98.1% of women will find you sexier if you show this particular trait and the reason why I'm using such a precise number is as a result of two reasons the first reason is that the latest Gallop pole data shows that 1.9% of women identify themselves as being lesbians so I'm talking about the remaining 98.1% of women who are attracted to men and the second reason is that in 16 studies on heterosexual women it was found that all of the women found the guy more sexually attractive and desirable if he showed this particular trait so this
is something that has been proven to work on all women or all heterosexual women that you meet and it's also something that proves that a man's attraction for a woman Works differently to a woman's attraction for a man so I'll explain more about that later but first I'll just point out that this particular secret can be used by guys who are single or in a relationship with a woman so if a guy is single he can use this particular secret to make women feel more sexually attracted to him and even compete to get to be
with him and if a guy's in a relationship or a marriage with a woman he can use this secret to make his woman see him as more sexually attractive to want to be more sexually attractive to him and to appreciate him so much more and not want to lose him so it's something that all guys can use so this particular secret for falls under what evolutionary psychologists refer to as mate Choice copying and this works for women but it doesn't work for men right so when a woman sees a guy on his own in a
photo versus with a woman that she is told is his girlfriend or lover she sees him as more attractive and to quote one of the studies that was published in adaptive human behavior and Physiology women were more likely to rate male targets as more desirable when presented alongside a female while no obvious effects were detected with male Choice our results provide clarification for documented sex differences in human mate Choice copying Additionally the man was rated as more attractive by the women if it was mentioned that they were currently romantically involved compared to if they were
just siblings if they were cousins or even if they were exes and finally making sure that the woman that the man was with was actually attractive also made him seem more attractive to the women raiding him now before I explain how a single guy can use this even if he doesn't have any other women in his life or if there's no woman next to him at all and how a guy can use it in a relationship or a marriage with a woman I'll point out something weird that happened in one of the studies that proves
one of my theories that I've been talking about for a long time and that is in one of the studies they wanted to make sure that the women weren't raiding the guy just on his face because when they raided a guy on his face initially and then there was shown the photo again saying that other women who were in the study rated him as being more attractive it caused the women who rated him as average or even below average looking to rate him as better looking if they found out that other women were raiding him
as attractive so what the researchers also did to prove that it's not just about the guy's face in terms of his handsomeness is that they used a photo of a guy's hand and the women would raap the photo in terms of attractiveness and then they would be asked to rate the photo again but with the mention that other women were rating it as more attractive so they then increased their rating of Attraction for the hand so what's going on there well that's something that I've been talking about for a long time and that is if
a woman looks at your physical appearance and initially finds you unattractive or average looking her perception of your physical appearance is not set in stone and and unable to be changed so many other factors can cause her to look at your physical appearance in a more positive light and suddenly see you as being handsome she then continues to look at you in that way throughout a relationship as long as you know how to be emotionally attractive to her right so she continues to see you as being handsome even if she initially thought you were unattractive
or average looking this is something that I mentioned when being interviewed by two women and one of the women confirmed it with a story of how it happened to her when talking to a guy if a beautiful woman or a pretty woman meets a guy and he's confident and he's got some Charisma and charm she will then think well there's something about this guy I like him you know he's cute he's sexy you know there's something about him and she'll feel attracted to him and as a result she'll look at his physical appearance in a
more positive light I got a man's face like yes in the first 5 Seconds that is what I'm going to look at I'm going to assess that guy what I see of course that's all I know about that person well a little bit body language maybe at first but like as soon as he comes and talks to me his face can shift and either can become more unattractive or he can become super attractive to me so powerful yeah no no but it's very in line with what you're saying like literally I I've even taken note
of this happening when I so actually my friend Suzanne has this friend Mark and Mark I don't even know how else to describe him to you other than he looks semi Al ish very nerdy and he looks like somebody who should be like playing with a science kid 24 hours a day like that like he just is he's not a very attractive person but after five minutes of talking to him I found myself trying to get his attention and trying to get him to like me more and trying to show that I was intelligent and
