The audacity is insane. He didn't agree to this. You plan a date for two people, not three.
You can't just ambush someone with your kid and expect them to be cool with it. If you want to date me, you date my child. That's a fair statement for a relationship that's already established.
Not on a date where he didn't even know the kid was coming. She orders steak for the child and expects him to pay.
