how to have her begging begging for your phone number what the is up its coach Kyle welcome back to the channel man in today's episode we're gonna be discussing the proper way to get a girl's phone number to set up a date all right and before I jump into that really quickly if you want to work with me one on one click the link in the description fill out the application for an opportunity to work with me personally I will be reaching out to you and contacting you to discuss the details so let's discuss how
to get the girl to be chasing you pursuing you and asking for your phone number number closing you okay it's a much better position to be in and chasing the girl and by the way the only time I'm going for the number and trying to set up a future date is if I can't pull the girl during the initial interaction please keep that in mind before anything before trying to get a number you should be going for the pull right then and there either trying to bring around an instant date or bring them to an
after-party or do something with a girl on the spot but let's just say that you can't actually do that in this moment we're gonna have to go for a phone number so how do we do this and step one is actually very similar to how you would pull the girl which is you don't wait until the end of the interaction to start going for the close okay you don't wait until the girl says I gotta get going nice to meet you and then you say oh wait hold up can I get your phone number and
yes she may give you her phone number however you're then gonna be stuck in this position where you have her phone number there was no plans discussed your phone number isn't safe than her phone and now you're in this position where a lot of guys reach out and message me saying hey I met this cute girl I got her phone number what do i text her I don't know what the texture and it's really not so much that your text game is even that bad it's just you're not running the the initial interaction as good
or as properly as you should be so rule number one don't wait until the end of the interaction to go for the close the second I see this girl is showing some interest in me I can see that there's some attraction she's showing some indicators of interest she's holding good eye contact she's smiling she's engaging she's asking me questions she's participating in the conversation she made maybe she's even filling in some of those silent moments in the interaction let's just say you go back the day Oh active meditation yes sir that's cool for what for
fun an alarm should be going off in the back of your head saying this girl is somewhat attracted there's clearly some kind of interest here I should start baby stepping towards the clothes okay so rule one don't wait till the end of the interaction to start going for the clothes the second I see interest or attraction I'm starting to baby step towards the clothes okay rule number two in conversation at some way I'm going to start throwing out ideas that mean this girl can be doing in the future I'm kind of reverse engineering the date
here I'm trying to figure out I don't know what do you do for fun cuz you seem like okay so your ventures oh that's still I'm big into like hiking and stuff you know you're either going out to get food together you're gonna get a drink together you're gonna get coffee you're gonna go for a walk you're gonna go on a hike if she's in the fitness you could get a workout in or do yoga these are all good activities that you could be doing in the future with this girl okay so the idea is
that you want to find an activity that you and the girl both like to do that way later on it makes sense for you to get the number way through it with your accent it sounds like so copper it's good that's good have you been to the High Line before oh you have you you go to Chelsea Market oil or the High Line have you been to Chelsea Market what you only been here one year have you been to press lounge okay see you see you don't got all my spots it's and by the way
often times I'm picking activities that are close to where I live close to my house because ideally I want to go out on a date with her do something quick and maybe end up at a second location ideally at my house or even closer to my house okay so she's showing you some interest you're in the interaction you've been discussing several different activities with the girl that you guys may both have in common or something that you want to show the girl and by the way I haven't yet asked her to do this activity yet
I'm just bringing up the conversational topic of doing this activity and that brings us in a step three which is I'm painting a picture in the girls mind of what the activity would be like with me it's a rooftop it's really just like for the for the view because it's like a breathtaking view honestly I was surprised that there was even like that good of a view in New York so usually I like to walk I'll walk the High Line and then like you can walk up a couple more blocks and then go up to
press lounge so become an example of this is oftentimes when I'm day gaming in New York I'll ask the girl if she's ever been to the High Line and for those of you that don't know the High Line is essentially an abandoned railroad track that they turned into a boardwalk so it's an elevated boardwalk that goes down the coast of Manhattan and it's got a beautiful skyline view of New York and new on both sides of the of the walk and throughout the trail there's nice little graffiti arts street performers a couple different vendors they
sell food it's just a good vibe with good scenery okay so you see what I did there I kind of just painted this picture in your mind of what the activity is that's what you want to be doing with the girl you found the activity that you want to do with her the next step is paint the picture in the girl's mind of that activity make it sound fun make it sound cool and interesting and be engaged in that that activity you don't want to sound boring as when you're talking about doing the activity with
her you want to kind of hype it up a little bit okay because you want the girl to be interested in doing that as well if you're gonna go on a hike trail it's a really dope hike trail with amazing scenery great views sometimes you'll even walk your cute little puppy at the trail as well and you can show her a picture of your dog or whatever the your activity is you paint the picture in the girl's mind of doing that activity without inviting her there yet and step four I'm going to start baby stepping
towards the clothes assuming she's showing interest in that activity a key thing to point out at this point based on her interest level based on her attraction level that's going to determine how direct I'm gonna be going for the clothes example the girls showing really high interest we're talking about the High Line and she's saying things like no way I've never been there or wow that sounds really cool or yeah I've been there I love it there that's a great spot I was just over there so I could probably be a little bit more direct
in that kind of a situation so I might just say something like yeah I usually walk him on the weekends over there it's beautiful you should join in sometime if you want to come yeah oh yeah view I was gonna say we should meet up over there sometime so if the interest level isn't as high I'm gonna say something a little bit more subtle something along the lines of I'm actually a low-key tempted to invite you to join me sometime you see how that's not so pressuring on the girl it's like maybe I'm gonna invite
you maybe I'm not I'm tempted to I'm not sure so the goat will fully reject me she's not really no absolutely not you know she's just gonna be like yeah I don't know and if she starts acting that way I pulled away the invite I said yeah probably it's probably best if I don't cuz like Colombians be crazy so like I don't really know you on that level yet but you seem cool so far so what's like something interesting about you you see how I kind of changed pull the invitation away it's not a harsh
no and then I kind of smooth it and transition back into normal conversation so if you've done the first couple steps correctly meaning I've talked about several different things I couldn't do with the girl and I've painted a picture in the girl's mind of doing those activities it's not uncommon at this point that the girl will straight up ask me for my phone number but oh what a perfect combo um we can do that don't exhale they'll text me to schedule if she's agreed that we should cook together sometime or that we should go get
coffee sometime or that she wants to go to the Highline with me and walk my dog it only makes sense now for us to exchange numbers so the way you get the girl to be initiating the number clothes is to already get her to agree to do one of these activities with you and the way you do that is subtly introducing the idea of doing these activities and as the attraction goes up then you start baby stepping towards the clothes if all of its done properly it's not uncommon that the girl starts asking me what's
my number or says something like yeah we should just text and stay in touch so we can do that activity or should just blatantly say yeah what's your number all of these things have happened to me and if done even better on a challenging level the girl will be like are you gonna invite me or like are you gonna call me I don't hope you call me yeah let's just do that and yeah we could yeah so I hope you guys learned something from that apply these principles in your own game to get the girl
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