windy and funny and like his face literally morphed in front of me to where I saw that his eyes were blue and they were like really nice and sparkly and that like he didn't have any hair but like I like like the way that his glasses rested behind his ear like I'm just it it literally was morphing in front of me and it was absolutely crazy and that happens to most other women so when you interact with a woman and you make her feel sexually attracted to you for reasons other than looks right so you're
being confident you're being Charming you're being charismatic or you're being funny or you're being emotionally masculine and so forth she will then look at your physical appearance in a more positive light she may have initially looked at you and thought no but then she starts interacting with you and she feels attracted to you for reasons that really can't be seen it's not about the physical appearance and she then starts to look at your physical appearance in a more positive light so what's going on and what happens with mate Choice copying with women and it doesn't
happen with men and I'll explain that later is that when a woman sees that other women are raing the guy's hand or face as being more attractive her Instinct of Attraction is wired to assume that the the other women have determined or know that the guy is attractive for other reasons and this was specifically proven in some of the studies as well where when the guy was next to a woman who they said was his romantic girlfriend or that were lovers the women rated the guy as higher in terms of intelligence trustworthiness ability to use
humor and so forth Just because he was next to the woman that they said was his girlfriend or lover importantly they also rated him as better looking just because they were told that the woman next to him was his lover or girlfriend right so what happens with women which is different to men is that women are more attracted to things about men that can't be seen with the naked eye right men when they look at women they can instantly say yes or no based on the woman's physical appearance yes I'd have sex with her no
I wouldn't yes I'm interested no I'm not now if the woman isn't confident right she's a bit insecure she's shy she's nervous she's a bit awkward and so forth almost all guys will not care about that right they find her physically attractive she seems nice yes I'm interested but it doesn't work the same way for women right women can look at a guy and initially say yes but then that can change to a no if the guy isn't confident enough isn't able to keep a conversation going with her in a way that makes her feel
attracted and interested additionally what happens with women which confuses so many guys when they see a guy with a girl and they think hang on that guy doesn't even work out why is she with him look at his arms hang on that guy's overweight what she doing with him she could get another guy who is ripped and you know he's taller and so forth what she doing with him what's going on here why is that girl with him when he's shorter than her don't you have to be taller than the woman hang on a second
what's going on here why is she with him how about this girl why is she with him now the thing is with some women they won't want to to get with a guy unless he's tall and good-look right that's the reality but with most women they have what I call an open type and that means that they're open to being with different types of guys if the guy is able to make her feel attracted for reasons other than his looks so how can a single guy use this secret and how can a guy in a
relationship with a woman or a marriage use this particular secret so first with single guys what happens is that when a guy is single he will be going through life with either a seeking Vibe or a taken Vibe right so when a guy's going through life and he has a seeking Vibe he'll be looking at women and it will be obvious that he's seeking he's looking he's trying to find a woman who will like him who will want to be with him likewise when a man is with a girlfriend or a wife that he is
happy with that he's attracted to and he wants to be with and he doesn't want to be with any other woman when he walks through the world with her for example he will be giving off a vibe that I called the taken Vibe where where he may look at other women but he's not seeking he's not hoping and trying to get something because he's already got what he wants additionally if he's not with her and he's interacting with a cashier or a receptionist or so forth he might have a good conversation with her he might
be charming and confident and the woman will be feeling attracted to him because he seems confident he's being a bit charming and so forth and he doesn't seem needy he seems to be taken and if she turns on her charms and tries to get him to like her he's not going to bite and he's not going to jump all over that opportunity and try to get her number or seem excited and switch into that mode where a guy is interested and wants to get something to happen he'll remain a bit detached even though he's having
a good conversation with her and he might be a bit charming and no matter how much she turns on her charm he just doesn't bite and that makes her feel even more attracted because he's giving off what I call the taken vibe in that he seems like a guy who already has a girlfriend or a wife so a single guy can be more sexually attractive to women if he doesn't go through life with the seeking Vibe and instead has the taken Vibe but one thing to point out though is that it doesn't cause women to
run over and try to pick the guy up instead it makes women feel more sexually attracted to him and their defenses come down they feel like okay he's not a needy guy he's not desperate and that makes them feel more sexually attracted to him but he still needs to talk to her and he still needs to move things forward okay so before I give you more examples of how to use this secret to attract women when you're single or when in a relationship I said I'd point out that M Choice copying doesn't work on men
