Oh [Music] hey guys so today I have another video on everyone's favorite topic the law of attraction the today's video is about attracting a certain specific special someone but let me just tell you guys I'm not exaggerating when probably 80% of the d-ends common just messages I get from people asking about the law of attraction is about attracting a specific person honestly like I could be here all day just reading you guys at dads I get pertaining to this topic and basically a lot of you guys want to know is there any way I can
attract a specific person in my life using the law of attraction to be in a relationship with me or to like me or to love me or to whatever you know everything romantic about romance about love it's a big topic for a lot of you guys let me just put this out there before I get into the video because this video might not be what you're looking for if you are trying to attract a person into your life a specific person or have a specific person that feeling towards you or to be in a relationship
with your specific specific person then you might want to click out this video but there is hope there is hope and I just want to get into this because I feel kind of strongly about this topic because I get so many questions about it and I feel like a lot of times when we like somebody or let's say we love somebody or somebody from afar that we admire we want to really be with that person and they're not necessarily wanting to be with us we can tend to get kind of you know kind of crazy
love and infatuation and feelings are really really tricky stuff and a lot of times when you like somebody or you're in love with somebody you don't like to hear reality that being said I'm going to talk about something a little bit embarrassing kind of personal but let's rewind to maybe when I was 14 about eight or nine years ago I had a huge crush on this guy and I was probably a freshman in high school so I was super young and super naive and I had a crush on this guy and he had never spoken
to me I just saw him in the hall I just was infatuated with him I liked him a lot and just thinking back to 14 15 year old Isabel and I think what was I thinking really what was I thinking but I didn't know anything about the law of attraction back in those days but I was kind of using the law of attraction in my own little way doc his facebook or whatever and I was like put his picture next to my picture and kind of like look at that and say oh what a cute
couple we would be and things like that and this guy had a girlfriend and so long story short I would make wishes like at night or whatever I would wish or it would even pray that I would end up with this guy kid he was a kid as much as I used the law of attraction in my own way and I could imagine myself with him and you know things like that engaging about him he had a girlfriend he never knew who I was moral of the story is no matter how much I wished or
I did this or did that that he would notice me as well a lot I couldn't ever change the way he felt I could never make him all of a sudden switch on his brain that he would like me that he would ask me on a date or leave his girlfriend or this and that I could never change that because the law of attraction doesn't work that way and the DMS that I get are a lot like that I guess these DMSO tell me and I don't judge whenever people send me messages they're very very
personal I don't read them out to anyone I'll show anyone left there you know nothing personal I get these the ends that are a lot like the mentality I had when I was 14 or 15 is just an example and this is not verbatim what this person wrote but they said basically I like this person disguise and he goes to another school this is mad but he doesn't really know me but I have a strong connection with him I feel like we would be a really great couple and I don't really know him that well
and that's automatically the first red flag I have is tell me I don't know him and he knows amil me but I want to attract a relationship with this person let me be clear the law of attraction in my experience is not witchcraft it's not a love spell it's not going to change somebody's thoughts or their feelings or what the feeling inside it's not going to change somebody else the law of attraction is there for you to change the circumstances in your life and when you change yourself you attract better things into your life so
the law of attraction isn't going to be like hey whose brain do you want me to get into and you say okay I want you to get into Billy Bob's brain because I want Billy Bob to like me so I feel it in my heart I feel it here Billy Bob is going to like me Billy Bob's can ask me to marry him it doesn't work like that the first thing I tell people who ask me about the law of attraction is how do I attract this specific person I tell them that person doesn't have
feelings for you you're not going to just click your fingers and have the universe take away their free will to think how they want or to like whoever they want or to be in a relationship with who they want just like you would it like some random guy that you've never met or random girl you've never met to all some get into your brain and change the feeling so that you have feelings for them when you in reality didn't want to have feelings for that person or if you just didn't even know who they are
or you have theories for somebody else or you like somebody else somebody doesn't have feelings for you you can't just force them to have feelings for you you can't force somebody to love you can't force somebody to be with you or to like you if somebody doesn't like you back or somebody doesn't give you the respect or love you give them let them go they're not for you and one thing I am really really big about is using the law of attraction to attract a person not a specific person not let's say Billy Bob who
lives on French Street I'm not saying that you can attract a specific person to have feelings for you but you can attract a type of person or maybe somebody like Billy Bob that you might have a crush on the reason I'm saying all this is because we get so hung up on one person the law of attraction is wonderful in that if you write down really specific what you want in a partner you know let's say you want somebody who is educated you want someone who's polite you want someone who's close to their family you
want someone who likes to travel you like someone that has brown hair you want somebody who's six to whatever is write it down and be specific and I know that you can attract somebody might not be the absolute perfect person but the universe will align with that vibration that you're sending out let's go back to the hole chasing someone trying to get somebody to like you get in a relationship with somebody kind of thing the universe matches whatever vibration is sending out the feelings you're sending out let's go back to my little example whenever I
would see my crush and I would imagine myself with him I always had it in my mind and this is always going to happen when you're chasing after someone who doesn't like you the way you like them or if it doesn't want to be in a relationship with you whatever you're always chasing after something that you know isn't yours and I knew that he was in mine and you had a girlfriend but I still wanted it and that is the problem there is that when you're trying to chase somebody for their feelings or whatever you
want from that person for a relationship if you're chasing that person you're always in that place of lack you're always in that place of it's not really mine so the universe is always going to match that vibration okay you know this person is in yours you know this person doesn't like you you're trying to force this person that feelings for you so that means that person is in yours you're not going to have that whereas if you fill yourself up with your own love you don't chase after people which is so key stop chasing after
