[Music] hello my beautiful angels welcome back to my channel my name is Isabel Palacios if you are new here today I decided to film this video I wasn't planning on making this video I didn't write down and he notes or anything so this is just gonna come straight from the heart because I recently did a love and romance and dating Q&A and I have talked a little bit about this subject on my own podcast it's called taking back your power if you guys don't know the link is always in the description of these videos but
I talked about goddess energy in one of them and knowing your worth knowing you're the prize so this video is going to be directed towards my female viewers anyone can watch this if it resonates of course and also guys you can watch this as well maybe you'll learn something new as well I feel like we're awakening in this era that we're in a time period here the younger generations we're waking up to a lot of things and we're getting sick of the old paradigms of the old ways of doing things and especially when it comes
to dating and I know there's a lot of amazing powerful women out there who are settling for less than what they deserve and I used to be one of those women I used to have a warped sense of what it meant to be a woman what it meant to be empowered and I know this message is not going to resonate with everyone but I hope that you will take it as me just trying to help and that's honestly what I make my videos for it's just trying to help so let's talk about what it means
to be a high value woman a woman who knows her Worth who is strong who is in her femininity and I don't mean femininity in like a I have to be girly girly and I have to dress a certain way or I have to you know be like a perfect Kate Middleton I love Kate Middleton but you don't have to be anything you just have to be uniquely you now what does it mean to be a high value woman you know your worth you know your standards and you're not afraid to voice your standards you're
not afraid to stand up for your beliefs to stand up for who you are for what you want and you're not settling for less now we have a lot of women that sell themselves short and if you have been heartbroken in the past if you've been hurt if you have been used whatever situation you have been in in the past you can change yourself and become a strong amazing divine goddess we all all women in all men we all have what's called the divine feminine and divine masculine we all have masculine energy and feminine energy
what's important is that we balance them out but a lot of times us women especially and I'm not against feminism please don't take that that way at all I am very grateful for my rights as a woman and for the women who have championed this in the past but I have noticed that we have been taught for so long to kind of shut away our femininity shut away what makes us us and gives us our our essence in our beauty and our value and there's a lot of power in being a woman not only are
we able to bring souls on to earth and are we creators in that sense we're able to create life but women we have such a powerful healing energy and now our energy is sacred and it's divine a lot of times we throw that away by sleeping around and I'm not I'm not slut-shaming at all this is something that I wish I would have been told years ago that we shouldn't give ourselves away to just anyone who will have us or anyone who will show us attention we have to be clear on what we want and
we have to believe that what we want is out there I don't care what you look like I don't care your financial status I don't care what has gone on in the past you at your core you are a beautiful divine goddess you have this value within you it is god-given and it's almost like when you're very powerful people want you to feel weak so that you're not a threat when you're really powerful and people see your potential they try to make you feel smaller the media you know the media is all about controlling us
the media wants us to live in fear wants us to feel like something's wrong with us No a dark poor were perfect at our core we are the universe we are part of the universe and I see so many women that are constantly nagging chasing after men giving their all to men and not receiving anything in return and I'm not saying at all that men are the enemy I appreciate and love men as well but if you are trying to level up in life it's important that you put yourself first and your needs first it's
important that you realize that you're the catch that you are this goddess this queen on her throne and that is how you have to approach every situation in life whether it's in business whether it's in relationships whether it's in dealing with other people never forget your Worth and you say your worth I don't care what anyone has said about you or how people have made you feel or how many times you've been cheated on or heartbroken you are the one who decides our Worth and I say this at the end of my videos those of
you who are subscribers and have watched me for a long time I always close out my videos saying your true beauty your true Worth and your true power come from within because it's true we put a lot of our worth in our external we feel that we need to tear down other women in order for us to feel more elevated and we don't have to women we have to work together we have to lift each other up and we don't have to compete by looks we don't have to look a certain way somewhere guys will
like us or will get more followers or will have whatever it is that you want you don't you just have to become truer to you well we're born we are born whole we're born ourselves were born confident we're born knowing okay we don't have insecurities as a baby as a baby your only fears are the fear of being dropped or not eating at our core we are confident beautiful beings but what happens is that throughout life we're conditioned either through our parents or through schooling or through negative experiences bad relationships heartbreak and we're separating ourselves