like it does on women so if a man looks at a woman and doesn't find her attractive but then she is pitched next to a man who seems to look handsome it doesn't make the man say oh well I like her now because she must be socially intelligent she must be assertive she must be confident she must be funny and so forth so therefore I'm sexually attracted to her now it doesn't work like that because for men it's mostly about the woman's physical appearance initially and a man would certainly like her to have a nice
friendly personality but a man doesn't suddenly feel physically attracted to a woman just because she's with another guy in fact it can actually work the other way where if a man sees a woman with a handsome man he can actually find her less attractive because he then looks at her as a woman who would only like a very handsome man and therefore she wouldn't really appreciate him so he can actually look at her as less attractive if she's with a handsome man so M Choice copying works on women where a woman will see a guy
as being more physically attractive if he's with another woman and especially if he's with a woman that she finds physically attractive okay so now for an example where a guy is single and he's interacting with two women or three women or four women right a guy can use this secret to make the women compete amongst themselves to get to be with him the way that it works is that when you display some traits that are naturally attractive to women such as confidence emotional masculinity charm you use some humor use some flirting women automatically start to
feel attracted to you because attraction is a reaction right attraction is a reaction to attractive traits it's not something that can be turned off it's just an automatic reaction so when you display attractive traits while interacting with a woman she will automatically feel attracted to you then what happens is that when the other women notice that the other women are feeling attracted to you they feel more attracted to you which has been scientifically proven by these 16 studies right and what happens then is they feel like they want to get you and they start to
compete amongst themselves to try to get with you now it's important at this point for a guy not to get overly excited and feel like oh all these girls like me right he still needs to maintain that taken Vibe he needs to maintain his cool and be in the position as the selector without being too bigheaded about it or anything like that instead he just needs to calmly and confidently take on that position where he knows that each of them are finding him attractive and they're finding him more attractive because the other women in the
group are finding him attractive so he's in a good position and he can have that confidence in himself knowing that it has been scientifically proven that that is actually happening to the women at that time now some women will try to hide that some women are very good at acting like they are not interested and they are very interested and sometimes a woman will do that to then make the guy want to impress her more and she will then get him another woman might do it because she wants to test the guy's confidence can he
maintain his confidence if she isn't showing him a lot of interest and another woman might do it because she wants to see how interested in her he actually is so she might withdraw some of her interest to see if he's just going to ignore her and if he doesn't actually like her as much as he likes the other girls so there are many reasons why a woman will do it but what a guy needs to do is very simple he needs to remain confident he needs to continue displaying traits that make women feel sexually attracted
and then he needs to move things from one step to the next with the woman that he finds attractive and by the way I'll mention that if you don't know how to do that I do have an ebook which you can also listen to as an audio book it's called the flow and it's a start to finish process that you need to go through with a woman when you start a conversation with her and you then get to a kiss a date or sex right it's a start to finish process of what to say and
do to flow from one step to the next and I also explain what to say and do to display the traits that are sexually attractive to women okay so now on to how you can use this Secret in a relationship or a marriage to make your woman feel sexually attracted to you want to be more sexually appealing to you and appreciate you more and not want to lose you right so when a man is in a relationship with a woman and he interacts with other women if he's able to display the traits that make women
feel sexually attracted and not have the seeking Vibe but instead maintain his taken Vibe then his woman will notice that the other woman finds him sexually attractive women notice this they pick up on these very subtle cues so if a man is interacting with a cashier a waitress a receptionist and so forth and he's there with his girlfriend or wife and he's displaying confidence he's being a bit Charming he's being emotionally masculine he is using a bit of humor potentially the woman will find him attractive and she will show signs of Attraction but if he
doesn't show signs of seeking where he is hoping to get a chance with her and instead maintains his taken Vibe where he's not trying to flirt with her he's not trying to get with her then his woman will respect the fact that he's not openly flirting with other women and trying to replace her but she will also like the fact that the woman he is interacting with finds him attractive is feeling a bit nervous now he feeling a bit unsure of herself because he is a guy that she's interacting with that she finds attractive and
