all right we got episode of pop the balloon all right I actually enjoy these shout out to Arlette she does a great job with these and she's the first one I saw doing this thing Arlette oh as a hope yeah Mrs amuli so let's take a look at this video we're just going to look at the first contestant cuz I thought she was funny let's go ahead and bring out our first single lady hello welcome I'll have you hold that what's your name hi I'm daa daa okay how old are you I'm above 30 okay
above 30 you should be proud of okay okay and what do you do so I'm a podcaster of We Like It Hot podcast I own Beach s hair and I'm a ugc Creator okay do you notice but I don't know what it is with a lot of these like black dating shows but everyone's got seven jobs well the show is in the states and the hustle culture within the black community is very strong okay how many jobs you got I'm a I'm a Creator n no start listing them up stop being humble no I got
don't be a humble King do that it's not a humble King it's not King thing is I create I love to create how about you create some space so I could get my [ __ ] off all right so first off I'm a dancer Entertainer uh comedian podcaster video editor business owner entrepreneur um business manager uh I employ people I also um um work at old people's home I take care of my mom um and I babysit I you manage your home people when the only old person there is your mom is crazy there's a
home I own she lives in it she's old I manage old people's home I babysit I hang out with my niece 3 hours times three a week nine hours uh I do charity work and by charity work I I walk outside take public transporter [ __ ] show myself to the peasants in the society what can I say man I just I wear a lot of different hats uh and we out here but if ABA was on the dating show this would be him so tell us what you do I'm a video editor that would
be you 100% you all this [ __ ] right there that's the first time I hear you list all that [ __ ] and now what do you look for in a man so what I look for in a man is someone who knows himself and is someone who is consistent and someone who will value me okay so what are some of your deal breakers deal breakers honestly just someone who's not going to like put like who's not going to put me as a priority okay like I just need someone who's going to put me
as a priority got it like you can have a kid just as long as I'm a priority well that example was weird so I guess she wants to be the priority over the kid or maybe she just wants to be that's interesting you pop in the balloon oh if you had a kid you pop in oh even if I don't have a kid that's weird yeah weird that is weird if like I don't have a kid now and I'd be looking at her like that statement was wild that was that was that was definitely past
tra even if wait wait wait wait even if you have a kid I don't have to substitute [ __ ] it's my kid and it's a kid it can't just be on itself you're a grown ass woman you could be yeah no no no no no no no I don't have to you know what God says you put the you put your wife above your children when did he say that that's I'm almost certain that's a thing look for it okay wives so this is Ephesians 52224 State all right St yo Ephesians I'm not going
to lie man Bible chapters books got cool names okay odesus 3475 all right here we go wives submit yourselves onto your husbands as onto the Lord for the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church and he is a savior of the body therefore as the church is subject onto Christ so let the wives be onto their husbands in everything to put it another way if the wife is under the headship of her husband then her care for her children is really on his behalf and under his
Direction that's that's a bar I think and I've seen a lot of you know people who preach this stuff that say yeah yeah PR spouses should prioritize each other okay I love that [ __ ] a long ass time ago thanks for that no worries I'm about to get a visit from rousin yeah you very much brother you be be pring the word of the Lord during Ramadan too it's crazy all right uh let's not cause any drama let's continue this video Rea so I'm going to go ahead and have you ask these guys a
question just to kind of help you you know narrow down see who more who is more your type all that good stuff okay who has kids is that a Jailbreaker for you no it's yes like yes yes no it's not that yes it is let's find out is that a Jailbreaker for you no it's it cuz like you guys have priorities above me yeah just pop your balloon if you got kids pop it just pop it okay let's go over to those guys all right if we can have your name and age my name is
priest I'm 33 Okay priest what do you do I'm a comedian okay I love a comedian so we see you popped for the yes that [ __ ] Saucy Santana Shake she did a shimmy while [Music] she why are you doing so well why are you doing cuz my job as a comedian is my job is to [ __ ] watch people and see how they are know this [ __ ] yeah what's no she do she the most I love a comedian so we see you for the kids how many kids you got one
told you like bacon oh my God I love bacon [ __ ] is this okay let's head over here your name and age my name is Brian I'm 40 we seen Brian before oh yeah he's the one from the ghetto I'm not a surface level dating type of guy right I don't really care about your PS I'm from the ghetto I'm from New Orleans right okay he said it seven times yeah Louisiana Louis the animal yeah yeah I'm from the ghetto yeah I'm a nerd but I also like to read but I like to go