so it's like we're whole when we are born but we begin to separate our conscious self the self that you would see here and our higher self our true self that goddess energy so we begin to be told okay you're not good enough so we say okay I'm not good enough so I need to step away from Who I am you need to be more like this so then you change yourself again and you go this way and this way in this way and what happens is we end up with a big separation between our
true self our higher self the self that God wants you to be and then the self that we are here on earth that we are here with our friends with our family with Society and so this is the separation here is what creates anxiety creates depression it creates that feeling that you're not enough that creates that feeling that something's wrong with you and really at your core in your essence you are perfect you are perfect and beautiful just as you are how do we step into our power how do we become high value you don't
have to become like me or anyone else you just need to become more you more of who you are and if you don't know who you are if you're not sure on what it means to be you do some soul-searching allow yourself to live your life on your terms for a little bit you know step out of your comfort zone do things you fear try new experiences that's how we get to know who we truly are and we create a lot of who we are as well especially as you grow as you're changing through life
you evolve in different ways but what's important is that you allow yourself to express yourself and to be as uniquely you as possible a lot of women are afraid that they're not gonna get married by certain age that they're not going to have a certain thing or that they feel that they have to have these other external circumstances to feel like they're worthy and let me tell you something you have to get rid of the notion that you're not worthy as you are right now because all of us have things in our past that we're
not happy about we've made mistakes we've settled for Less a lot of us have insecurities we have things we're not happy about but what's important is that you show up and you be a goddess and you stand up for what it is that you want and not feel like you have to explain it to anyone the strength of a woman doesn't come from external circumstances or her money or her clothes or whatever guy she's dating or who she's dating it's in her essence it's in that uniqueness so number one I want you to begin to
own your uniqueness Oh what makes you different don't feel like you have to dress like anyone else don't feel like you have to present yourself or act like anyone else to be successful or happy or fulfilled what will bring you fulfillment my love is being more you it's allowing yourself to just be and express yourself and that is your flaws allow your flaws to be shown don't feel like you always and I know I'm probably not the best person right now because I'm all glammed up but I didn't need to be glammed up for this
video what I'm saying is that you need to allow yourself not putting your power into other people's hands putting it back into your own hands taking back your power and realizing where that power stems from and that is from within so own your flaws own your weaknesses if you have to work on becoming self-aware you can make a list of pros and cons or your strengths and weaknesses and either work to fix your weaknesses if you feel like they're holding you back or you can accept them for what they are but what's also important is
that you get into your strengths because we all have strengths we all have unique talents and abilities that nobody else has so your job and this is for anyone not just women your job on earth is to amplify those strengths use your talents the one of the worst things in life is wasted talent is wasted strength is wasted energy so take all of those beautiful things that make up your soul in your essence and put them towards your projects put them towards your work put them towards starting a business starting into your passion going for
the things you want to do and understand that your path in life doesn't have to look like anyone else's path it just has to make sense to you your life doesn't have to make sense or look prettier look good for Instagram or for your friends or your neighbors or your co-workers or anyone else you check in with your life and you say is this leading me are my decisions leading me towards who I want to be or what I want to create in my life if not let's change something we can go in a different
direction and that's another thing don't be afraid of being judged don't be afraid of being told that you're not good enough or people putting you down on that when people throw negative energy at you it's not because you're not good enough or because you're not worthy or because you need to shut down and not do what you need to do if you're getting negativity thrown at you it's because you're doing something right you're shaking up the matrix you're shaking up the box because if you continue living your life as you have and it's just been
you know basically calm waters smooth sailing you're never gonna learn you're never gonna grow so when the tough times come you say this is what I'm built for us women we're told we're emotional we're all these different things that you know and emotions are beautiful emotions are what make us human but don't ever think that you're weak you are not weak you are that Queen sitting on a throne you are that goddess that Aphrodite you have that Cleopatra energy in you why do you think for centuries as women have been kept covered up at home
barefoot pregnant why do you think whole societies have not allowed women to rule because they've been afraid of our power they've been afraid of who we are and now today in the modern era we're still being told need a dress sexy you need to do this you have to have this type of body or this type of clothes or be this age or have this type of husband or this type of partner or whatever in order to be worthy and that's all crap that is still society trying to control our power so how do we
