hey family welcome again to the Lisa nichels show where my desire is to share with you the tools that you need to really transform your life elevate your life to the life that you want the life that makes you super super excited I'm so excited about some of the comments you guys are on fire not fire fire Tyrone oh my God Tyrone wrote showing what loving me looks like is an eyeopener so what I talked about in that particular episode was that it's our job to show other people what loving us looks like people are
waiting for our example of how to love us and it's our job to give the world the best example of how they're to treat us and love us so Tyrone my brother I appreciate your comment and isn't that an eye opener that people are waiting for you to show them how to treat you we go through life hoping that people are going to treat us well treat us kind treat us loving appreciate us and we're not necessarily loving on ourselves they're being kind to ourselves so I'm excited about that that particular breakthrough Tyrone if you
just walk through the next 90 days the next six months showing the world how to love Tyrone it gets sweeter it gets greater later and shambra oh my God I love your B breakthrough out loud y'all now when you get a breakthrough put a b in your comments breakthrough out loud you talked about the way that I emphasize relationship a relationship is a relay sunship it's a relay between two people that you said that you love that and you talked about uh uh the way I explained care frontation that we get to have care frontation
instead of Confrontation you said that it truly ignited an even more eye openening approach to both of those things to care frontation and to re relationships so I'm super excited cuz when you get that all of a sudden your encounters with people your experience with people just get sweeter you can navigate through the terrain called relationships that much easier even when they become a little challenging and you have to have a little care frontation so I just can't get enough of you guys commenting and sharing and yes we are reading them not just me but
me and my team are reading them super excited when you're really looking at how can you practice gratitude in the midst of challenging times um and I don't want to make anything sound like it's super easy you can do it anytime there's no hiccups because life is life things happen like so many times you're on your path and then somewhere a monkey rich is thrown in someone dies unexpectedly a relationship hits a speed bump and you want to make sure that speed bump doesn't become a stop sign or you look up and your children or
your siblings the engagement the exchange with them just gets funky I can't call anything other than that it just feels uncomfortable it's grinding you or you look up in your body like mine did years ago morphs into something that you did not see coming you have illegal mergers everywhere as I like to call it like things happen and in those moments our Humanity wants to run and hide our Humanity wants to complain our Humanity wants to ask the question why me first of all let me just be very clear the last question you ever want
to ask is why me because you might just get the answer why you the quality of your answer is determined by the quality of your question ask a more empowering question when you're going through something difficult don't ever ask why me here are the questions you want to ask you might want to write these down what character what part of my characteristic is being strengthened in this moment in this situation another question what lesson am I supposed to learn while I'm going through this challenge what lesson am I supposed to learn you want to give
yourself permission to be pulled through the experience now let's talk about gratitude while you're going through I'm not expecting while you're going through something be like yes I am so excited that I have no money in my account no let's be realistic that doesn't happen but you can say what part of my character what characteristics am I displaying that's causing me to end up here at broke again cuz it's probably not the first time that you've been in a situation like this now when you look at gratitude gratitude becomes the doorway gratitude becomes the it
becomes the soil for something new to grow that often times when people go through a challenge they contract well all you do is increase energy Grows Where energy goes energy Grows Where energy goes when you contract and you focus on the problem the energy around the problem grows the energy the feeling every time you relive the experience that you've had when you don't like the experience or when it's been traumatic your body relives it again but if you can move to gratitude what lesson am I supposed to get how am I going to be stronger
what does the other side get to look like on my my best day all of a sudden energy Grows Where energy goes and then there's just this force and I'm not saying a magical this is not magical sprinkle fairy does potion lotion and Wands I am not speaking like that cuz you need to get up and be in action about transforming your life you are your own rescue that will always be the truth but if you can start the journey start the journey I'm not saying get up and run but I am saying if you
can lift up your head and say I'm grateful that I can hear the words coming out of her mouth right now I'm grateful that I have the wherewithal to even look for something to inspire me I'm grateful for the opportunity to prove my strength again I'm grateful for the opportunity to forgive the perceiving unforgivable I'm grateful for the opportunity to love the perceiving unlovable I'm grateful that even though I don't know how I don't know when I'm going to get through this I'm grateful that I know like I know like I know like I know
see you have to have unwavering faith I know I'm going to get through this when you do that you can feel the energy you probably feel it as you're listening to me there's something that occurs there's a biological shift in your being that says hold on I am not driving through this chaos from the back seat I'm not even driving through this chaos from the passenger seat I'm sliding over to the driver's seat and I am in this mess it doesn't feel good but I am driving right through and like we do in California do
a California stop at the stop sign don't even really stop in the stuff just keep right on going see most of us when we forget the Gratitude in the moment in the middle of it chaos all of a sudden you find yourself doing a lease option buy doing a rent to own taking out real estate in the middle of the chaos because you never found the Gratitude you never it's like the ignition what's going to turn you on to get you through gratitude gratitude for the ability to think about the solution gratitude for the lesson
that you're learning right now some of your best lessons are not going to come wrapped with a bow we already talked about that your best lesson going to come wrapped right there in that situation where you get humbled out now if you can get the lesson get up and get going you got one more piece of information one more piece of experience in Your Arsenal to be the extraordinary man the phenomenal woman that you've always been meant to be now remember family this is not just a monologue I'm not just here to talk to you
I'm not just here to preach at you I'm not just here to teach you this is a dialogue this is a conversation between you I and some other magnificent family members in the world I would love to hear from you what's the biggest Insight what's the biggest takeaway from today's episode today's conversation that you have what's an area in your life what's a better conversation what's that thing you're going through and then what's the question that you want to ask to help get you through it what's that muscle this is one I really want to
hear from you what's the muscle in your character that's being developed right now or what's the primary lesson that the Divine God the universe whatever you want to call it is giving you right now based on what you're experiencing in life I want you to leave a comment below please it matters we read them be sure to share click now I know you know two 10 20 folk that would love and need and move forward from this conversation so please don't keep me don't keep us to yourself share us with your community and your tribe
that's the one thing that I realized that I would have start doing more earlier I I wish I would have done is I would have shared great news more with my family more with my friends I wouldn't have assumed that they weren't interested so please share this with your tribe subscribe I love us to commit that we're going to be together for a while so please do that and look out for more amazing content why because you're a part of that this not just the content coming from me but it's the content coming from you
as well I'm your sister in prosperity and impossibility and if I say it once I'll say it a million times and I mean it every single time I believe in you and I love you take care I'll see you on the next [Music] episode okay