out I like to read um I'm from the ghetto but I am a nerd I like to go lounges right I like to go to museums I like to shoot guns but I like to make peace I like to have sex but I love to be a virgin yes that was the I love debt but I love being rich I'm from the ghetto we make bad decisions I don't judge how many babies you got how many baby daddi that was that dude social media social media agent yes okay how many kids you have I have
two how many baby daddies two two okay so you didn't think after the first one that you wanted to marry the next one okay my name is Brian and Brian is from the ghetto I'm speaking in the third person but I'm the first man I'm a complicated individual I'm country but I live in the city oh my God your country Brian what do you do I'm an aircraft mechanic for a major airline okay in Houston so I just came out here to meet you I had to pop cuz I do have a daughter she's 19
do you have any kids no okay how old are you above 30 above 30 mhm you're not confidence in it I'm waiting for my husband to have a kid okay she said she a bu 30 you're like say your age you're asking all these men's their age you can't even say yours like it's a problem you have all these barriers and these judgments about people and their kids and their age who he's too old and you're above 30 that gives me that you're like 36 you're 36 so wait do you want to meet a guy
in his like early 30s is that what this is you want to meet a guy like 5 six young I mean she can I don't even mind if she wanted meet a the same way dudes want to me the young that's fine but why don't you just say your age why you lying just on just say your age say your age say youre let's see that let's see that again how old are you above 30 above 30 mm you're not confidence in it I'm waiting for my husband to have a kid okay cuz I didn't
tell my age y'all yeah yeah if you asked everybody they [ __ ] age and disqualified them for it yeah why you say your age weirdo n you're a weirdo yeah you are we that's that's awesome how much you make how much you make you know a lady never describes her income that's fine that's okay it's cool it's cool it's cool I think you got to be confidence in your age it doesn't it doesn't really matter how old you are do our hot balloons over here if we can have your name and age absolutely my
name is Demetrius and I'm 36 years old and Demetrius what do you do I am a talent acquisition so Staffing or recruiter okay very nice see when I hear someone talk like that I feel like they work in a professional world yeah very simple title described what it is move the [ __ ] on whenever I hear somebody tell me they got five jobs I'm like you're unemployed or it just sounds diff complicated way of saying you broke or not making much money you're ashamed of whatever you do make so you got to compensate by
saying all this extra [ __ ] that's what I always think when someone lists four or five things that's me personally though or when I hear someone's an entrepreneur I feel like I hear so many people all right well what's the name of your LLC oh you don't don't have one how many people do you employ zero okay what's your gross income uh we're in the de I don't know there's like a proliferation of people who call themselves entrepreneur because they have a business idea and they've bought a course it's like God damn you haven't
even dipped your toes in yet and you call yourself a professional swimmer bar and now uh why did you end up popping your balloon exactly what he said uh I hate to say the lack of confidence in expressing the age okay we all over 30 over on this stage we don't mind you being over 30 we don't mind you being 40 we we came on the show to make sure that we find somebody that we connect with and and just being honest and just you know open upfront matters to men like you start a conversation
you're starting a relationship and then you're being vague it's like yo the point where the point we are right now I'm trying to know you and you can't even dis your age that's the tip of the iceberg that's nothing that's beginning that's high how are you I don't know how I'm feeling that's weird yep that's the beginning stage like what else are you going to be afraid of n be other than that you're you're very gorgeous and driven and I and I like that thank you and now is Demetrius someone that's your type I'm gonna
think she GNA say no because I think she getting salty you can see her body language all that happiness that she had earlier is fading um how old did you say you were 36 36 um I would actually have to get to know you a little bit more past what you just told me and you still went yo you have the audacity to still go and ask about people age when you can't even disclose yours and then be like M 36 I don't know I'd have to know you a bit more yo she got to
be the goofiest broad I've seen on show yo yo she goofy she don't even know it all righty so we did get another pop over here if we can have your your name and age I think everybody popped yeah my girl at the age that you are in the place that you live finding a man above 35 with no kids who wants somebody above 35 like you I mean someone that don't want to deal with their kids you you you you setting up yourself to be alone for a long time what do you mean she
going to be alone she got her podcast you know ever just looked at a mic and be like I'm so lonely but I'm glad I got you oh all right you good some days are tough no be honest should not even trying to be funny some days hard sorry being honest all right thank you I just want to preface that like this whole no kids thing y'all I just got of a two out of a two-year thing with somebody with kids that like never put me no hold hold up what did I say I said
