[Music] apparently whatever you thought of was hello hey yeah literally came to me like 15 minutes ago how do I trust myself you okay should you oh this is an interesting little twist on giving sorry guys I'll explain self trust in a minute but I want you to ask yourself the question should you trust yourself I can tell you nobody in this field is gonna ask you this question really what if the answers yes m'd know if you guys come on feed bag this is what the deadest crowd I never talk to you are you
asking me I thought you asking them same difference cool umm well I can well well this is my battle I guess because I feel I should trust myself but then again if modern I hang on wait yeah well at what points exactly because I get a lot of I guess stop it you're making me laugh no in what well when would you not trust yourself what would what would that situation look like I love this conversation yeah that's good Dave let's do it let me introduce you to a philosophers mind okay okay in the graduation
of consciousness we could call philosophy one of these graduations of conch you have to get to the point where you can leave the door open that you could always potentially be wrong and I agree yeah I'm actually getting aggressive with you like this I'm teaching you stuff I know and I can literally look at you and say I know it 100% but if I don't leave open a window saying that potentially I could be completely wrong you should never trust me as a teacher ever it is like the most dangerous thing you could do thanks
Matt to understand why no because there is no being in existence they can tell you what they don't know that they don't know yes thank you this is my Nutty Professor personality it's gross no it's great I'm vibing to say this is so unexpected sitting here are me talking to you about the unknown just this whole day for me to be honest with you but you don't have to get into that I can't okay this is my first laughs attack on stage it is not gets my crafting mechanism sorry I'm back oh gosh I forgot
my quest no I remember okay cool I'm listening I do apologize well I don't you shouldn't I guess this group needs to laugh oh I'm so glad that we won't until until also so welcome good I mean I know I need to ground myself hang on okay I'm seriously stop no this is normal for me it's just not normal for the situation [Music] please say something please say something just okay that's cute I like that okay okay you ready waiting into the microphone ven I'm good there is no being in existence but can account for
what they don't know that they don't know none I want to get very aggressive at this point because those of you who are sitting in the audience obviously by virtue of being here today are on the leading edge of thought source itself that which we have been calling God has a subconscious mind if it didn't you would not exist source is coming to know itself through every being in existence means it doesn't fully know itself means that there is stuff that source doesn't know it doesn't know so there is no being in existence including collective
consciousness that knows what it doesn't know therefore you cannot fully trust yourself [Laughter] I hate you and I should go like we should go like touring around the country use Jesus oh my god please that would be amazing [Laughter] don't say these things if you don't mean it [Laughter] you'd be such a good bridge between me in people yes what do you mean by that you know typical person you're not a people person Anna what do you mean by that I'm a good bridge between you and people what does that mean to you do you
not see how relatable you are the people I do yeah you're like extra relatable to people and even though I'm more relatable than some people in this field there's still an element that's not particularly human okay okay East you're aware [Laughter] [Applause] I know I just pack on this and oh my god stop talking just like my translator yeah that sounds dismal okay okay what we have to do as people is to hold that in the same way that a philosopher holds the concept that they could always be wrong so in this hand I don't
know what I don't know so I can't completely trust myself nor should I now in the other hand I trust myself that's your new life sounds hard huh she doesn't get it never let's try again [Laughter] thank you I love you too remember how earlier I was talking about cognitive dissonance yeah and cognitive dissonance is the progression of human consciousness yeah we have to be able to develop the capacity to hold polarities okay that means at the same time as you trust yourself you don't trust yourself yes I got it guys this seems like a
contradiction but it's actually a complimentary truth it's like you're always leaving you can be in the house but you're leaving the door open to the house and that is what I don't know why you know that sorry go there all right that's the thing that they say [Laughter] [Music] the lights are on no one's home oh yeah it's like you're yeah exactly you're so that's good you're at home yes you're at home when the door is open you can be inside the house and have the door open mmm the door opens right everything's on lockdown
everybody's just doing my parents they're crazy I love them then I hate them at the same time hey that's cognitive dissonance the polarity is real [Laughter] oh my god I am great he's gonna be the best talk show ever I'm feeling it do you understand what I mean though by holding holding the concept that you potentially shouldn't trust yourself at the same time as trusting yourself I do but then again I can be good at what point whoa how deep can I go into that like I hear you and I understand what you're saying and