take back our power allowing ourselves to live our lives on our terms stop waiting for permission stop chasing men because let me tell you when you become a high value woman and that's a woman who knows her Worth and is not settling for any less all these men are partners or whoever I don't care I don't care what your sexual orientation may be but all of that you will attract a lot of that people will come to you and in your femininity that is your strength don't be afraid of being a feminine woman femininity is
so strong and you know when you're feminine you force men to level up to become more in their beautiful masculine energy and you will complement each other because we need the feminine and the masculine to balance each other out and this is not about gender or anything like that we all like I said we all carry feminine and masculine but don't hide your femininity don't hide those beautiful things about being a woman and it's fine to be tough I like you know I'm pretty tough myself I would say but don't feel that you have to
have a hard outer shell and you can't open your heart or you can't be vulnerably you you can be you you can have beautiful loving emotions but you're not going to allow somebody to come in and take your energy you're not going to love somebody who hasn't earned you to come in and take from you you must be earned you are the catch you are the prize you simply just have to be in your femininity in that care in that nurture in that loving being in nature creating whether that's art whether that's making business whether
that's having and raising children whether that's taking care of children the animals designing clothes jewelry whatever creative ventures that you can have and creation can mean so many different things but what's important is that you find what makes you creative what makes you feel empowered what makes you feel that this is what life's all about problem is we stifle a lot of this we're told you have to do this you have to do that but we don't really have to do anything if you're not happy in a situation get out of it don't keep putting
up with people or things that don't fulfill you if you've been cheated on leave nothing hurts femininity more than being hurt and abused either mentally emotionally or physically now let me get into dating a little bit because kind of touched on this before but don't give your body away to somebody and this is not me being a religious or whatever you know your body is sacred that's just the bottom line your body houses your soul the thing is when you have multiple partners you're absorbing their energy and many times if you are sleeping with people
that you're not in love with or that aren't in love with you you're absorbing their energy and whatever it is and I made a video with Miss Lee or Alexandra I'll link it down below we made this video together a few months ago about how you should protect your sexual energy you shouldn't give it away that is power there is power in your sexual energy there's power in who you are and when you don't give that away so easily you increase your value because society is telling us women it's empowerment for you to sleep around
it's empowerment this is what's gonna make guys want to be with you and that's not true the more you hold off on it you realize that your power a lot of that holds your power then you will be a beautiful queen sitting on a throne then only a person who can earn you and show you I appreciate you I love you I'm grateful for you I realize your uniqueness and I see your uniqueness and I love your uniqueness that is a person who falls in love with your soul first who falls in love with you
as a person has put an effort I mean effort guys don't just take you know a guy offering to take you to McDonald's as a first date come on a guy must level up in order to meet you set your standards high so a guy will be forced to level up to meet you it's not about being bougie or thinking you're better than anyone else it's not about that at all you need people to prove that they are worthy of you and this it goes through dating and in anything in life don't ever settle for
half-assed love for half-ass effort don't feel that you have to chase or prove your worth to anyone the only one who you need to prove your worth to is yourself so prove your worth by saying not going to accept any less than this and this looks different for every woman we all have our different standards but you need to be true to yourself and be real with yourself not just saying what sounds good or what will make guys like you or say stuff like I'm not like other girls or I'm like this or I'm like
no we're not pick Me's here don't be a pick me you know what a pick me is it's a girl who's like saying oh I'm not like other girls I'm more down for you know you deserve incredible things you do and if you don't believe you don't deserve incredible things well what can I do I can't I can't tell you that's up to you this is all up to you you can choose whether you say oh well Isabelle this is all crap this is just whatever or you can choose to say you know what maybe
I will make a change maybe I will rise up my standards maybe I will change my routines I'll start working out more I'll get in shape because a healthy body means a healthy mind and vice versa I'll work on my body I'll work on my mindset oh where what makes me feel empowered and beautiful not to impress others listen to the music that makes me happy not music that's feeding the ego or feeding the scarcity mindset and I'm just gonna stop chasing people if people don't answer my texts okay bye bye somebody ghosts you you're
not gonna text and be like why aren't you texting me why did you not let him go that's another thing let people who want to walk out let them go don't ever beg for somebody back especially if they have disrespected you and shown you over and over and over that they don't see your value you don't have to prove your value to anyone else you just have to see the value for yourself and show up add that value by what you accept from others what you don't accept from others your standards and also how you