this sounds like it comes from trauma I said that at the beginning you can see the way she prioriti High Stitch it's a lived experience and what happens is see this is the problem with people they have an experience like they date one Asian person the Asian person do I'm dirty I can't date Asian people anymore what is your name is Steve G my ex was a Steve yeah oh a Capricorn just your energy I'm I'm a Leo well she got hurt when everyone popped their balloon because you have to imagine right when she came
out nobody popped that means everyone looked at her and they're like we're interested it's when she started happen that they were like and that's a different kind of a blow because even when she was popping people's balloons she was happy oo and they were still and they were like yeah whatever it's cool until she kept yapping and then everyone's like no you're doing too much so you can see how people play themselves they carry the trauma from their past relationships into everything going forward and then they go there's no good men out there it's not
that there's no good men it's like lady you're pushing everyone away with your bad personality you need to go to therapy you need to get over where the [ __ ] happened and not go into every relationship thinking everything is going to replicate that just because there's certain commonalities that's like one dude that's one yeah if you don't feel like a priority with somebody who has a child it's not because the child is because they don't like you that much oh and I don't want you around that I I don't want to be if I
got a kid and you act like that like you you always you're competing with my kid it's a rap you're not there you're done you can I can never I can never show you my kid I'm going to take it a step further if someone has a child and they're making an effort with you that means that they're treating you like even more of a priority than someone who doesn't have a child and I'll explain why when you have a kid you have certain responsibilities that are pretty consistent and it's going to happen on a
cyclical manner then you have your job and whatever you got to do to support the situation that means your free time is only alloted to so much so if someone's taking that free time and most cuz they're not going to have much of it and spending it with you that means they are truly prioritizing you in their leisure time that's big whereas if I got no responsibilities I spend 3 days with you it don't mean that you that much of a priority I just have ample free time if that person really liked you they would
have tried they just didn't like you that much unless they got seven kids or something then maybe you have a case but I dig just keep going I just I feel like I'm like a little bit I don't know on guard can I say something towards that like um for me it's God first and then my wife you know and then the kids so [ __ ] that phone I just wanted to say I'm an honorary Christian I'm an honorary Christian bro I walk up in churches and people were like yo tea wine and bread
what's up bro I'm like thank you I appreciate that tea wine and bread yeah yeah yeah tea you are so proud God first stop playing with me you're obviously a bright shining like you walk in everyone light up the room right your personality is great but I think that when you're in a situation like this we've got to start with honesty but I really I really enjoy the way you're put together I love the colorful uh demeanor I think he's talking about that shimmy I love a comedian so we see you pop for the yes
that [ __ ] was colorful so that's it thank you I just want to preface one thing yeah I do a lot of brand deals oh shut your ass up we not here to your PR and if you lose a brand because you're 36 instead of 32 then [ __ ] that brand stop being a goddamn loser just own it they I do a age range so that's why I really didn't want my age on the internet I do understandable of course yeah yeah there's nothing wrong I was dating you you could definitely know my
age just letting you know but the internet like with like working with certain brands and stuff like and you know what I'll say this if that was really a thing for you and you couldn't disclose your age fine don't ask nobody about the age or don't [ __ ] mention it that's all I got to say what about you did you like this episode it was a good episode I prefer if you just shimmy so I can kind of get a oh I'm sorry yes there you go just when she walked in it was too
much it was right too much but that was me a I don't I don't have I don't have I don't think I have you're not ready for that afro Nubian energy no that's not what I'm saying stop stop doing that uh I don't have a tolerance a high tolerance for for when it's too much and stuff like that like I yeah I want I want it to be my piece and you like that that that I don't mind that's my [ __ ] right if you got to shimmy if you got to shimmy [ __
] do it right okay you know what I mean but don't just hey just you know what I mean if you got a shimy yo can someone replicate that that that that gif with sha and the cat yeah and then you got the cat in the back Wiggly yeah do the same I love a comedian so we see you PO for the yeah anyways um yeah that's all dope let us know what you guys think in the comments
