My Wife Insisted That I Cheat With Her Friend To Justify Her Own Affair With The Friend's Husband.

my wife insisted that I cheat with her friend to justify her own affair with the friend's husband I male 35 married Ellie female 34 5 years back we were working individuals and just an average couple we worked hard on the weekdays and got smashed on weekends that had been our life however it steadily changed over the last 3 months one Sunday we were just relaxing by ourselves when suddenly my wife started showing pictures of her friends and asked me to rate them I looked at her in Surprise she asked me to take it as a

sport it would be fun I took it as casual fun so we both indulged in this creepy activity of rating her friends I gave her the disclaimer that it was just for fun and that I didn't mean anything by it she patted me in assurance in that game I ended up giving the highest score to her friend Lily female 33 my wife and Lily were gym Partners before becoming friends later Lily's husband Joshua May 36 and I met and all four of us vibed along well we usually hung out together a couple of days later

out of the blue my wife asked me if I would sleep with Lily if given the chance I was taken aback I reminded her of the disclaimer I gave before playing the game I know how women are experts in building a castle out of thin air she calmed me down stating that she wasn't digging into me she said that if I found her hot I should get to explore with her I was stunned I clarified that I didn't find Lily hot it's just that she was better looking than most of Ellie's other friends I know

shallow but it was just a game she insisted for the next few days that I should at least have one wife wild encounter with Lily she reasoned that I would eventually hook up with her if I had any nudist feelings for her she thought it was better to satisfy my desire openly than to cheat behind her back I told her I never intended to sleep with Lily I'd never seen Lily in that light however she didn't seem to buy it at all a few days later on one of the weekends we were having a house

party at Lily's and Joshua's place it was just the four of us my wife and I Joshua and his wife Lily we were bored with the games and decided to have a movie night I don't know whose idea was to watch 2 plus2 but we ended up watching that crap for those who haven't watched this movie it's about couples swapping to spice up their relationship as the after effect of the film and the alcohol all four of us looked at each other to see if there could be a possibility of the same between us but

thank God nothing happened we all burst out in hysterical laughter I almost forgot that incident as soon as Monday kicked in however the same wasn't true for my wife a few days into the week while having a casual dinner table conversation she brought up our experience that night she hinted that it would have been great to try a couple swap I smirked and laughed at it thinking it was all a joke my laughter turned into shock when she said that she was serious I asked if she already had someone in mind to explore this idea

of a couple swap she said well we can explore with Joshua and Lily I looked seriously at her suggestion and said she couldn't be serious about that I declined it saying it would ruin two families ours and theirs she nodded and said that she wasn't that serious either but that movie had put an idea into her head and that she would get over it in a while I acknowledged it and moved on from that discussion however as time passed she insisted we spice up our married life it is understandable that after being together with the

same person for seven years sexual life does become routine but that's the game of marriage you trade off thrill for more meaningful feelings like stability love and care I asked her upfront if she wanted to have an open relationship she outright denied it suggesting all this just to strengthen our Bond and nothing else I assured her I loved her and didn't want to be with anyone else but her days passed but Ellie was stuck to her Point she didn't miss a single opportunity to give me a subtle hint that I should sleep with Lily one

evening Ellie came home excited from the gym she told me that she had spoken to Lily about my desire she was surprised to know that Lily and Joshua were also thinking about exploring their sexual life I flustered asked her what made her discuss this topic with Lily she said it was normal for women to discuss bed m with their friends I don't know guys maybe I'm just old school I'd never discussed mine with any of my guy friends I had done it in the past maybe in some casual relationship but never in detail especially about

my wife she added that she told Lily about how I thought she was hot and guess what Lily blushed she said this with a sheer sense of achievement I Shrugged and said it was normal for anyone to blush when they know that someone finds them hot but she said that maybe Lily also desired to hook up with me to be honest the way she pestered I said sense that something was fishy so I sleuthed through her phone I checked her chats and social media accounts but it was all clean except for spam messages from some

random guy I felt guilty for suspecting her Ellie has a very cheerful and bubbly personality who likes to speak her heart without a filter and I loved her for that I was actually being awful to her since the time she started nagging me to sleep with Lily upon finding her phone to be clean I hated myself for being mean to her I thought she loved me to the extent that she was okay with letting me sleep with someone else I felt blessed over the next month we regularly met Joshua and Lily over drinks or dinner

sometimes at our houses and other times outside it was just as usual however what was unusual was that I actually felt infatuated with Lily and there were several reasons for that whenever we met Ellie would subtly tease me and sometimes Joshua would join in teasing me while Lily blushed all the while with intense eye contact I mean who wouldn't get butterflies in this situation but every time this conversation came up I made it clear that I didn't intend to put my finger on Lily literally the reason why I'm writing this is because I'm in a

fix now next week we have a long weekend because the bank holiday falls on a Friday my wife and Lily had planned for all of us to get a mini vacation at a beach resort we've done this kind of mini trip with Joshua and Lily before but it is different this time my wife Ellie insists I sleep with Lily on this vacation I adamantly declined but she says she can always Retreat if things get uncomfortable I asked Ellie what if she gets hurt and possessive about it she said that we can't know our true selves