people because when you're chasing something that means you're in lack of it of course this doesn't apply to all fields of your life if you who are chasing after a dream with your you know working hard towards your goal that's completely different what I'm saying is chasing somebody else but isn't for you that isn't wanting to be with you you have to kind of put yourself back into reality and question yourself do I really want to be with a person who doesn't want to be with me if I'm so in love with this person why
would I want to make them miserable and being with me and that's so key is that nowadays we don't know what love is love is not loving somebody else love is also just making sure that person's happy and putting that person's happiness sometimes above yours if that person is not going to be happy with you or doesn't like you or is an attractive to you why would you want to be with that person that isn't love that's selfish that's selfish for you you have to open your eyes and say just because I want this person
doesn't mean that they're for me and I think that's why we have so much issues with heartbreak nowadays we have so many issues with just relationships failing and people getting heartbroken and hurt and cheated on in all this because we're chasing the wrong things we're chasing people that are meant for us that don't work with us whereas if we just sit back and filled ourselves up with our own love and became super specific about what we want in our life matching that vibration now matching that vibration I wholeheartedly believe that in order to get something
you have to become what you're trying to attract now I'm not saying that you have to turn into the type of guy that you want to attract or the type of girl you want to attract but you need to have those characteristics that you want in someone else that's how we match the vibration and there are billions of people in the world millions of people you have yet to meet and you're getting hung up on one person you're getting hung up on one ideal when you have such a huge selection out there and I'm not
saying this so you can be a player we can break hard so you can do this with that but I'm saying is that don't limit yourself if someone's not treating you right someone's not reciprocating your feelings or your effort don't get hung up on that person all the love that you give out you deserve to get that love back and you don't deserve to be stuck with somebody or to circumstance that isn't right for you I am when it comes to love I used to have these idealistic feelings about it I used to think that
relationships were like fairytale and magic and all this and yet love is magical true love I believe is magical but I have a very realistic approach towards just love and romance in general because in reality a relationship is work a relationship isn't all just sunshine and rainbows and this is not when you commit yourself to a person you have to commit yourself to a person in order for it to work and while you're single or let's say you like some money or they broke your heart Joe left that changed the way you feel about yourself
and I have so many videos on my channel about self-love I have one I mailed Valentine's Day you guys should go check it out but I think it's so important that when you are filling yourself up with love you attract more love into your life you attract more people and you set the standard for yourself and you show yourself love you show other people that you deserve to be loved people aren't going to take you for granted people aren't going to play you or play with your emotions what I'm basically just trying to say here
is that the law of attraction is not going to bring you a specific person in the way of you trying to change those feelings or change their emotions or get into their mind put yourself in that other person show you put yourself in my shoes I've gotten on my law of attraction videos I've gotten a lot of people guys telling me that they're trying to attract me into their life this time to check me as a partner I think that's really sweet whatever but you're never going to be able to attract me and I'm not
saying that in a cocky way but I'm just saying if I don't want to have to go H with you or let's say I have feelings for somebody else you're not just going to be able to change my mind and somehow bring me out of the sky it just doesn't work that way if that's kind of unfair to me - if it did work that way because then that means I can't I don't have the free will to choose who I want to fall in love with let's say your name is Sue and you're in
love with John but Billy Bob comes along and wants to make you fall in love with him but you're so in love with John so Billy Bob sends a message on to the universe and says I want soon to change her feelings towards me and love me and not love John anymore so let's say Sue is super in love with John and all of a sudden she says sorry John I don't know I'm in love with some random guy I've never even met if you're to imagine how you would feel however there is a flip
side to this let's say you like a guy back let's say he lives in New York and you live in LA and you both like each other but your circumstances don't allow you to be together because of jobs because of distance because of money whatever you guys love each other where you live on separate coasts qts a lot of attractions come together absolutely I wholeheartedly believe if you are loved somebody you can use a lot of Attraction to be with that person that they love you back and they want to commit to that I always
believe that the law of attraction is not just about sitting back and just daydreaming but it's also about action and if you really want to be with somebody and that person wants to be with you I think by all means you can do it you can be with that person you can attract that person into your life you can attract the circumstances whether he gets a transfer to your city or you get a transfer to him and you all meet halfway or you somehow something I always believe that to people who want to be together
and who are meant for each other are going to end up together and I think that that's just the power of love love is so powerful and when it's true love I believe nothing can overcome true love I hope this video was not super confusing I just want you guys to realize that you can attract beautiful things into your life but don't chase after circumstances or people who have shown that they're not meant for you sometimes we have to let things go and sometimes we let things go sometimes comes back into our life I think
that's another strange facet of the law of attraction is that when we relax about things when we let it go and we just trust that it comes back to us it comes to us I feel like that has been how it's worked for me and how it's worked for a lot of people that I've spoken to but obviously a lot of attraction works in different ways for different people it's all about your subconscious and a lot of things come into play what I want you guys to take away from this video is stop trying to
force people to love you stop trying to force a relationship that you know the other person isn't keen on stop trying to force circumstances and if you feel like people are giving you love people are treating you a certain way maybe it's just what you're feeding off maybe it's your energy that the parameters you're setting in the standards you're setting for other people everything comes from within I truly believe that I truly believe that what energy and vibration we're sending off is what we get back that's just the key to everything so that's it for
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