how to talk to girls on the phone all right I just broke down a live phone call recording with one of my clients we dissected the whole call I thought it was extremely educational so I wanted to share some insights with you guys give you the whole structure to a phone call some mistakes guys make and at the very end of this I'll give out an additional tip of how you could actually use the phone to get the girl to just come straight to your house all right so let's jump right into this the first
thing I want to talk about is the structure with you guys of how you should be running your phone calls right so the structure is actually pretty simple you start the phone call there's going to be the vibe check then we're going to be vibing for the first two to five minutes and then we're going to be moving into the idea of us meeting up if it hasn't already been agreed upon and then we're going to Vibe a little bit more and then we're going to end the phone call on a high point so it's
actually a pretty simple structure it's Vibe check Vibe with the girl set up plans Vibe end the call on a high point that's it you don't need to over complicate this you don't need to talk to the girl for an hour on end it's actually a short call to give her good emotions and to show her that we're cool and we're fun and get her excited to want to come out with us all right so let's go into each one of these really quickly I'll give you guys some insights into each one of these steps
the first thing is the vibe check so when you're answering the phone you guys got to make sure you're in a good State emotionally and you have a good vibe to yourself don't call the girl and she's like hello you're like hey what's up all right before you even make that phone call [ __ ] loosen up dude Shake It Out [ __ ] scream like bark a little bit if you need to laugh a little bit get yourself into a good ass mood and then make the phone call so then when she answers the
phone you're like hey what's up what's going on how you doing and smile while you're talking to the girl in the very beginning very important guys it's almost like as if I was opening the girl in person because the smile is going to it bleeds through in your voice and in your communication and it creates a good emotion within the girl when she's answering the phone for you okay so first thing is smiling have a good vibe and be in a good State while you're calling her she answers the phone we start talking the next
thing is be prepared to start talking and keep talking most dudes I when I hear the phone calls they're like hey what's up and very early on there goes to me like oh hey what's going on I'm good how about you and the dude's like I'm good it's just like goes like okay so why are you calling me all right so what you guys want to do is be prepared to keep talking in the beginning of the interaction I just like to Simply talk about my day it doesn't need to be anything crazy even if
you if you had a long work day or if you just finished a workout or if you just walked your dog or if you did absolutely nothing you could still make it sound somewhat interesting yeah hey what's going on I actually I actually just got back from work honestly it was a pretty hectic day some [ __ ] went down at work and uh it kind of hit the fan but we got it all handled got home from work I was literally just walking into my apartment I was gonna hit the gym in a little
bit so you know all is well how about you what's going on or honestly I was fortunate enough I didn't even need to go into work today so I I got to sleep in I woke up feeling super rested finally caught up on some sleep and I literally just walked my dog and it was honestly super relaxing I feel nice and refreshed and I'm like enjoying the work week so far how about you or how was your weekend or what do you got going on for this weekend you got anything fun planned okay so this
is what the beginning of the conversation is like we're just vibing getting good emotions and pretty much just showing the girl that we're cool calm confident and we have a little bit of a fun vibe going on that is the very beginning of the interaction the first one to two minutes one other crucial part that needs to happen at some point in the first couple minutes of the conversation is there should be some teasing or light flirting going on you don't want to just have a super logical conversation the whole time there needs to be
some kind of emotion so you need to find a way to tease the girl to make poke a little jab at her or have a little bit of flirting in the example with my client when we were just breaking down the phone call the girl was talking about her day and she said something and my client found a way to tease her on he was like oh you did that he was like that's a little bit of a red flag okay so he just said oh that's a red flag no big deal or there was
another example where she was talking about how she would when they initially met at the club because he got a phone number from the club and yes you can get phone numbers from night game that result in dates believe it or not that's another [ __ ] myth if you have the right Vibe and you understand the whole interaction you could totally get a number that converts into a date from night game so he made a callback joke to the initial night they met because the girl was talking about her night and how she never
goes out and then my client made it slightly teasing and slightly flirty and he was like yeah it's a good thing you decided to go out that night and then finally the Stars aligned and lo and behold you ran into me or lo and behold you ran into a a sweet Charming gentleman okay so he made it a little teasing a little flirty it wasn't some push-pull line it wasn't some super gamey conversation the whole way through where he was nagging and doing all this stuff he just made it a he just had a normal
Vibe good emotion and found a way to tease and lightly flirt with the girl at some point in the first couple minutes of the interaction okay that's the basis to having a good phone call with a girl don't be awkward in the beginning have something to talk about even if it's not much just talk about it in an enthusiastic way and then at some point you need to find a way to tease or flirt with the girl all right you do that in the first five minutes of interaction you're gonna be in a really good