until we try I don't know what to do I would be lying if I said I'm not thrilled but I'm equally nervous this could ruin my marriage but my wife thinks it will help us Bond well she says that it is way more common than I think I know the couples try out different means to spice up their life but no one talks about it openly so I don't know how it works looking for suggestions from people who have explored this and how the experience was should we really involve a third human being to spice

up our life let's see what the community thinks when asked for advice Soul tip 43 says dude run away she's cheating on you already she's trapping you to come out clean max out 0000 says I second you dude she's already banging someone bro take my advice and have fun with Lily your marriage is already over better to fulfill your lust wonder who says in my opinion if your wife has come out clean you can give it a shot and see if you like it she's kind of right we Tred different means to spice up our

sex life of course if both Partners consent I see you're thrilled to experience this why not try it oh yep the comments are right she's already cheating on you and is looking for you to do it too as an excuse to continue cheating on you if you do it that means she can do it right wrong it's so she feels less guilty about what she's doing she's trying to drag you into her own nastiness yeah an open relationship is fine if you both agree to it but not so the other person gets away with cheating

update date one hey people you know what you guys were right she was indeed cheating on me already after getting some sound advice from a few of you I decided to play along and see where it led of course I didn't want to sleep with Lily but I pretended in front of Ellie that I was okay with trying this I wanted to see what would unfold once I consented to her she was delighted that I had finally agreed on the supposed weekend all four of us drove to the resort which was 60 Mi away on

the way while Ellie and Joshua were enjoying the scenic Beauty I noticed Lily was lost and nervous for most of the journey I was also not feeling great but I was somehow faking it I had no evidence of Foul Play just my gut feeling I couldn't pass the verdict just based on my instincts it was Friday and we reached there somewhere in the afternoon the plan was to sunbathe until the evening attend a party arranged by The Resort and later we would explore our darkest fantasies in short it was all arranged for me and Lily

to hook up after freshening up we relished a decadent lunch and spent the rest of the afternoon slumbering Under the Sun I tried speaking to Lily privately but she didn't acknowledge that she was uncomfortable she smirked saying she was looking forward to the night the party was wild but I tried to stay in control to be alert for the next action plan sensing my anxiety and alertness Joshua comforted me saying it was all fine and that Lily wanted to have fun with me she was attracted to my physique now that I know the truth I

feel disgusted at his move I didn't know what time it was when we left the party and I found myself in a room room with Lily we both sat awkwardly for I don't know how long she broke the ice and asked how we should start I asked if we really needed to she stared at me with a confused look I asked her if she really wanted to sleep with me she admitted that she had a slight crush on me but never wanted to sleep with me until her husband Joshua planted this idea in her head

I said something was wrong so I asked her again if she wanted to sleep with me I was dumbfounded to hear that she was manipulated in a similar way as I was it started with Ellie telling her about the game in which I rated Lily the highest Ellie also told Lily we were seeking ways to spice up our married life the same day Joshua came home and said he felt blessed to have such a desirable wife that even I wanted to make it hot with her Lily thought I told Joshua all about this but it

wasn't me it was of course Ellie who had told him or it was just their plan since then Joshua had been planting the idea in Lily's mind he asked her if she would like to make out with me she denied it multiple times but he said that it would spice up and strengthen their relationship she admitted that she liked my physique but not to the extent that she would sleep with me I cleared the air that I never wanted to sleep with her I narrated my side of the story and she was shocked because all

she knew until then was that I wanted her by then we knew that it was them Lily asked Joshua whether he and Ellie would do something similar to which he denied it he said he wanted Lily to experience at first and if everything went well he'd think about it I remember not conversing with Ellie because I didn't want to enter this game I told her I suspected Ellie of cheating when she pestered me for the hookup and checked her phone but it came out clean we decided that it was the best time to uncover the

truth I wanted to bang open the room and confront them immediately but Lily insisted on catching them red-handed she was adamant about ruining them so on the night we were supposed to be hooking up we devised a plan to destroy Ellie and Joshua they were supposed to be outside waiting for us we knew they wouldn't indulge in anything at that point because we could quit at the last moment and walk out of the room they couldn't take the risk so when we both went out we saw them watching something on the iPad they were sitting

cozy but not intimate we said we had changed our minds and didn't want to hook up both turned pale they asked us what the reason was for backing out I said we didn't feel quite right it wasn't supposed to be forced they ran short of words to express their disappointment I told them my client requested a sudden meeting the next day so we would have to leave early I asked Ellie to continue the vacation with l and Joshua but none of them wanted to stay any longer we drove back home the next morning all four

of us were silent for most of the time during the return Journey after returning home I changed and left the house I drove to a coffee shop away from the house after an hour of leaving I got a call from Lily that Joshua had also left the house citing some urgent work we both knew what his critical work was Lily said she had asked her other friend to follow Joshua and would update me about their location rightly so they were found at my house house while leaving I told Ellie I'd come home late in the