I guess to be fair I don't really understand why I was asking you this question because I guess it was a get like for the collective and I don't have an exact example of when I would need to trust and not trust myself you just have to act and then whatever unfolds unfolds no no we don't do that all right don't do that no okay because based on your prior life experiences quite often the impulses that you will get in any given moment will lead to very bad decision if you walk down that road with
that philosophy well you just do whatever that's how I ended up drunken pregnant yes oh babe I can't but are you happy now yeah never happened oh okay woman you're making a funny went you I made significantly worse decisions than that yeah I hear you yeah we've all been in yeah high energy contain the lack of me seriously yeah [Laughter] it's a major relief my mind is like Tesla so much better I feel like I'm high and high it's great but you're not see what the group I wasn't just to check you're all laughing with
me right yeah good good good good not that I need that validation or anything it's so good because I needed the validation Matt obviously okay I'm gonna meet you I have one more car see Kim well somebody yeah I don't know Gracie came up here love your pants they're very grounding yeah no I'm serious I don't think I could pull off red pants they look great on you okay okay self trust you know how I explained the the consciousness splits I showed that shame split where you you cut off from the aspect of you that's
angry what we have to accept about ourselves is that we are a basically a plethora of fragmented souls the best way to think about yourself each person is you're a mosaic that's the reality of your consciousness so if you are a mosaic it means that you've got these multiple parts all with their own often contradictory feelings otherwise they wouldn't be in a state of separation mm-hmm lack of self Trust is about the relationship between those internal selves so let's imagine that you are a part within you and so is this one when self Trust is
an issue is when the two of you can't take each other's best interests into account now that you'll see this happening I gave you that like I ended up drunken pregnant type of scenario right let's see how that would go just I want you to just sort of roleplay it okay okay so you're the I want you to be the goody two-shoes really you wanna be the other one no that's not I can do that actually you'd be the nun you're in okay you don't be the goody two-shoes you're the one that's that's loving the
idea of having sex without protection and getting drunk off your ass okay this one disagrees so you're gonna see how this relationship looks okay just keep passing the microphone back and forth okay and this is actually happening inside you I know you know this feeling if it's not if it doesn't translate as like actual words in your head all of you know this feeling where it's like you're ripped in half in the situation you need a chassis belt I wanna have sex STDs it won't happen to me nothing ever happens to me that's what she
said I just want to have fun like why do we have to be so serious because it has consequences you're gonna get an end of pregnant no father no baby daddy no baby daddy um heartbreaking but people get through that all the time they do did I not have a point neither [Laughter] do you do you trust her she's sorry I feel like she's on my buzz a bit like I just want to be free live my dreams you know and you just remind me of my mom even though she never said those things to
me because you're a well you don't talk about sex cuz you don't have sex until you get married um but yeah do you know what I mean you know what I mean yeah do you trust no she doesn't think about the consequences keep a raise of hand so I have any impulsive people who relate to this I want to get oh y'all know Yolo Yolo Oh the huts were on but no enzyme I don't know just keep it in the lake don't know Mike okay Yuki yeah why do you not trust each other we've got
different different viewpoints and different perspectives of outcomes well that's a sweet way of putting it well yeah I'm sorry I was the baddie um you're playing a zero-sum game if she wins you lose if you win she loses if she wins you end up at your home wearing your Snuggie hmm if you win I'm having a good time yeah yeah but either way it's an experience right advocate sorry do you understand why this does not breed trust say that again sorry I just okay zero-sum games are where trusts go to die okay to trust is
to rely upon the fact that someone can capitalize on your best interests that is the most direct meaning of trust do you see how that's not the case no I'm not saying it I'm sorry I don't like laughing too much on the inside I'm not dealing ok you mm-hmm you cannot rely upon the fact that this one can capitalize on your best interest can you well I don't know her or that me oh my novelist myself yeah how do I trust myself I'm demonstrating a split yep there is a split you want to go get
drunk she would rather you have a chastity belt mm-hmm does the chastity belt have anything to do with your best interests well no no neither does getting an STD for sure no so you guys have demonstrated that you're terrible at capitalizing on each other's best interests you cannot take the other's best interest as part of your own that is the antidote by the way okay so so self Trust is about how to take all parts of yourself as part of you so as to make a decision that capitalizes on all of their best interests okay
safe sex yeah that would be one example sometimes you can find a wonderful third option like you just found but I will have sex with all kinds of guys but I'm gonna wear a condom mm-hmm now that one says okay I can trust you you're capitalizing on my best interest and you're like I can trust you too you're letting me have sex it's like a happy medium no no I got that I don't want you to think about the happy medium did you guys watch my video today would you like to know what it is