position once those things happen girls responding well now we transition into the meet up okay and at some point this in the interaction it would go something like this anyway what do you have planned for this weekend or anyway what's your schedule looking like for the upcoming next couple days what's your schedule like for the week anyway when you typically free or what's your availability looking like this week okay at some point we transition into finding out when she's free girl's gonna tell you when she's free and then you start baby stepping your way to
the close and what that looks like is bringing up the idea of you guys doing something so she says oh well I'm probably I'm gonna be with family on Friday and maybe go out my girls Saturday but I might be free at some point Saturday or Sunday great from there I would say cool honestly I think I should be free Sunday as well I was thinking maybe we could grab a drink I know a couple good spots we could go okay so you just suggest an activity on the day that the girls free doesn't need
to be drinks could be us going out for food grabbing a bite cooking going on a hike getting a workout in going out walking your dog doing whatever you guys want to do with the girl just pick an activity and suggestively go for that thing okay if the vibe's good and everything is going well the girl will most likely agree to it it's not so much about the activity that these girls are being hesitant about it's you that she's hesitant about so if you have a whack Vibe and you're awkward that's the reason the girl's
not coming out with you if you met a girl out you got her phone number and you get her on the phone if you're cool calm confident have a good vibe to you and you could tease the girl a little bit and set up a plan 99 of the time she's gonna come through and do that plan the problem with you dudes is that your Vibe is whack you're not confident you talk way too long on the phone about [ __ ] there's no emotion it's not flirty and as a result of those things the
girls iffy about wanting to meet up with you okay if you follow this simple structure you can run a five minute phone call the girl's gonna be excited she's going to put her at ease it's going to reduce the flaking rate and most likely she's going to come out and come on a date with you okay so that's the structure once you agree on the day and the activity all you want to do is a little bit more vibing and then get the [ __ ] off the phone get the [ __ ] off the
phone I have clients that bring me like these 30 45 minute phone call breakdowns I'm like bro you don't need to do all that if anything you probably hurt yourself unless you're at a really good level with your communication and your game you're most likely going to talk yourself out of the [ __ ] that way talk yourself out of the date that way okay good vibe tease for set up the activity talk a little bit more get the [ __ ] off the phone end it on end it on a high point if you
do that you'll be in a really good place the last thing I want to talk about is a couple mistakes guys make which is kind of already discussed a little bit but just to recap and give you a little bit more insight it's awkwardness in the beginning of the conversation not having a good vibe or enthusiasm when you're on the phone with the girl leaving awkward silences talking too logical no no emotion no teasing no flirting whatsoever no laughter you you should be having at least a little bit of a cocky smirk on your face
while you're talking to the girl wait what is you really just say that oh yo that's a [ __ ] that's a red flag okay what wait you're a Taurus oh [ __ ] yeah I don't know if this is gonna work out whatever it is okay you tease her a little bit at some point in the conversation you move to setting up a date so many dudes just talk [ __ ] forever and there was never a plan discussed you talked for a half hour and the girl's like okay gotta get going now because
you talked way too long and now you just hang up the phone there was no plans made another [ __ ] another bad move and then the last thing is just I have guys that say how do you deal with reserved shy girls or I could never get the girl to come to my house or the only girls that are going to come over are girls that are [ __ ] or too easy and that's not High Caliber women no dude that's [ __ ] [ __ ] that's [ __ ] [ __ ] the
reason the girl isn't coming to your house is because she's not comfortable with you because your Vibe is off or you're too thirsty for the sex you either indicated your your potentially weird she doesn't feel safe or secure around you or she feels like she just want you just want to get Dicker down okay that's why she's hesitant about coming to your house anybody that knows me that's comfortable around me that sees I'm not a threat would come over to my house and the reason they're feeling that way is directly proportionate to your Vibe your
communication the way you're running the interaction the way you're running the phone call and the way you're going about asking her out so get all of those things dialed in and then it's not uncommon that maybe the whole date won't be at my house but at the very least I could usually get the girl to meet over here and I'll be like cool I actually know a couple good spots over by me why don't we meet over by me and I'll drive us there together and that's not a big deal it's not a big deal
the girl is not go caliber if she does that the girl's falling into my frame because she feels comfortable with me and I've indicated to her that I'm the [ __ ] guy that she can feel safe secure trusting and she's going to be attracted to all of those things too okay that's the phone call breakdown that's everything you guys need to know about running a smooth phone call if you guys enjoyed this content and if you want to get more insight from me you want to learn more about me my coaching programs and level
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