evening and they couldn't miss the opportunity I hurriedly drove back to pick up Lily raging angrily to catch the duo red-handed I used my key to unlock the apartment and they were lying naked Lily was Swift to capture their photos while they struggled to wrap themselves up I raced into the room threw Ellie's belongings outside the apartment and asked her to leave the house immediately they both pleaded with us to listen to them Joshua kept saying they were trying to experiment like we did the night before I pulled him by his collar and asked since

when he was F my wife Ellie tried to free him but I pushed her away he said that it was the first time they had explored I choked him harder grinding my teeth asking for a confession I stared at Ellie with red eyes and said I didn't mind rotting in jail by killing this parasite I made it clear that either of them confessed the truth or I would strangle Joshua Ellie agreed while howling and begging me to stop they confessed that they had been having an affair for over a year they were seen Hand inand

by two of my friends and one of Lily but fortunately for them none informed us of anything however Joshua and Ellie were scared of being exposed someday so they plotted to involve us eventually in the game of couple swap and legalize their adultery I asked her how her phone was clean when I checked it she sobbed and admitted that they used to communicate only through emails which she used to sign in only when required they didn't chat often and used the email to communicate regarding the time and location of their meetups it was just a

cold physical relationship between Ellie and Joshua Lily left the house after hearing everything Joshua followed her I asked Ellie to leave the house immediately she tried to hug me sobbing and pleading with me I made it clear that reconciliation was not on the table she tried to fool me but I couldn't let her run over me she left the house only when I threatened to involve her parents I messaged Lily to send me the pictures she had taken of them I forwarded those to Ellie's sister and told her everything she confirmed that Ellie didn't go

to her parents house after a week I emailed her the divorce papers since I don't know her location the lawyer sent the physical copy to her parents house they called me in a panic I looped in Ellie's sister on the call and asked her to narrate everything after receiving the email Ellie spammed my phone with her pleadings she used to send me messages earlier asking for reconciliation but the frequency increased after the email Lily on the other hand involved her parents in the matter Lily's father was a businessman and Joshua handled one of his business

units so when the truth came out Joshua was kicked out of work and Lily's father used all his connections to block every possible job for Joshua in his field it's been a month since D-Day my divorce proceedings are ongoing Ellie is contesting it asking for a share in my house I'm distraught with the cheating and the way the duo tried to involve Us in the dirty game I'll update if anything else develops consider this the final one here a couple of comments XY says kudos for coming out strong sue her for manipulating you and Lily

into that crap pit felt satisfied to see Joshua screwed by the father-in-law EXA 09 says impressive to see cheaters managing their phones so well so next time you search for evidence look for emails there it is everything oh yep there you go they both wanted to feel better about what they were doing by having both of you in on it too it's unfortunate to think that they thought they could manipulate both of you into their Twisted little game poor Lily update 2 I didn't think of updating this but I have some news I know some

of you would expect Lily and me to get together no that didn't happen like I mentioned earlier neither I nor Lily wanted to hook up we both were just fools to be manipulated into it but gladly we escaped at the last minute my divorce got settled and Ellie didn't get a penny my lawyer argued that if she claimed a share of the property we would also revise the divorce terms and claim alimony for my mental distress I tell you if you pay your lawyers well enough they can bargain for good returns she gave up and

signed the papers I don't remember if I mentioned that Joshua was working at his father-in-law's company and with this news he was kicked out he wasn't able to secure any decent paying job in his field after leaving my house Ellie rented a dingy apartment where she offered Joshua to stay with her however he declined stating that his father-in-law would destroy him further besides he never loved her Ellie was living under the illusion that Joshua loved her but he didn't Joshua clarified that it was all for fun without any strings attached as per their initial agreement

these Revelations came out during Lily's divorce where Joshua confessed that he was manipulated by Ellie he never loved her he loved Lily he begged Lily and her father for one last chance but they rebuked him and forced him into a divorce it didn't hurt me to see my ex-wife getting exposed and humiliated in the courtroom I felt Justice was served hot as she deserved she was abandoned by everyone she knew her husband her lover her friend and her family her parents and siblings despise her I don't know about her work status but this kind of

news spreads like wildfire I wanted to send those pictures to some of her colleagues as well but I held back I don't know about her present status but I know she can't afford her previous lifestyle with her income she jeopardized our stable relationship for a cheap thrill and now got what she deserved I have enrolled in counseling I was getting disturbing thoughts about the night Ellie had planned for my hookup the therapy is helping me move on but I think it will take some more time to mentally wipe her out my friends insist I meet

other women but I don't think I'm ready to date any advice or tips is highly appreciated thanks so much the manipulator becomes manipulated honestly they got caught up in their desire and it killed them if they were having thoughts of being together just for fun there are ways of communicating that to your partner to actually start a consensual open relationship but both parties have to be on the same page it's unfortunate that she did what she did and she turned out to be someone you didn't know I'm sorry op but I'm glad you and Lily

both stuck with your gut and didn't move forward with something that made you both extremely uncomfortable the situation could have ended up so much worse what would you have done if your partner asked you to rate their friends would you question it right away let us know what you'd pick out as red flags in the comments below and thank you for joining us today be sure to like And subscribe and hit that notification Bell so you don't miss out on our next video we'd hate for you to miss out until next time