titled for those of you that came here instead of washed it it's called balance oh my god do you know how difficult that is for me I'm a Libra I thought that was my purpose finding balance do you know what I mean no I know what you mean but I've just shot it to hell today so yeah cool I might watch it there you should watch interesting might watch it yeah I will watch it deal yeah if you try to approach this type of scenario where we relative to your internal split aspects if you try
to approach that from an attitude of trying to find a happy medium or balance what's gonna happen is that you're gonna ask for compromise okay neither of them are gonna be happy about that it's like you being a little bit of pain from the relationship with me and all being a little bit of pain for the relationship with you oh my god I love this relationship it's always about finding the commonality hmm don't you mean by that finding the commonality well Naru I think I'm still stuck on happy medium which I need to you need
to get the help I need yeah well that that's clearly something that's like mega programmed in there at the moment which I will release [Laughter] okay let's just play with me happy medium within this relationship okay our relationship look let's say I'm a man okay I'm really interested in you being a wife and mother this tense Israel I'm sorry keep it this what I want yeah cool all right yeah so you want me to be your wife yeah and play wifey yep and like cool come clean for you you I shouldn't say that but yeah
but I have resistance tonight I'll marry you but you need to cook and clean and that feels good to know I don't know if I cook and clean for you you're compromising on kids I want them now are you seeing a problem with a happy medium yet yes really like to be in the relationship you have to be in a little bit of pain and so do I mmm the hell is that mmm this is why I've been single for like six years I can believe it papi stop that stop that what's a base talk
to you if I thought about the world in terms of happy medium I came I would never date a man as long as I live okay yeah do you see why cuz you don't want to be in pain and there's no reason to be and it also makes it impossible for you to find someone who's compatible mmm when you find genuine compatibility there is no happy medium it just needs no you're gonna say I want I want to watch a movie they're gonna be like weird coincidence me too okay and you're gonna say I think
in between the whole time it's well you can find relationships like that yes yeah and you'll be like I don't want children he'll be like actually I don't either it's not gonna be one of these like leverage yeah with the happy medium regardless of whether it's a relationship internally or relationship externally you set yourself up to destroy the relationship completely because if I take a little bit of pain for you who do I resent me yep I like that thank you hmm I could have gotten way more in depth with I would have loved that
but yeah I think I can read your mind at the moment what's your takeaway um I'm gonna be single forever no no no no um this is balance and trust bit don't trust yourself validate me to know okay this is what I'm saying learning self trust learning how to purify these relationships internally and externally that's the work of your life learning how to feel so that you can act on feelings which is another thing that we associate with self trust that's the work of your life very important to develop self trust very important also to
leave the door open always to the fact that potentially you shouldn't you see it's not a contradiction it seems like it but many things within this universe that seemed to be a contradiction or complimentary you wouldn't know why I would love to know why because you leave the door open for that I shouldn't dress myself in this moment scenario and you become the person who's the most trustworthy as it happens understand why why well you're leaving the doll orphan so there's like you've got that is that polarity have you ever dealt with somebody that completely
100% trust himself and you know they're wrong um Who am I to say that they're wrong old like new you really know it like I'm saying this is like pick your expertise what's your expertise oh I don't know um I don't know I've no one's ever asked me that ok well the universe just came down and said you tell me what the one thing you are the best at is what is it making people laugh nobody is doubting that ok so let's just go there I can use that let's say that somebody is about to
go do a stand-up comedy skit mm-hmm they tell you this is the joke that I'm gonna go if I trust myself completely the audience is gonna laugh you know for a fact that's not gonna happen yeah the person probably shouldn't trust themselves with them well I don't know how to answer these cuz I'm pretty oh now I'm going like and just so much other stuff right yeah like I'm quite encouraging so I just let I say you to you food and like you know that's fine but that's a separate subject ok one of the most
terrifying experiences maybe I'm alone in this but I'm gonna venture that other people agree I find one of the most terrifying experiences on the planet to be when somebody is completely convinced that they're right yeah I can't and I know that it's not right not like oh I know it like I know it like I really know it but how do you know you know because you do know what you do know what you don't know is what you don't know you get that okay this is how any expertise works it's a terrifying feeling hmm
and most of the wars on the planet are fought on that premise so leaving the door open to potentially I don't know potentially I can't trust very very very safe I really want everyone to be that safe so we can stop being so damn dogmatic you think I'm done yeah I feel like we're done okay that I love you I love you too thank you for the laughs [Applause] [Music] [Music]