speak to yourself stop talking negatively to yourself beautiful goddess you don't need to talk negatively to yourself not in jest not trying I know it's like the relatable thing nowadays to say oh I'm I'm so ugly whatever I try to sound relatable no because your subconscious is listening to you your subconscious is picking up on all those things and whatever is put into your subconscious becomes your belief system so you can start changing your belief system around yourself now if you're struggling with confidence if you're struggling with seeing your worth in your value just start
by doing this look at yourself in the mirror without any makeup on even without any clothes on get comfortable with your body get comfortable with the way your body looks right now as it is and love your body right now as it is even if you would like to lose a few pounds it's okay we can always improve our bodies or love our bodies more that's all we have to do get comfortable with this beautiful body of yours and not just for the way it looks but for what it does for you how it keeps
you alive how it keeps you walking or moving you're talking or singing all these beautiful things our bodies can do that is so much more than how it looks my beautiful goddess you are more than your looks you are more than this she'll your worth is from within your beauty it's all from within from how you treat people from how you treat yourself for how you talk about life and talk about yourself that is your beauty that is your worth that is your power start to change your inner dialogue stop saying I always get cheated
on start saying this instead I am worthy of amazing loving partnership with the person of my dreams I am worthy of all the beauty that this universe has to offer I am worthy and I am beautiful and I am strong and I am compassionate and I am loving and when you look at yourself in the mirror without makeup without all these things tell yourself wow you are freaking gorgeous you're amazing and don't be afraid to feel yourself - to express that Howard Lee and don't be afraid of lifting up other women that's another thing always
seek to lift up your fellow woman always do it because no matter how beautiful she may be on the outside you don't know what she's dealing with it you don't know what she's dealing with within you can lift yourself up by up lifting all the other women around you you don't have to bring down other women to make yourself feel better that is not high value you will feel more beautiful when you seek out the beauty and other people and other things and don't compare yourselves I have a whole video on comparing yourself but don't
compare yourself either we're all unique and beautiful in our own way and when you allow yourself own that uniqueness talk to yourself positively allow yourself to feel yourself to express yourself to express your power your intelligence that is when you truly become powerful and your mind your mind use it as your tool your mind is not your enemy you are not your depression you are not your anxiety you are not any of your mental health issues and this comes from somebody who has dealt with a lot of anxiety and depression in the past those things
don't define you your mind is your sharpest tool your intelligence your emotional intelligence working on that is invaluable so instead of seeking to look better than anyone else or have more than anyone else or have more guys than anyone else seek to shop in your mind to grow your mind open your horizons stop judging and looking at everything so negatively and start creating beauty in your world because this is your world you don't have to belong to the matrix you can shape your reality in conclusion set your standards high stop chasing stop giving away your
precious sexual energy to just anyone and stop thinking that by giving and giving and giving you're gonna have someone like you no that's not how it is a queen never chases a queen sits on her throne and has to be won over a queen waits for others to prove to her that they are good enough for her not the other way around and by being a queen you will attract the king today make a promise to yourself that you're not gonna fall back into the old habits and mindset that you're not gonna fall in line
with what society wants for you that you're gonna be your unique self no where you're not gonna die alone you're gonna see as you step into that feminine energy and that goddess energy that Queen energy everything else in life is going to level up with you your finances your relationships so go out and enjoy life live your life to its fullest and know that everything is rigged in your favor life is not happening to you it's happening for you you are not powerless my dear you are the whole damn universe in a beautiful being so
start showing up like it start acting like it and never settle for any thing less thing you deserve that's it for today my lovelies my battery's about to die so I will talk to you guys very soon if you'd like to connect with me I am on social media on Instagram and Twitter links are always in my description and also check out my podcast taking back your power as well don't forget to subscribe to see more videos from me my beautiful angels and if you liked this video please hit thumbs up hopefully I can make
some more like this in the future if this didn't rattle too many cages but like I said I'm expressing myself I'm expressing my thoughts and my feelings and I want to see you level up I want to see you living your best life I want to see you doing all these amazing things because you know what your true beauty your true earth and your true power always come from within and that is nobody else's to take nobody can touch this unless you allow them to so protect that energy and show up as the amazing goddess
you are I love you I will see you very soon bye [Music]