he's not trying to get with with her and she also automatically finds him attractive because he already has a woman but the fact that he's displaying attractive traits and he has the taken vibe that makes him so much more attractive to her and his woman will notice that so his woman will feel more sexually attracted to him because other women find him sexually attractive she will want to be more sexually appealing to him because she knows that he could get another woman and she will appreciate him so much more and not want to lose him
because she knows how difficult it is to find a man like that so to apply this Secret in your everyday life with women whether you're single you're on dates with women you're in a dating relationship with a woman you're in a girlfriend booyfriend relationship or a husband wife relationship it's important to understand what was found from this study and what it says about a woman's attraction for a man so what it says about a woman's attraction for a man is that she can see a guy as more sexually attractive and even more physically handsome for
reasons other than his actual physical appearance all right so what happens is that when you talk to a woman in person and you display traits that women are actually looking for in men such as confidence emotional masculinity charm Charisma social intelligence and so on when you can display those sorts of traits during an interaction with a woman which has nothing to do with your physical appearance a woman knows that other women find those traits sexually attractive she knows that and what happens is that she then looks at your physical appearance in a more positive light
she starts to look at you as a guy that she thinks is Sexy For example she can look at a guy who has a bigger nose than normal and say I like his nose it's cute it's handsome it's sexy or whatever he might be bor and she can say to herself I don't usually go for Bal guys but this guy is sexy I think he's sexy I think he's handsome right and that doesn't seem to make sense to most guys out there because they think well hang on don't you have to have a full head
of hair and aren't you supposed to have a model nose that is straight and perfect to be attractive to women you can't have a very big nose you can't have a very small nose but it turns out you can with almost all women they have what I call an open type and that means that they can feel attracted to all different types of guys if the GU making them feel attracted to traits that are not about his physical appearance right so his charm his career Charisma or his humor his flirting right that makes her feel
attracted and aroused and she likes how she feels with him she then starts to look at him in a positive light and she thinks he is sexy the same thing applies when you're in a dating relationship girlfriend boyfriend and husband wife relationship right the woman will look at her man as being sexy if he's displaying traits that make women feel sexually attracted and I've heard from so many guys over the years who've contacted me and they're just starting out trying to figure this out and they said things like you know I'm 40 years old my
wife hasn't been interested in me sexually for so long I got fit I got ripped I got jacked whatever it may be and I'm in the best shape of my life and she's still not interested why is that well it's because he's not displaying the traits that women are looking for that can't be seen he's most likely displaying insecurity rather than confidence right he's most likely being awkward around her sexually rather than sexually confident he's most likely being a little bit submissive or timid rather than emotionally strong emotionally masculine being more assertive but in a
loving way right so there are traits that you can display to make women feel sexually attracted to you and when you display them women feel sexually attracted to you and if you do that when you're single and you're interacting with a couple of women three women that will usually all start to feel sexually attracted to you and one of the women in the group might not want you but she will still appreciate the fact that the other girls are feeling sexually attracted to you and that she she sees that you're a sexually attractive guy and
she will then want to encourage one of her friends to get with you because she can see that you're a sexually attractive guy it's just so important to understand as a man that you have control over this era of your life you are either displaying traits that make women feel sexually attracted when you interact with them or you're not and when you display traits that make women feel sexually attracted to you it's an automatic reaction right they feel sexually attracted to you you don't have to rely on just looks although women can and do feel
attracted to a man who is physically handsome they can lose attraction for him if he's nervous and insecure around them and although women don't necessarily look at a guy who's average or below average looking and think yes I want to be with him they can actually want to be with him if he interacts with them and makes them feel sexually attracted based on the traits that he is displaying during the interaction so I hope this video has helped you understand that a man's attraction for a woman is not the same as a woman's attraction for
a man and your attractiveness to women is something that you are in control of it's something that you can improve regardless of how you look right whether you're good-looking average looking below average looking you can be more sexually attractive to women based on the trace that you are displaying the Unseen things the things that are not about your physical appearance you can be more sexually attractive to women it's not something that is out of your control it's something that you can take direct control over it's very easy to do and when you start to do
it you'll see that women find you so much more sexually attractive and appealing